Rich Wilkerson Jr — Asking For A Friend: 4 Secrets Of A Secure Woman

Beauty is culturally praised but it does not equate to security. Secure individuals have an unshakable sense of who they are. Their confidence enables them to build strong connections.

During the message, “4 Secrets Of A Secure Woman,” from the collection of talks “Asking for a Friend,” Pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr. shows us four truths women should learn to lead happy and healthy relationships.
Learning from Proverbs 31 we discover a secure woman knows her worth. She holds on tightly to God's promises, which teach her to rely on her inner beauty and character. She understands external charm inevitably fades, but fearing the Lord produces beauty beyond the eye, adding peace and value to the lives of those who surround her.

Jesus is our message. People are our heart.
We exist to bring people that are far from God close to him.

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[nikkirowland]

“If he didn’t have to work to get you, why would he work to keep you!””

“Do not discount what God paid in full for”

[Privacymode]

"You don't need every man wanting you, you just need the right man wanting you"

[meadowlove]

“She does not find security in a spouse. She finds security in a Savior!”

-Went straight to my heart.

[lauradahl]

Just because someone desires you doesn’t mean they value Oh my gosh, WORD! This has been my life.

[einel]

"Eve was not taken from Adam's feet because women are not beneath men. Eve was not taken from Adam's head because women are not above men. But rather Eve was taken from his side because women and men are suppose to walk side by side in partnership, fulfilling the mission God is giving them."

Amen to this. ❤

[rachellim]

4 Secrets of A Secure Woman

1. Demand increases where supply decreases.
(Learn your worth and value in God, quit criticism and self-loathe
More confidence, fewer insecurities).

2. When you add value, you become valuable.
(Bring words of wisdom instead of gossip)

3. Worrying is betting against God.

4. Beauty is fleeting, Jesus is lasting.

[naomimarc]

“to heal a wound you need to stop touching it”.... i felt that😭🙌

[danix]

"When you learn how much you are worth, you will quit giving people discounts." amen 🙌🏼

[tracyfrimpong]

"don't submit to any man who wants authority but won't couple it with responsibility" wow🔥🔥🔥

[wanjiramuthoni]

"Insecurity is loud confidence is quiet "
"You don't have to prove your worth your worth will prove you "
You don't need every man wanting you. You need the right man to want you "
When you learn how much your worth you will quit giving ppl discounts "
Just because you are an asset doesn't mean you are appreciating "
"To heal a wound you need to stop touching it ".Whew🙌 Jesus take the wheel

[christined.butcher]

I was literally praying this morning for Jesus to help me grow to become the woman HE wants me to be in this season, and then BAM, this message appears. So timely and needed. Thank you so much for posting.

[kamp]

Why did this sermon take my wig off my head and slap me with it 😭 It was so GOOD 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[jernahmaeglori]

"We need a generation that rises up that isn't obsessed with their self-image, but we'd become obsess with their JESUS-image. GET OVER YOURSELF!"

[jademondia]

"A lot of women are dealing with daddy issues. They've been looking for love in the WRONG places so that they can get someone to fill that void, but they can't find it. You may not have an earthly dad, but you have a great Heavenly Father." 🙌🏽


Growing up with a dad who believes in "tough love, " this brought me to tears. 😥💙
Thank you for this message, Pastor Rich.

[danal.]

Just because someone desires you, doesn't mean they deserve you

[NatalineJ]

Let me pause this for a moment. At only 11 minutes and he is tearing this thing Submit to not the fling, not the boyfriend, not the best friend.

[xmochix]

As a married woman of 15 years, I can attest to what pastor is saying. Make the guy work!

[MonaLisa]

"You have been hidden so that you could be found!" 💎 #KnowyourWorth#

[barbarasanchez]

I listen to this sermon everyday and everyday gets easier to love myself. Thank you !

[misskat]

"The soundtrack to a secure woman is laughter." Through every hardship and circumstance I'm always laughing and cracking jokes. It gets exhausting being consumed with worry when we aren't in control. I may or may not receive an earthly husband, but laughter is forever, just like my Jesus is forever.