Why 'Good Muslims' Sometimes Make Terrible Spouses

In this video, I reveal why focusing only on religious appearances can lead you into a difficult marriage…

Which is going to allow to look deeper into the person your vetting and really know if they tick all the important boxes

If you want the easy, ‘done-for-you’ solution to find a pious spouse who ticks all of the important boxes?

…someone who you are proud to call your partner

…someone who you know will be an amazing parent to your future children

And if you want to know the best possible ways to vet your marriage prospects, so you can know between the ones who are genuine and sincere…

And the ones who are just putting on a show…

[AllahIsTheOneAndOnlyUnity]

I remember one brother saying that if you call yourself a “good Muslim” you are not a “good Muslim”.

[jkez]

People make a huge mistake and consider someone who prays= on the deen. When they are horribly mistaken. Its just a small piece in a larger picture.

What is the mindset? What are the aspirations? Whats the thinking process and how do deal with problems.

People be like "oh, he/prays on time?. Thats a literal shaykh or shaykha right there".

[corvoadam]

Me single for 30 years watching this and taking notes knowing very well i ain't getting married lol, may Allah bless everyone that needs to marry with a good spouse

[Cherries]

Deen doesn't equal good character. As a girl, I can find a man who provides and prays etc, but that doesn't mean his character is going to be good in the little things, like, if I'm crying, will he hug me and tell me it's going to be ok, or will he be dismissive and get annoyed? Will he genuinely want to listen to my problems? If I have period cramps and ask him respectfully to leave me alone to have a bubble bath, will he say no and refuse to give me the time alone I need? All those things aren't an issue of deen, these are things relating to ones character, and personality

[akrm]

This is a very important topic. Thank you for covering it.

[priusa]

Keep in mind that many Muslims are also neurodivergent ( have adhd, autism and other disabilities) which influence many things in a person s life. I wished Muslims could be more educated about it and inclusive in sha Allah. One suggestion: get a FULL mental health evaluation, STDs and proper marriage counseling WAY BEFORE u tie the knot… ❤

[Abdullah_muslim]

I disagree. Part of deen and being righteous is to have good character.

It's just a commonly forgotten concept and i don't believe to now say righteous ≠ good wife is a good thing because if she was righteous then she'd treat you well and not be some sort of disrespectful arguement machine

[KilgoreTrout]

Honestly, that story of the girl getting divorced the day after losing her virginity after washing her makeup, he thought she was too ugly.

This took some time to settle in my mind, but I’m absolutely heartbroken for that sister

What it must do to a woman’s self-esteem I hope it gets repaired quickly and a much better man comes in her life

[ayub]

Jazakallah khair Akhi. Well said! From your Brother here in Washington D.C.

[KilgoreTrout]

So much facts and good advice. jazaak Allah khayran

[ISTPw]

If you don't want to divorce, learn about Enneagram and MBTI. A relationship is about compatibility.

[khaledabdelaziz]

This is a lot more common than people realize unfortunately

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[FidanHasanzadeStudent]

Please learn aqeedah and do make sure you marry someone who is upon the right aqeedah, . Some deviant views you won't notice until you actually study. It is not just sunni vs shia, there are many deviant groups out there. Choose the mother/father of your kid wisely.

[randomness]

jazzakumAllahu khayrun may Allah reward u and us ameen this is so important

[Cursed_Toast]

السلام عليكم
I am a Sudanese Muslim and I will be going to Romania to study in university in sha allah and I wanted to to ask about the type of difficulties I will be facing as a Muslim student there
جزاك الله خيراً

[ibtesaampietersen]

I need advise on being married to a covert narcissist ...what to do? Kanala

[truthseeker]

actually most hyper religious people don't make good partner from both sides.

[mhz]

Wa alaikum assalaam warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu

[youshaysiddiqui]

why have you posted this video so late😢