The Introverted Struggle In Relationships

Do you feel you are too much of a lone wolf for a partner? Or do you have very idealistic expectations for what a good relationship should feel like? Let's talk about independence, introversion, alone time, and relationships.

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[EmmaLBartley]

Great advice 😊. I'm an ENFJ albeit a socially introverted one & I need a lot of independence especially in terms of space to pursue my intellectual pursuits in my relationship. As I don't exude warmth my partner often perceives that I'm in a mood & everything isn't ok albeit he has quite a lot of anxiety. I do however need a lot of looking after in terms of general maintenance: cooking etc as I'm useful, I'm not a practical person at all it's lucky he's an ESFP and his convergent SeTe is very task driven by nature. I'm a 5w6 as well with an avoidant attachment style; I think I need to be more grateful for what I actually have, I actually do care I just can't communicate this very well. I come off more like an INTJ that can struggle to convey emotion outwardly than an ENFJ.