Why men have no business treating women like Queens,marrying young & accepting unrealistic standards

Do you think it’s true women will easily forgive a cheating wealthy man and quickly divorce a poor man? Do you also think men have no business marrying early and should highly prioritize building their finances rather than engaging in relationships where they invest so much in a woman who will leave them at some point?

Do you also think toxic masculinity is a myth?

Well, do share your thoughts on today’s conversation where we host Unplug author, Jacob Aliet

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[estherkolango]

If you first passed by the comment section before listening to this story

[charitykemunto]

My take from this conversation is;
There’s nothing wrong with a woman being career oriented.
A man needs to be moulded into strong man with authority and confidence. When the right woman comes into his life, she will naturally submit. She will naturally feel safe and protected. She will naturally feel at peace and loved.
So the society needs to invest in raising strong willed men who will not be trumped upon and diminished.

[kid_dekah]

Man this guy is our Kenyan top G 🎉 Stoic to the core

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‘You cannot negotiate genuine desire’. ~Jacob Aliet ~

[solokiguru]

Best conversation I have seen on Youtube this year… Do more of such Lynn. The men in this generation need to hear men who they can relate to talk about things they can relate to.

[Shizniz]

This man is telling us what reality need the book

[rachelfaraja]

He should come back and teach us how to raise the young boys so that they don't end up in this mess. I have listened to the entire conversation and its quite thought provoking and kaukweli flani hapo 😊

[VinceMatinde]

Guys! Please know your mate, know who you are marrying and why. Just don't take generalization as gospel truth. Seek marriages that have lasted and you will find out, some of the things you are being fed are not the full truth. Truth sometimes is not glamorized or romanticized. If you base your whole marriage around finances and that's the only thing that counts remember money comes, money goes. Dear Lord!

[mercyk]

I've never been treated like a queen. In fact I'm usually the one treating a man like a king and contributing the most financially, emotionally, etc. I don't know why I attract men who need help, I always wanted a man like my dad, hardworking, reliable, a great provider, protector, etc. After dealing with needy, selfish men for many years, I decided never to date again. I've been single and celibate for 14 years. I'll never look back.

[shelmithmumbi]

He is making very valuable points....My own uncle educated a certain lady and was left now turned drunkard....People will never understand some things until it hits home

[mahalia]

“A man’s cheating doesn’t destroy a home” was a saying a heard and resented all through my growing up years in Zambia, it made me decide, I would never stay with a man who has no discipline on who and where he takes his clothes off.

[mariamcatherine]

His talking the truth if you listen very carefully to him you will understand that his talking what is absolutely right kabisa I agree with him, my gal Lynn uko juu tu Sana

[boazwambua]

At least once in this show we have a man that speaks sense to the young men in this country. Men should guard their frame.

[jamesmwangi]

Jacob need to be protected 24/7 by the government, he's full of blessings to men in society, he says what many fear to say, we celebrate you Sir, spread the word

[elvisngaji]

The last time I was this glued to the Screen was in 2007 December when watching election results. The conversation was Powerful and very interesting. I loved how he was giving supporting evidence in each case. I hope all men will get this link. Kudos LNN and Aliet

[kandisphere]

Someone explain to me why men want traditional women but do not want to be traditional men. They want us to be traditional in doing chores and serving them, but still we become modern by paying part of the bills. If they are told to be 100% providers and care for a woman, they would not. So, they want a traditional wife taking on modern responsibilities, while they only stay only modern in their paying of bills.

[roselynmuchiri]

@ Jacob....Respecting and honoring women as equals isn't about spoiling or complimenting them—it's about recognizing their inherent worth and value in society. The era of viewing women as mere complements to men is outdated. Treating women like queens means acknowledging their autonomy, capabilities, and contributions.

[planespottingKe]

We are complicating Marriage. Marriage is basically getting a life partner who is coming to make your life bearable.

[gloriawawire]

This man is speaking the truth but this needs maturity to understand.