How Benny Blanco Won Over Selena Gomez | PEOPLE

Benny Blanco shares his guide to being a gentleman and how he won over Selena Gomez, from how to plan the perfect date to how to find your personal style. “I go all out for every date. We go all out for each other,” he says. Benny opens up about his experience dating Selena Gomez, revealing a sweet and personal gesture: “I found her favorite pickles from Texas and I deep-fried them for her. It doesn’t mean spending your entire bank account. It means being attentive and listening to the person.” In this video, Benny shares his personal tips on how to make anyone feel special, why thoughtful gestures mean more than expensive gifts, and what it truly takes to be a modern-day gentleman.

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How Benny Blanco Won Over Selena Gomez | PEOPLE

[shanshan]

Y’all can say whatever you want about his looks….but this guy has a heart of gold. He seems to wear his heart on his sleeve. Selena deserves someone as beautiful as she is inside. A love that can be reciprocated is beautiful and they seem to have it. I love this for them!

[dannienewt]

I’m so happy for Selena. She deserves this kind of love and appreciation. Never thought I’d be a Benny fan but here I am

[ZAmerica]

The way in the end how he talks about the SICK games ppl play initially and not texting after a date or ghosting etc wow the way he said “I’d think about my mom. Would I want anyone doing that to her? No. Why would I ever do that to someone?” He is a REAL ONE. NO GAMES, NO IMMATURITY, REAL SOUL.

[frances]

I can understand why Selena fell in love with you Benny..You're a good man ❤❤

[b.unicornette]

Benny understood the assignement. Everything he explained shows how sweet, heart gifted and real he is. The fact he immediately thinks about how he would treat his mom when coming to Sel. That's a king.

[mylissagibson]

Every woman needs a Benny! He's the sweetest!

[cheryl]

HE IS WHAT EVERY PARENT PRAYS for their daughter congrats to them❤

[chatwithanns]

Benny aced it...Chivalry isn't dead and neither are good guys. Glad to see Selena got one of them! #sweet

[pixiedust]

He seems like just the most genuine human being.

[kilenacoste]

Omg! They're perfect for each otherrrr ❤

[Beansprout.]

His attention to even the smallest detail about Selena is just unbelievable.
Benny is really one in a million and I am so happy for Selena.
5 yrs of being single was indeed worth it.

I just saw Sel's IG post, they're engaged! OMG. ❤

[Tzgirl]

I can now see why she loves this MAN! congratulations! Best wishes for yr future together.

[thefamouspeopleus]

This guy truly knows how to bring his unique flair to everything he does!

[tatianahernandez]

Wow Benny’s mom is gorgeous. And he seems to have such a heart of gold. Not that I ever thought he was a bad guy but I never knew much of him other than people hating on him when they got together. I’m glad they seems to be a great fit for each other.

[DTheProducer]

Listening to Benny it's easy to realize why he's got SO MANY number 1s. HE'S A GREAT LISTENER!

[jackcrackalinpop]

I love him! He’s such a wholesome human being that seems accepting of others and want to give out his heart to them. It’s lovely that they both found each other because they both have big hearts. They will definitely pour into each other cups! This is so fresh to see!

[Poliina]

The fact that I started smiling after 30 seconds perfectly explains why him)) Benny, you’re amazing

[GrannySkeksis]

This man is a dreamboat. Congrats to him and Selena ❤❤💍💍💫💫

[snakh]

Shout out to his mother to raise a gentleman

[memorympambela]

We all deserve a Blanco, I am happy for Selena God is great.😍😍😍