#Super Empath #Supernova Forces The Narcissist To - Move RightOva (Part 1)

This video looks at the Super Empath Supernova and will be in 2 parts. The first segment examines who experiences the Supernova and what it actually is. The second video coming soon will look at the Supernova or Empanova as it transitions to its height.

[TheCanyonCritter]

I view the super empath as an empath who has matured. Realizing the evil that exists amongst us and how it manipulates. Super Nova, an "enough is enough" moment.

[SavedbyGrace]

It's when the Holy Spirit takes over. Praise God

[lizzierose]

Super nova... Its when you can take their shit anymore and the strength comes from who the hell knows where. Im a super empath but Ive always known that I can be pushed to the point of no return. It was never a surprise to me. If I have to destroy someone who attempts to hurt me over and over, I will...

[joannetier]

So true, I knew for years that something was seriously wrong with him but I changed me to accommodate him, when I finally broke the relationship I just said “I can’t do this anymore “ the strength that followed for me was amazing I had so much determination to get my life back, and I did, life is wonderful without the craziness 😊

[shawnrenaud]

Super empaths are able to use their narcissistic traits against true narcissist. When they battle the narc they don’t want the relationship to end but at the same time they will begin to mirror back to the narcissist the same tactics that he used to hurt her. Which can drive the narcissist crazy because he does to you what he knows has hurt him in the past.

[Lucida]

Super Empaths are high in empathy but equally high in assertiveness when it comes to speaking their truth.

They are righteous justice warriors in the midst of wrongdoing.

[jackgoodings]

I 100% remember .. it was 4 years ago last week. And it just blurted out of my mouth, "what's wrong with you" .. because that's what I'd really been holding back for so long in effort to not create insult or upset. I was absolutely done, I simply could not take a step in either direction .. I mean, she had actually driven away leaving me stranded .. and I simply was going to make my way home. "Don't you have ANY compassion", I said. But, it was the point that I'd said, "what's wrong with you", that was the truth of it all .. it wasn't meant to be an insult or anything .. it really was that very question, because I just did not know .. and that's how insane it all was, and that's how much I'd tried to navigate through it with the best of intentions and care and investment and complete utter naivity i.e. I really did not know .. and I really could not hold it back any more .. something broke, and I really, just, out of survival and utter 'could not understand' .. it came out. And that .. there was no turning back for either of us, as painful and long-drawn out the death of that whole 5-year 'relationship' was. I will never, EVER, forget that moment. And THAT .. was the beginning of a painful awakening and a tremendous amount of loss that cascaded through my entire history, friendships, family, and the life that is mine today. That dark night of the soul, it's not just one night. And yes, we do reach saturation point, and just one more thing happens, where something breaks, where we suddenly 'stop' and 'step off', and we say " 'no more' " .. no more from anyone.

[taneyat_]

