The Surprising Truth About Polygamy in Long Distance Relationships

[felosopha]

As long as you can take care of both of them. Don't be a broke azz trying polygamy.

[LetsTravellChannel]

Traditionally, polygamous men had all the wives in the same homestead - not House as most westerners assume 😂. The husband had the main house and each of the wives separate hut 🛖 or House depending on his wealth but all would be in the same compound. If they were four wives, he would be with each for a weak and it was that wife who would be in charge of supervising cooking, cleaning, farming etc As a result, the man would have four kids close in age at any given time 😂. This division of time and chores was to ensure fairness. He consulted the first wife before bringing in number 2 etc. Because a lot of women were brought up knowing that co-wives will join them, girls are groomed to be the favorite wife 😜. I should add that polygamy in Africa tramps religion as even Christian men are known to engage in it not just Muslims and there’s no set number on how many wives a man can have. Because of rural to urban and overseas migration, people assume that the practice is dying out but this is not the case! Instead of wives living next door to each other and in the same compound/enclosure as in the past, the various wives live in different towns, cities, sometimes countries!! Most women will not hesitate to share a man who is doing well.

[duparcg]

It’s not that big of a deal in Africa. Women are used to it. I know some women that want to their man to have a second wife so they can chill and other stuff lol .

[MajorLeagueTenacity]

I’m so mad it took me so long to realize my collar was fucked up 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[georgeandy]

Well at least in these Polygamous Marriages, there is Honesty and Transparency. It's really no different than the Western Married Playa, who has another Woman on the side!! Well I guess there is One Big Difference....over there they don't have to lie about the other Woman!!😁😂🤣

[bostic]

Was That a white man talking about his bed winches?

[W_Dream]

It's not common at all in Nairobi from what i was told. But there are a lot of women unmarried there so I guess you have to find the right pair.

[BedStuylife]

Thats how you have to do it. Be truthful with both women. Do not lie or hide things from them. I love women and im willing to take care of them. I have two level headed women in Jamaica and I love them. They work there and im working on bringing them to America. As their king, I will give them a better life as they work to be my queens. Be confident in yourself. Tell them you have to have a prenup and they have to work. No lazy women.

[realpeopleoftheinternet]

How does it work? The only dated one girl at one time? The only dated one girl that one time and then you had a whole bunch of other girls and they didn't know about it you just a liar. But if you dated multiple women and they all know each other then we would call that the polygamists

[jemal]

Is the brother Muslim or something? It makes sense if his Muslim?