This is what will happen if you call the affair partner

Most of the time, when you call, it’s going to go poorly. For the most part, the less you engage with the affair partner, the better. What are your thoughts? #affairrecovery

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[tangobear]

The problem is not the AP; the problem is your partner.

[georgevue]

I sent my wife's affair partner a text from her phone and told him I was moving out & her + the kids were all his. I moved out and their relationship immediately imploded.

[Hopium]

I textthe AP and told her “don’t ever text my husband again.” Then I called and she wouldn’t answer so I left a message telling her she is total trash. She is 2xs divorced, was at our church, tried to mess with every married man who would let her. I didn’t find out about their games until we had been gone a few years. It went on for at least 8 years of texting games. Emotional garbage. 7th grade promises, please don’t ever unfriend me, delete me, block me. So pathetic. Grown up people playing games like this. Sick. I’m here for now, not sure it’s going to be forever with someone this weak and treacherous pretending their on my side.

[kerrymillar]

I sent an email to the AP asking her if she’d been having sex with my partner. She ignored me completely. She knew we had a 4 year old and had met us both. These people don’t have a normal moral compass in the first place.

[laurapotier]

Don't bother with the trash affair partner. If that person is married or in a relationship, contact that person. They have every right to know for their own personal health and truth.

[daphnemcmullen]

I talked to one (not knowing about the 24 prior or of the 4 others at the time), but she came clean and sent proof. She did not know he was married. She lost it and even allowed a phone call when he came home that night, so his lies had to stop with her. I truly appreciated that knowing I was unknown was a relief in some crazy way.

[mallorystewart]

Why talking to them? They have no moral, no heart, not respect, they're horrible people. You won't get the truth from them.

[IT_BABE]

I drove to the affair partner's house with him and blew the car horn. He told her i found about the affair 12years later...this was in 2022. She apologized. I also emailed her. She responded to my questions. Some answers are true and others are lies. Im still with him for now but have plans to divorce.

[billcarney]

My wife was cheating with a man at work. I called his home. His wife answered. I told her what was going on in ONE sentence. She blurted out
'I KNEW IT! (she had a month prior given birth to a baby girl) Within a few days, lover boy quit his job where my wife worked which was
probably due to an ultimatum from his wife. I also called my wife's parents, as well as some close mutual friends, and told them.
By the end of the year we were divorced. I realize now that I did all of the wrong things then but at that time I was in 'Rambo Mode'.
The cheating husband stayed with his wife until she died (young) about twenty years later. I and my ex-wife both have since remarried.

[knoxcecilia]

I never contacted the AP but she spent over a year finding ways to contact me and be verbally abusive. It became worse after the affair ended. Eventually I appealed to her employer as she was using the business phone among others. Sent some of the cruder and crueller stuff to him. That seems to have put a stop to her nonsense

[basilleavesandhoneybees]

I spoke to the AP and she was scared to death, after threatening to tell my daughter on social media for years and also, calling my phone and laughing in the background multiple times. I had the last laugh! Her daughter said she went through 20 plus years of therapy, because if her mother. How pathetic! Also, affair down??? Omg! Totally! In looks, intellect, socio economical means, etc!