Omg I remember that day. He always gaslighted me . No surprise since that's what Narcs do. It was Thursday & he was creating a pattttern of disappearing on the weekends. I CONSCIOUSLY said in a nice even-kill tone could you please stay home this weekend? I worked 60 hours & dealt with our son could you please stay home? I also don't feel well" (Ughhhh not to mention that youre my husband & you should by default stay home) He immediately said no, & came up with a bogus excuse as to y he was saying no, he accused me of yelling, causing strife during the week etc & now I was being punished ( where in the past I was not conscious of my emotions & or tone, but this day I was in complete control).. I begged him to stay initially I did. He said he was going to his office before going out of town to see the OW. I realized my tire was flat. I called him, no answer. So I ubered up to the office with our son only to be faced by SATAN. The rage in his eyes & tone in his voice made me realize this person did not love me but not even that, he also hated and abbored me, he never loved me because the person who I thought I was dealing with, never was, that guy was My son was in the back room & we were in the garage. Anyway without going into all the details he sent me off. Said he wasn't helping with the tire (something he could do). I left & cried my eyes out so bad that day. Just wanted to die, felt so low & humiliated for myself. Texted him to never come back, that if he did I would call the authorities. Let him know he was going to make a choice .He had no idea the dark place he pushed me to, but I had to be strong for my son. I let the OW know that she could have him & to please NEVER send him home. That she contributed to the destruction of a friendship ( I knew her) & now my family. That Monday he stayed in the office ( he texted me he would be home when I calmed down) . Little did he know, I turned that energy into ammunition to pack his things. I hired movers & moved everything into storage. When he got home there was nothing in the house except the bed & things in my son's room. I was also able to obtain a protection order after things escalated & when he realized I went EMPA-NOVA! He was raging about any & everything I did (Where F#ck is the furniture. You crazy B#tch). I couldn't bare serving him on the couches that he would expect to give him dinner on while I slaved in the kitchen. I also couldn't bare looking at the large screen TV ( that he addictively played video games on) so I took a hammer to that & had the movers unmount it so my son wouldn't see. We were going to stay with family until I figured things out. He took zero responsibility for ANY of his action's. Nothing about the pain that he caused to my core & how heartless, & callous he was to not help his own wife & child with a flat tire. Oh wow not sure I should've opened up that wound. The memory is bittersweet. I hope it can help someone who thought they would never have that type of strength but if I could, you can too. From there those moments of strength continued to increase to now we are divorcing. BTW great video Paula!

[womanclothedinthesunq]

I think the super nova is our healthy mother instinct since we spend so much time reparenting our selves. LOOK OUR FOR MAMA BEAR . lol. Love from Albuquerque shared.

[ronaldcipolla]

Very well presented. When I asked for a relationship with my ex, things changed soon after. My feelings for her were not received well. I sensed something was wrong with this person. She began to devalue me. I trusted her from the very start. I did not set boundaries. That was my biggest mistake. I am an empath. I only wished I learned about NPD before my relationship with her. I became stronger in confidence after my discard. Being discarded like trash is a wake up call. I immediately put in place No Contact. I feel I became a Super Empath. I avoided her. I showed her she no longer controlled me. No more dehumanizing me. She knew I was strong. She was afraid of me. She knew she lost me. I have moved on. I lost interest in her. It’s been 6 months since my discard. My super empathy and trust in God gives me the strength to overcome this evil. Don’t settle for less. I am important. I am worthy of love. Something better and beautiful is coming to replace the pain and hurt.🌈🙏😊

[htpm]

I think empaths are on a continuum where we are high and low with certain traits and any of these traits can manifest and become dominant for a period of time. I think therefore that any empath is capable of manifesting the super empath trait that leads to a supernova.
That's how it worked for me. It was only after I firmly and decisively walked away from my wife of 23 years, where I could barely explain to myself nevermind anyone else what I had just done, which was to completely turn my back and basically go no contact. I knew deep down that everything was hopeless and I didn't like who I had become. And that the only way out was to walk away, any other course of action felt insane.
It was about 18 months later I learned about narcissism and being an empath.
Accepting the narcissists that have been in your life and realising their abuse for what it is creates an awareness. This awareness which is actually a combination of intuition and observation and discernment of truth is now developed and firmly in place. And I think it continues to grow stronger over time.
One year later and I guard my dignity with fierce like boundaries. I prefer the term an Aware Empath mainly because we are now highly aware of toxic humans and highly aware of our own abilities.
Most empaths are unaware of the fact that they are an empath. Took me 60 years to find that out.

[kathiebuckner]

Anyone disliking you is deeply disturbed. You are a very intelligent bright light 👑

[jomassey]

As an empath, I recognize that there is no such thing as winning with a narcissist.
The best way to get over a narcissist, is to stop any contact with the narcissist and heal yourself by never ruminating on these evil entities.
I sent a letter to my sister, explaining why i have chosen to say goodbye.
It was very matter of fact and after a year, my grief has lessened.
You can always role play in the safety of your own space and say whatever youd love to say to them but as I said, its not worth your own energy to have any thoughts about them again. As for feeling sorry for them, ive met enough to know, theyre aware of their behaviour, because its worked for them for so long. I choose to feel nothing, not even acceptance, just boundaries.

