The Strength of the INFJ: Thriving in the Face of Judgment

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[terrywade]

As an INFJ, any criticism or judgement that is thrown at me is something I internalize for a period of time. I search myself to see if it’s really valid. I look at the motives of the person that threw it at me. I process it and ask myself if it’s true. If not, I stick it in a mental file for future reference in case a different person says the same thing and then I go through this process again and look at what I’m doing that makes people say that about me. I govern myself. When I finish this process, I know who I am, what I do, how I feel about these judgments and why I think the way I do. I don’t accept shame that doesn’t belong to me. After this introspection process, if I find that I’m in the wrong, I fix it, repair it and change my ways to improve. I learn from my mistakes. Again, shame is defeated. I’ve learned from it and made a correction or a decision on its validity and I maintain who I am. I know me.

[bonniedunbar]

Being an INFJ I will turn my tears of the past year into stepping stones to a new life and I am not afraid but ready to face any type of judgement.

[irodirod]

“Survival mode to thriving mode”! Yes! Those are words one can live by. 😊

[davidl.callahan]

Have always, even as a child, put others first. Many years later, finally waking up, I realized how much harm that I have done to myself. I realized that all those people have chosen to not be there. Their choice. Now my choice is to put myself first to repair, rebuild and learn more about this person called me.
Too long in the dark, we may think its home. WRONG ! No matter that it is what we are used to, we need the light. Learn whatever from the dark, but survive and live in the light for ourselves.
We can and should reward ourselves for being who we are. Give our selves permission to treat ourselves first. Others will not be there for us. We can be there for us.
Do not sacrifice your self at your cost for some one else.
Not selfish to take care of self.

[vhayashi]

Yes I always put everyone else first and I'm exhausted from it.

[iconicintuitive]

This is why they 've done so much to me in my life and have even given over to gangstalking and workplacebullying of me right now. It's sickening that people do this to us #infj

[raft]

Survival to thriving please note this is important to remember since we wrongly feel like we do not deserve more

[MrM-mbll]

This is so me. My brain keeps trying to convince me to stay in those dark phases.

[evejames]

Yes striving mode!
Thank you for your videos and shorts.

[alkalovesu]

I can genuinely feel😊 what you are saying

[baeldaikokuten_yj]

I’m very judge mental. Like 65% to 70% 🖐️

[Mamasprincess-is]

I deserve better as an INFJ I'm done with being controlled by social hierarchy bullshit

[jnl]

I don't feel like I mind the judgment. Im just not aware of the positive ways I can use my energy because I'm not very aware of what I want. The judgment is annoying but I also like it because it's a sign that I'm putting myself first 😂

[artistchristos]

I am facing 23 of living with a narcissist, still. Please God, make this end!

[fay]

What happens when INFJs have PTSD ? Apart from abuse and scary times, the pandemic ...I have a serious need to be honest, blunt...I can't bare to see the pattern repeat again, I feel I have a duty to do so...but I e been silenced and isolated...and I feel triggered and it feels crazy like I'm speaking in tongues 🤦🏻‍♀️ I have become too independent, but I also realize I couldn't count on my family anyway....

[elmahyrakanayori]

Everyone can judge me so be fair if i do so to you too .

[JFairhart]

I am an INFJ and I noticed your mascara has some dark spots on the bottom eyelid. I have not seen this style before. Is it a new style? Very different. You have very beautiful eyes so I suggest your mascara should not distract from your eye color.

[faizaabdurrab]

Will someone please elaborate how facing judgement from others is facing judgement about myself

[SocoJ]

""Facing judgments actually means you're facing judgments you have about yourself!"' 🎤 drop 🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾✨✨✨