U-san's Important message all the fan's

U-san's important but very understanding message about the misgendering 💙🤍
Let's all be sweet and understanding to those who r still learning

This message was after today's Uno Collab with Thai Vtuber group Orion who is Schneider,Baabel, and Daca (plz go support them as well)

Thumbnail credit goes to a friend and fellow U-rei friend of mine 💙

#dear_u_san #unnämed #U-san

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[charanap]

It's really nice having a non-binary person in the V-tubing community that is so talented, patient and understanding. U-san is truly someone that I admire

[Osamu_Dazaiii]

Usan goes by they/them but there are people who don’t know this and use he/him instead. The community gets a bit toxic at times and some fans of Usan have been quite harsh to ppl who unintentionally used he/him. Usan wants us to be patient with people who get the pronouns wrong instead of throwing curses and swears. That’s what I understand from this video but pls correct me if am wrong.

[saharamsamsundar]

U-san is so understanding and patient, we truly don't deserve someone as talented and amazing as them :))

[Dantes-mhjh]

Bottom line is, people shouldn't make a huge deal if some are not using the proper pronounce. It requires great understanding and acceptance and it's not worth the drama and only causes stress to you and our Oshi. Love and Peace everyone

[meiyosei]

omaigod i've seen u-san's model before but this is the first time i saw it moving and it looks gorgeous 😍😍 kanimama did a great job

[crazykay]

It's okay to misgender someone by accident especially if they were someone else in the past. People can get confused and thats okay. Just gotta calmly explain their pronouns to those who are unaware and also understand if you were unaware.

I often see people quick to jump at others throats but its really not that big of a deal and yeah, we just all gotta be patient and respectful of each other.

[pandorasnyactor]

yeah i've had a couple of times in private where i referred to U-san as "he" because of their previous persona so im guilty of this...but its not intentional i promise you

[Wild_Card]

As someone who has come to terms with my homosexuality and is now reflecting on possibly being genderfluid, I personally don't have a problem with someone misgendering me because the monolith is nonexistent for me. However, I have misgendered one or two people myself; they weren’t hung up on it, but I had felt a twang of guilt from it. To hear U-san address this and speaking on a compassionate level is appreciative to someone like me who is still exploring certain aspects of my life and trying to connect to people who are like me.

[aerrrrrr]

i know this is probably unrelated but like, im not a vtuber fan… however, this person’s model has got one of the most sickest designs i’ve seen, the nonbinary drip is unstoppable as foretold

[yourphantomness]

[Apologies for this long comment fndbsgag]

I want to mention that in a lot of languages unfortunately there's no gender neutrality. For example, I'm Italian and for the longest time I didn't even know of the concept of non binary because of everything being classified as femminine or masculine in my language.

We don't have a pronoun that can be used as a neutral one. Even 'it' has a femminine and masculine variant ('esso'/'essa'.) For a group of things of mixed genders we use the masculine pronouns or adjectives.

There could be people who use translators whose language is heavily gendered, and naturally the translator is going to literally translate it. I was also never tought at school about gender neutrality and learned everything from the internet.

U-san being so understanding is amazing, because I'm sure that people could be unaware of their gender or not understand the concept of being non-binary. I'm sure that lots of people don't intend malice. Thank you U-san.

[dudeguy]

I've seen plenty of confusion from non-native English speakers. From what I understand (I only speak English so I can't say for sure) some other languages don't have gender-neutral words at all. So I can understand why it'd be confusing to people who might not have a concept of gender-neutral in the first place.

[Obsessix]

I very much understand it’s personal and some people don’t wanna show their face age or gender I get it I’m the same way and people need to respect that some people aren’t comfortable with the fact telling everyone one thing that’s very important and if it ever happens just be patient don’t even ask the questions bc u never know

[Bamtomio]

So, U-san is non-binary. Should i use they/them or he/him? Because when U-san speak Thai, U-san use masculine words such as krub(ครับ) and pom(ผม). I will use they/them from now on just to be safe.

[harukifuji]

Oh, I thought they were a guy! I’m glad to see a VTuber who goes by they/them!! Super proud of U-San ^^, it gives me the motivation to be myself when I start streaming.

[sagethebun]

and this is one of the many reasons why they are my favorite streamer

[Definitelyahuman_]

I didnt watch them sm when in the company and all BUT NOW?!? HELL YEAH

[theophora]

I think its always important to be patient with those who want to learn or do it accidentally but i hope U-sans heart is not that endlessly big that they let willfully ignorant people roam free in their chat. Its not fair for them or their own chat to risk their own mental health just so some AH who hates gender queer people can spout nonsense when they dont understand a subject in a place that doesn't belong to them.

[suyanforu]

Unless people intentionally misgender someone for the sake of upsetting them, it isn't that big of a deal. It's common mistake that can easily be corrected. People need to chill out a bit when correcting people, don't just jump to hostility.

[iamnoob]

Somebody stop my heart from falling inlove with this unnamed angel

[ayohitmanbang]

Damn. I used to called U-san "he" because of the past (if you know you know) but I'll be much careful now.