[lynnsmith]

You can call it supernova but for me it was when God delivered me from everything and I left.
I didn’t look back with regret
Been divorced three years and he has been blocked for 3 years.
Once I realized what he was I felt sick even being in the same room with him and I’m an empath
He didn’t want to be exposed that’s what terrifies the narc and the demon within him so I did very well in divorce settlement

I’m on my own better off and life is better.
Life is an adventure now.
Not saying it’s easy but it is definitely better.
I let my kids know what he did and who he is I actually apologized to my children they totally understood very sad
My kids are grown and doing well thank God
I feel sad they grew up with this monster I regret that but really didn’t understand what I was dealing with.
He was a demonic diabolical predator.
The behavior is similar in all narcissist
I let his sister know and I told no one else other than my two boys they deserved to know.
I could have destroyed him but that would make me like him no thank you
He was a covert narc a cheater liar and gambler
A horrid pathological liar.
If his lips were moving he was lying
The broken help the broken not stay broken and heal God will heal you 🙏
Thank you for your videos Paula they are healing as well.
Once you understand what happened you can heal
Don’t stay with evil just leave the narcissist will drag you to hell with them and enjoy every minute of it
An absence of love is evil and hell on earth

[venuswilliams]

Ms Paula I went threw all that y are teaching about, I too felt like I had to fight 4 my life, it wasn't a win, win 4 me but 4 him it was, he even asked me such as I was fighting 4 my life.I watched unknowing Narrcisist even exsisted, existed, I received a enlightening after a big cry out in prayer to God, Lord what am I dealing with, during my prayer NARRCISIST was written just like that, I was so physically weak, my mental thinking was of only him all day everyday, , I watched his evil, questioning what I knew was verbal reality, I will soon write u a email detail to detail n how my Supernova me was educating myself while it unfold in my face, wait until u hear about how he growled at me like a wolf right out of his sleep, I ran in my dinningroom and ask God what was that, , its funny now but it wasn't them

[vickipacheco]

I found that in dealing with the quicksand efforts of the Narcissist to take me down to elevate themselves ....when I see in their hideous eyes they KNOW it's over for them with you.
NO MORE OF THEIR LUNATIC efforts are
JUST,
NO to them. These halflings will go completely undone. Too Bad.Just watch your back. 🙏🕊🙏

[heathercarter]

I had this very experience yesterday. After weeks of no contact I finally let him know that I saw him for what he really was. He tried to make a few excuses for himself but by the end of the conversation he was literally speechless. I responded and didn’t react stated facts and was indifferent and direct. I am sure it caused a huge narc injury and I’m hoping to never hear from him again! ❤️

[laurajean]

I remember the exact moment, I had just discovered he was still gambling on line, from our joint account, I was the only one working. I told him "you have not cared about anything I have said, you do what whatever you want, now I'm not listening to you and I'm going to do what I want. " I opened my own separate bank account and cut him off my finances which led him into a demonic narc rage. This was the final straw, I filed for divorce.

[dianahogg]

Great video Paula so true. I adored this man My only complaint was we never had a simple date night. Just a walk together would have been nice. He kept me so busy with 5 children. You must do this n that. So I washed cooked and cleaned a world away from my professional life. When we retired, downsized, sitting in a cafe, one day, which he never would have done before too busy he told me " he was a hard working man " Ha couldn't hold down a job. It was always the employers fault. Ha.) I looked around the cafe couples were laughing and talking and enjoying each other. I then realized I was in his sad silent world. That was, my moment when I opened my eyes. After 54 years. Great video you make sense of the weird life I've had.

[kobusdevos]

Spot on once again Paula. I would like to think of myself as being a super empath, but the more i reflect onto what drama and conflict i was exposed to the more i understand narcissism. I am actually "pleased" that I was exposed to this mental disorder. Going forward i will definitely look for the red flags and i have been "saved" from possible relationships with these dark creatures. God Bless you for the good work that empower so many people listening to you.