The One That Got Away: Get Him Back or Let Him Go?

Have you ever dated a guy who slowly faded away but then reappeared looking for a second chance? If so, this week's podcast is for you.

[maribeltorres]

I love that Dr. Gary… “Be a chooser, not a chaser” You’re so right Adam, making that mental shift that you’re not attracted to someone who ghosts you is a super power. I think that is the closure women need.

[pilarserrano]

Hi guys, thank you for your podcasts that are helping me to have clarity about my love life. Sometimes it his a bit hard for me understand some parts, when Adam mumbles a bit. There are more and more people from abroad trying to understand the interesting stuff you talk about, and as english is not our first language, a bit of pronunciation would help a lot to enjoy and grab every single detail.

[barbaradw]

I recently started dating someone. As we are still in the sharing our history phase, I have learned some things that turn me off. He mentioned he is a cheapskate. He would rather have something from ikea that a nice piece of wood furniture. Not that I need anything like that. I am a widow of 65 years young. He is divorced. That doesn’t bother me. He also said he likes to gamble. I have never been in a Casino.His son totaled his car about 6 or more months ago and he still has not purchased anything. He says he can’t afford one. I very rarely consume alcohol, in the last 2 weeks I have taken him 3 times to purchase beer. I now feel like, I need to keep this just on a friendship scale, especially because he is my neighbor. He is not from this area, so I have to show him how to get from point a to point b.

[sahnael]

Can you speak about guys that are engaged in dm if you reach out to them but never ask you out