Make Him Realize What He Lost (Incredibly Effective)

How To Make Him Realize What He Lost With Four Simple Tips

In this video we’re going to discuss;
- No Contact Rule
- Utilize a Zeigarnik Effect
- Utilize the road not taken study
- My personal commitment theory

Tip #1 – The No Contact Rule

This is something I recommend to almost everyone who Is going through a break up, because it works in two very simple ways.

It makes your ex miss you, and secondly it gives you a chance to reset your life and get your stuff together.

Tip #2 – Utilize a Zeigarnik Effect

It is one of the most useful strategies you can use to get your ex back after a break up. People seem to remember uncompleted tasks than completed tasks.

If you’re having a conversation with an ex and its abruptly interrupted, he is more likely to remember that conversation more than one that ends naturally.

Tip #3 – Utilize the road not taken study

Actual self, personal qualities that you personally believe that you have. The Ideal self, which consists of qualities that you want to have. Finally, the ought self, the person you feel that you ought to have been.

76% of individuals answered with one singular thought, they thought they hadn’t fulfilled their ideal self. Often when people feel regret with something, they feel they haven’t achieved yet, this encapsulates your situation.

You want him to regret his decision and come back to you. At the moment he doesn’t regret his decision, but you need to show him something that he wants but can’t have.

Tip #4 – My personal commitment theory

One of the things that I've come up with recently, is how to make someone commit to you, my theory is that there are six factors to take into account to get someone to commit to you;

- Satisfaction
- Alternatives
- Investment
- Scarcity
- Urgency
- Fear of loss

You'll probably find that nine out of ten of the success stories that we have, combines these six factors to get a commitment from their exes.

[lisacadogan]

None of this matters if your ex doesn't want you!

[ruthgoh]

I think of him everyday and cry... he has no idea how much it hurts. How do i stop being annoying?

[jenniferross]

I love your videos and actually they are all making me realize that I need to start focusing on myself and my goals and not the crappy relationship I had. I want to be the best person I can be and if he comes back I might not even take him back!

[melindam.]

I feel like a drug addict who needs a fix its so hard I have chills sweat it’s terrible

[ArtandKitchen_]

THERE ARE SOME MEN WHO ACTS OPPOSITE AND WANTS TO BE CHASE

[forevergrateful]

how about to the ex who move on immediately who have already a girlfriend anyone who experience it

[littlemissai]

My ex .. he said he miss me during no contact but he doesn't love me anymore. So..yeah.

[zinthin]

I dumped him & dated another guy for 3 months. We were together for a year & a half but he wasn’t sure about having a relationship.
So I just went for another guy & it completely broke him down. It’s like all his blocked emotions just opened up & started pouring like water falls. After months of begging me to give him another chance, I started dating him again & he’s completely changed. He’s planning our future together & I actually love it.

[suvarnabhide]

When you listen to the bg music more than to what is being said in the vid

[ND-gofq]

Chris, so many of your theories hinge on the fact that the ex can follow you in some way on social media...what if they don’t have or better yet boycott social media and therefore have no way of knowing what you are up to???

[nellyyy]

And what to do when ex has move on and game is totally lost!

[jindjiazeez]

Oh... my EX of about 13 years is literally dating a mini me! She literally looks and acts like me. Wtf does that mean?

[razanisaac]

What if your ex doesn’t have social media? All this is about your ex watching you progress through social media 🤔

[harmonicurry-babushkin]

I reached out, kept it polite and short. He messages me telling me he misses me and that I was his world and hes not sure why i would strike up a conversation and then cut it short. So I wrote back and said I wanted to work on being friends. He ignored me for hours to then tell me he's not sure he could see himself in my life in anyway because it was a confusing break up for him. Then messages me a second time asking me about what I'm doing and how my friends and family are. I haven't responded because why tell me all that and then tell me he's not sure we can be anything, then tries to continue the conversation? Makes no sense, not sure what to do... could you shed some light please? We're out of nc stage

[myrahouse]

My friends keep saying he won’t ever meet another like me, I know I’m a tad quirky but I just think I will and can be replaced easily.

We never argued we are in limbo still no one has actually called it over or finished.

We’ve just stopped messaging .... it’s a bit weird actually.

[ruthgoh]

He said he would talk to me as long as I'm positive, but yesterday even though I was positive, he was unresponsive and told me "if you text me everyday, I can't be happy". What to do???

[denizaktas]

What if he unfriended me all over social medi after a 2years relationship .he dumped several times but this time he unfriended me i am so lost because i still love him and we are classmates so i almost see him everyday

[jjfn]

Chris is non contact rule applicable when he sees me everyday at work?

[sweetsimplegirl]

I'm trying to block him and i am trying to go away never go back to him but I can't what should I do

[chonagelbolingo]

These are useless if he was just actually playing game 🙄