Wandering Eyes in Relationships

[Nobodyimjustagirl]

It hurts more when you don’t even notice other men & you consistently see yours looking at other women 😅.

[patwilson]

I think it’s disrespectful for a man OR woman to be “ eying “ other people lustfully, especially when they are with their spouse/partner. Yes, we all have eyes. But, You don’t HAVE to do that. Its not even the point of being insecure, it’s just DISRESPECTFUL period.

[doreenlane]

If a man doesn't control his eyes he doesn't control his mind. If a man truly loves you he will control himself.

[theharmonypill]

It's even worse when you catch him staring and then he lies and says he wasn't. Childish

[laimmaculata]

Checking out other women is a great way to inspire your wife to have an affair

[beckyjade]

If a man looks at other woman it's deeply disrespectful. And shows a truly immature heart and mind.

[k.prince]

Mature and respectful men know how to see, and don't see. Wandering eyes have no self control. This is a turn off for me.

[angelicaangel]

If a man or a woman has a habit of doing this, the relationship is in deep deep trouble. Regardless of people saying that's just how men are wired, I believe it's just an excuse used to allow them to make their partner feel like sh*t. His eyes should be front and centre whether he's by your side or alone. Every man I've known who had a roving eye was not fully committed to who they were with and later actions on his part proved it. Don't look for someone who likes you, demand someone who RESPECTS you.

[MissPrettySweetC]

I think that staring is the problem. Especially if the woman being looked at notices. It's uncomfortable to see a woman's man staring at her.

[KrystleLaughter]

My ex did this all the time and it was deeply hurtful and disrespectful. It made me feel really insecure and got to the point where I hated going anywhere together with him. If a relationship you should treat your spouse the way you want to be treated. This is why you have self-control. You may want to look, but you don't have to. I think I'll do a follow up YouTube video on this. Thanks for starting the conversation Tony.

[ledeelotus]

Staring at someone else while you’re with your significant other is a slap in the face to your self esteem. What’s the point? What does a look do for a man while with their woman?!? I don’t mind a if man glances a attractive woman approaching. But if you turn your head to the side, then turn your neck back.. it’s a wrap 😆 I don’t care how confident a woman is… a man lusting for another woman in front of your face is disrespectful and nobody can convince me otherwise.

[kimmurrell]

I usually leave when the eyes wander to much. Ain't no body that special to me.

[quietstorm]

A man with a wondering eye is likely to cheat, this type of disrespect is a red flag and its also a form of abuse

[dollfacethebeauty]

This is the absolute STRUGGLE when you’re an attractive single woman you get stared & lusted at by MARRIED & taken men everywhere smh and its not flattering and very awkward on my end because you don’t know how the wife/gf will react They sure don’t mind risking their marriage or relationship I see and even have the nerve to tell me out their own mouth they found me attractive but theyre married SMH like where is the respect for your significant other nowadays 😒🥴

[contrinadurant]

So when men are staring at other women do they stop to think of all the other men staring at their wives. Men seem to think that there is always another woman that looks better. But did they stop to think that there is another man that we think is more handsome or more sexy?

[whitneymwangi]

When my eye meets the woman of a man who is staring at me, it always feel like telepathical communication saying to each other “You need to run, sis”

[sheilajones]

Easiest solution: if you need to keep looking after you’ve made a commitment then you need to STAY single. If you stay single you can LOOK until you’re so old that nobody will want you. Point blank periooodt.

[cynthiafrancis]

People do not do this in all relationships.. thank God ... I would say if a man is doing this run ...

[DonnaWilliams-yo]

I read in a book called ‘love & respect that most women have the need to feel that their husbands have ‘eyes for me only’, it was such a relief to read that, as I thought I had a jealousy issue because I was so sensitive to my husbands looking

[rizzybone]

Tony and Shari are on vacation in the Maldives and Tony STILL took the time to record before hand and release a video for us. Shows a lot about his character! Thanks Tony