Run Clubs Are The New Dating Apps | Brett Cooper

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[JimmyMFP]

It’s almost as though meeting organically through a shared interest is a natural way to develop a relationship. Who knew?

[Buddy]

At least people are getting off the internet to meet people in person again that's a positive.

[SIMPLYDEVON]

for 23 i never learned that now after 3 months going to a muay thai gym I'm impressed how easy it actually is to Communicate with people

[dinodancer]

I was a running coach for 20 years for these types of clubs. This was a great way for some singles to meet. There are about 70/30 women/men. Better dating atmosphere for the guys than for the girls. For the guys, the rule of thumb was, if she looks remotely cute post run imagine what she will look like cleaned up. A lot of socializing happened not only during the run but afterwards at breakfast, or at a pub on the patio if it was an evening run, out of town for big race events, and more. There were lots of marriages, dating, affairs, etc. I could go on.

[jacquelinewestbrook]

I joined a run club a few months ago with the intention of supporting a more disciplined running routine and to stay accountable to others. That’s exactly what I found. There is no judgement or cute outfits or fancy shoes and there sure as heck isn’t any intentions beyond running with a community. That being said, I know of several run clubs that are hot spots for singles to meet and have created this type of expectation when it comes to “run clubs”. I’m fortunate to have found a true run club that is safe and non judgemental and has improved my life significantly. There are still well-intentioned clubs out there!

[naomigreasley]

When you’re 47 this is how you used to meet people in your twenties. It’s called having a hobby! You do something you like and actually engage face to face with others, without the sleaze of an app and awkward endless texts.

[ELY]

They are third spaces. Humans seek a third (one that is not work or home) on which to socialize or build relationships. One where there are established social norms and behaviors.

This has been a part of humans for most our history. So people have started to expand on places/communities/locations as “third spaces” organically. We saw it with gyms. We see it with churches. We see it with community centers. Even with parents and children playgrounds.

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“Much unseen is also here” Whitman said.

[ipleadthefifth]

I DO NOT RUN. Listened to this episode this morning, went to a new run club tonight for the first time. So many inspecting eyes, so many athletic young people in one place… AND LMNT was there, so basically Chris was there, and I got a free drink.

The stars aligned and Jesus said “run club” 🗿!!! Will be back.

[krumbergify]

Dancing classes are also a great way to meet in the same way if you don’t like running :).

[joedotphp]

I joined a run club just meet some new people because I don't have a lot of friends. I was quite surprised to see it's primarily people trying to find dates. I just wanted to run and maybe get some new friends lol.

[CarpenterHunts]

Is this why everyone I know who joined CrossFit or OrangeTheory cheated and got divorced?

[ramirezharrier]

Recently single, I go to 2 separate run clubs in my city to filter out blue hair twitter types 😂

[jfkst]

That's not consistent with my experience and run clubs.

[janaeporter]

Summer camp is a fantastic place to meet new people! Especially a Christian summer camp, because you then have some idea of their beliefs and background! And then you’re doing all sorts of activities, finding out what people are good at and what they’re bad at, and you’re ALL wearing shorts and tshirts and you’re very sweaty and it’s hot out but you’re having fun AND praising the Lord because it’s Christian summer camp! I love it

[paulmurphy]

The irish pub been doing that for centuries

[Thatcherite]

I go to a run club to run with other runners.

[DaiKam]

Hahaha...as a runner, I disagree. Although, it is feasible to establish relationships this way, as in any other club activity or place of work that you see people consistently... I run because I love running. And talking with fellow runners on marathons, races, and gear is just that for me. I learn a lot in terms of fitness, and I enjoy running.

[SeyidAr]

Just sounds like a club for people who want to run lmfao.

[cniht]

When I hear people pushing men to cold approach to random women that are complete strangers, I think it's bollocks for this reason. You have to have a shared interest, and you have to be in a place to see that person, over, and over, and over again.

[WBrizzle]

A bit reductive. Perhaps there's 1 extra layer that's underappreciated. It's community. People are making connections and even friendships. Sure, there is some hooking up, but I think it's positive in the aggregate.