The Crucial Role of Fathers: Tough Love

Children thrive with both parents because they receive unconditional love from their mother and a critical, high standard from their father.

A father's role is to push them to be better, to strive harder, and to develop resilience.

Men who reject this crucial aspect of fatherhood may struggle with criticism and lose touch with their masculinity.

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[BreakupBounce]

Children thrive with both parents because they receive unconditional love from their mother and a critical, high standard from their father.

A father's role is to push them to be better, to strive harder, and to develop resilience.

Men who reject this crucial aspect of fatherhood may struggle with criticism and lose touch with their masculinity.

[leamontoweh]

Society should never underestimate the enormous value of a two parent household.

[davidoftheforest]

my dad was a badass CAF 2RCR sniper veteran. He was the kindest, most capable and competent man ive ever met. Literally anything! gardening? painting houses? mechanical? electrical? he grew up poor so he had to learn to handle things on his own from his father. He understood that I was terrible at math because he was, too. We'd sit at the table and struggle with grade 9 math. We'd fail and start over, fail and start over. Id try to give up and he'd say "No, sit down, dont get frustrated, try it again" and eventually mom would come in and solve the problems lol. Dad taught me so much. You can suck at something but that doesn't give you an excuse to quit. You dont have the option of giving up, so, you better find a way or make one because it isnt over until its done. Whatever it is. He was the only human being in my life that absolutely would NOT GIVE UP on me under any circumstances. He taught me that family is all we have in this life. Unconditional love.

[sobhankb]

I used to keep a distance with my father when i was growing up
I used to think how come maa is so much appreciative and Dad is just so critical, i used to think he didnt care about my feelings.
Now that i've grown up, I make sure to give my dad the tighest hug and a kiss on the forehead to let him know how much i love him and appreciate him.
He raised me to be a better man than he was and he walks the earth letting everyone he meets know how proud he is of the man his son became in life.
Being a Dad is a thankless job.
Do your best to appreciate them.

[numskulltheory]

I grew up without a father, biggest thing I was missing in my life is someone who loved me that also told me I was being dumb and need to do better.
I think a lot of people with fathers don't realize even a lazy, average dad is so much remarkably more beneficial than no father.

[danielcastillo]

The point of a father is to bring the children into reality.Yes i said it.

[TheRealDavidJones]

I value my mother’s love and my father’s direction. I’d be lost without both.

[abolfazlperyaee]

So true the lack of masculinity is root of lot of problems

[hipreference]

Fathers are a civilizing force in a young person’s life

[jacobpacker.realtor]

Someone once told me their guiding principal when raising their kids was “From the ages of 0-7 Your main focus should be to be patient, loving, listen to them make them feel safe, loved (Think how would Christ speak to a child) from ages 8-15 teach and distill in them the Value of hard work, Responsibility, gratitude, being positive and other character attributes that make a great Man/Woman, from 16-100+ be their Friend and that parent they feel they can come to when life gets hard because it will get hard.

When I heard this advice, it just made sense to me. I hope it helps someone else out there. Parenting is not easy, but so rewarding!

[bcgodwin]

Keep spreading the word! You speak the truth! ALL FACTS!!!

[jacksavage]

I miss my Dad so much., he was a great man of God .

[markvirgo]

Its so much more than just having two parents of mom and dad.
The love of our heavenly father and good morals and values with respect for the home and teachers in schools is very important for a childs development.😊

[gilbertfanfan]

This is 100% spot on. The only thing I will say having had a dad like that is if that's the only thing you ever get from your dad you get this idea that not matter what you do you'll never be good enough. When they keep moving the goal post or change the rules every time so that you don't win in order to keep you "humble" can also lead to a disconnect. You have to build the self esteem first to able to withstand the sorts of coaching or parenting that come with these types of fathers.

[MalachiJustice-xe]

They need to put this on TV. Put it on the news from the radio put it in movies and play it over and over men need to be in the house where they are little boys because men explain to them more from you. I’m so glad to hear you say this sister

[fatimab]

I met that man and it was too much, he took absolutely everything I said as a criticism. This is spot on Sadia! ❤

[goodluckspeshi]

As a lone child that grew up, with a single mum, this is very help.
Thank you for this❤

[jessnoby]

My dad is the biggest gigachad I have seen in my life. He expects me to be great on all aspects and is very critical of my actions and has such a high standard of me. That has let me have so much self-respect and self-control and a drive to be better. Sometimes you need someone to tell you to become better.

[MarioGonzalez-krus]

This needs to be put on billboards across America

[montananana]

This describes all the men being raised in single mothers homes