Is this true about men & “masculine” women?

[hickszn]

Your trauma isn’t always your fault but it’s always your responsibility

[SC_]

Everyone should resolve personal issues before entering a relationship

[Wilmorgrandexter]

I love a man that can handle himself and hold his own. He wasn't even combative about it

[jenniferrivera]

And this is def why we should heal before entering a relationship. It is no one's responsibility to heal u but urself. He is speaking truth. We can't expect something we ain't putting out ourselves

[CEODeshayla]

The spirit of division is running rampant in our community. We refuse to work together and help each other heal. It’s sad 😞 It’s spiritual warfare and many don’t see it.

[NunyaNomi]

Submitting to your husband simply means he will shoulder your burdens with you or for you. It actually frees you from anxiety, stress, and doubt and has nothing to do with control or domination over the wife. Let him help and lead you.

[quietone]

Facts, I don't get into a relationship to be a therapist. Facts bro.

[B_Giselle]

I can respect this. An honest man who has no time to take on pain he is unable to heal.

[colacole]

What I love is that he knows what he wants.

[SusieQ]

That last one! Picking battles is key. A lot of times you have to handle things quietly, with a gentle spirit. Not everything is worth fighting over. Then when you do choose something important to fight about, you will be taken seriously and listened to. The last thing you should want is to be contentious or quarrelsome. That will drive men away so fast!

[kaftansnob]

I actually agree with him. We ALL need to do the work from the inside out and come into relationships whole and healed. Men AND women.

[sonyarivers]

This was treasure taken out of the trunk, we must heal when we are broken from another relationship so you don't bring that baggage in the next one.

[jonnygraham]

They stopped arguing once he said “you wouldn’t care if I was 38 with excuses”
Damn

[acer]

In other words, handle the childhood luggage before traveling into an adult relationship so that you bring your best self into it without weighing yourself and another down.

[sirmayse]

When choosing a partner, it is not my responsibility to fix them. It is my responsibility to decide if they are compatible with me. Broken people hurt people. I dont desire to bring those problems in my inner circle

[-God-Truth-Life-Forever]

My Daddy raised me to be a strong, Independent woman. More importantly, he raised me to act like a Lady that appreciates a good man.

[SerenityIsMe]

Wow that's the best definition and explanation I've heard a man articulate since 2020 when this topic became a part of the algorithm. I'm really impressed how mature he answered and the no nonsense in his voice. HE DID THE WORK! HE KNOWS HIS WORTH! If you want a man of his brain weight you have to do the same. I would love to hear his point of view on many subjects. Definitely a man to learn from in many ways.

[Envlo]

She was quick to deflect before he could even finish his sentence. Some people get so uncomfortable with the truth. Just sit down and absorb it

[sweetheartluv]

I am a Masculine woman. My father died at 10 years old. My mother had 5 girls and we all had to protect each other. Every man I had was shocked how I could be romantic and masculine at the same time. Help and protect him, pay bills, buy cars and still love him. I did this from a young girl but because I lost my father, I respect and love good men like my father was.

[LM-tvit]

Facts! Everyone needs to clean up their own side of the street. And if y'all ain't ready for a relationship, stop playing with people until you heal yo shi!