Why Women PUNISH Men Who COMMIT and REWARD Men Who Won't

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[nomadman]

I hope men really pay attention to the part about the problem being the fear of loss or the attachment to the outcome and not the commitment itself, because it also applies to men before they're even with anyone. When men are attached to an outcome with a woman, they end up trying too hard, sometimes to the point where they are actually afraid to say something wrong. (This is another issue with the "nice guy.") This is the same problem that men with commitments have. As LFA said, when you feel you have something to lose and you act that way, you won't make that joke; you won't tease her quite the same way; you won't risk crossing that line you have in your head; you won't be willing to be honest enough to put her in her place, and when she senses this weakness, it turns her off.
It's like you're playing the "prevent" defense and the other team can just march down the field without much resistance, whereas before, you were tough and strong, willing to take that penalty if it meant playing your best. Don't go into a "prevent" defense; it prevents you from being as strong as you could be. Be willing to take a penalty from time to time just so that they know that you're willing to. I don't know why I turned this into a football analogy, but it worked pretty well, I think.

[JBakk]

Becoming emotionally attached to a women is the worst thing that's ever happened to me in life. You feel powerless and afraid of losing her. And when you lose her you're completely heart broken and it's the worst pain in the world. It's a bad position to be in. Avoid it if you can.

[jasherbelton]

This is true. It sucks because most women DO enjoy being treated this way. But there is a reason. A lot of it has to do with how they were raised at home by their father or lack thereof. The average father will tell their daughter to sit down, shut up, don’t be promiscuous, and be pretty while they sit back in a lazy boy to watch the football game until they rebel. This is why most women treat inconsistent engagement from men like gold. Because they’ve been ignored most of their lives. And it tricks them into thinking that’s what love is.

[alchemicalsoul]

Men and women are here having human experience. The key is to remember you are a soul learning to just "be" and expand consciousness.
True, unconditional love starts within you. You will attract a woman loving herself when you do the same. You are here to learn to find love inside of you. Everything else is ego. Partnership is two beings who love themselves and sharing the love of your individual lives. Learn the way. Non-attachment simply means you know love is always available. No mind fuckery necessary.

[asierglobal]

LFA watching your videos from Spain! Keep it up✌🏻

[varislizbovskis]

It's so true about twoedged sword. There are planty of guys who are in happily relationships. These are guys who know how to walk this edge. They are no weakmen who are walked over by their women. They are men who are able to be masculine and stand their ground but at same time they are also kind and caring and can be a niceguy when needed.

[TheRedDevil_NC]

Women have no control over a man until she marries or has kids with him. Once they get that control they treat you as they please because what they want can change in a heartbeat and they get a financial reward .

I was married with kids. I was a good father and husband. I walked away. She forced it because she had control and over played her hand. As a man you have to know when to fold them as you say.

Men lose because we want families and kids so you can go from the guy who won’t commit to the guy who does . Your behavior does not change just the classification in her eyes does. That is beyond messed up and why there are so many broken families

If you don’t want kids with a woman don’t ever marry ., if you do then be prepared for transactional relationship where the mother of your kids becomes someone you never speak to post break up.

For most men now having kids isn’t worth it and as we age a woman can’t offer anything that allows her any type of control so who cares how she acts. It’s you younger guys who I feel sorry for.

[henrywade]

LFA,

Definitely way more complicated when you have kids, you’re absolutely correct.
Love your content man! Keep up the good work

[GoNi.E]

Listen to LFA closely on this one fellas. Truth.

[DavidGuy-zz]

Great video just listened to it with my slice of moist ! You hit it out of the park

[AAYZ]

When I open comment section, I find many comment that show they ain't got your point. But I completely got it😁.

Nice advice as always, will very useful fer my relationship. Thank's LFA✊

[HARRY-bqfi]

Thanks am enjoying your positive energy

[NoirExistence]

Great timing for this in my life yet again.

[jadizm]

It's Friday! Drinking a beer, might smoke some hay but not before I watch some LFA!

[TheOne-dh]

LFA do the livestreams again, we miss you 🫡🎥

[ndndndnnduwjqams]

Here are 3 actionable steps to become happier based on the information from that video:

1. Maintain Your Masculine Edge (Even in Commitment)

Stay playful, flirty, and dominant with your woman, even if you're in a serious relationship.

Don't become passive or overly accommodating — keep showing the traits that attracted her in the first place.



2. Balance "Game" — Know When to Lead and When to Chill

Like a sports game, sometimes you play offense (lead, tease, dominate), and sometimes defense (listen, care, avoid unnecessary conflict).

Learning this balance keeps the relationship exciting and maintains mutual respect.



3. Keep the Willingness to Walk Away (Emotionally Centered)

Even if you're committed, never act as if your entire worth depends on her.

By maintaining self-respect and independence, you naturally create a dynamic where attraction can thrive — and you’ll feel more confident and happy within yourself.




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[weskerEverKnight]

Thanks I need strong men behind my back.

[silentwalk]

My narcissistic son split me and my wife up after 28 years she was more of a friend to him then a mother and she listens to what he says on the contrary I would say you're 100% correct 💯😅

[LimitlessJay]

just stay on your toes just like in a sports game. You walk on egg shells after you secure her and lose that idgaf factor you had before you secured her and she’s gonna burn you. Same way if you act timid to hit the hole in football. You’re gonna get molly whopped by a linebacker if you don’t just run through the hole and not give af.

[huwatereys]

And vice versa. Some men lose interest too