7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do | Kingsley Okonkwo

"I believe there are stages a relationship should follow, first friendship then dating but most times people jump into different phases of their relationship without due processes and it always ends up bad, sometimes disastrous."
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[emastephen]

7 Mistakes.

1. Not Cultivating or
Building Friendship
2. Not having clarity or vision.
3. Not having mentors
4. Having sex before marriage .
5. Waiting to Have all the Money before you Marry.
6. Playing House
7. No premarital counselling

[abigaildoraa]

7 mistakes dating couples make.

1. Not building friendship (prov. 17:17) TPT .... If ure not touching each other, can you spend quality time together easily?

2. Not having clarity (prov. 29:18)... What are we doing? Where are we going? What's the plan? When are we planning to get married? How do we work towards it?

3. Not having mentors (prov. 31:1)MSG... have distant mentors and close mentors. Accountability is key. Let there be people that can counsel both of you.

4. Having sex
... kissing never satisfies, it brings the fire .. create boundaries... Sex before marriage affects intimacy. Sex affects the trust because the person that cheats with you will cheat on you. Sex brings disrespect. It dishonors God.

5. Waiting to have all the money before you marry.

6. Playing house. Moving in together before the time. It affects commitment. Prov. 25:17

7. Not doing pre-marital counseling. Love is never enough. Pre marital counseling ensures safety for both parties.

[soulmatesempire]

True, some churches don’t talk about marriage and relationship.
Which is very bad

[irmamedom]

May God deliver us from useless friends

[rossyprim]

Number one- Not building friendship proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times
Build your friendship
Number two- Not having clarity Proverbs 29:18
Not having vision the people perish
Number three- Not having mentors proverbs 31:1
Accountability is key
Number four- Having sex before marriage
Sex affects intimacy, respect, trust, good behaviour.
Number five- waiting to have the money before marriage
Number six- Playing house meaning moving in together, it reduces respect, motivation, anticipation, it brings challenges.Proverbs 25:17
Number seven- They don't do premarital counselling.proverbs 15:22 Doing premarital counselling greatly reduces the chance of failing.

[chrisax]

I am 23 now and I promise myself that no matter what happens... whether I am rich or not i must marry before the age of 28... God willing... Thank you sir for your teaching....

[amawoobey]

Thank you, I never asked for clarity in the past but now am firm and stand with the Lord .

[haroldmartin]

I really truly would like to get all of your book on relationship & marriage because I really truly want my second marriage to be very successful for a very long time

[byrnenoel]

1. Not Building Friendship 10:57-- The love of a friend stands strong; romantic love fades. A friend loves at all times. Can you all talk
without touching each other, having sex, or discussing wedding plans?

2. Not Having Clarity 13:00-- Not having clarity of where we are going (marriage?). When are we getting married? 4 years? 5 years? 1 year? Let's start working towards it. Let's not keep checking each other out.

3. Not Having Mentors 15:22--

4. Not Staying Celibate 18:23-- For some, they keep kissing and touching completely out of their dating. "Let's just talk"

5. Waiting To Have All the Money 20:37-- You don't need a big house.

6. Playing House 24:44

7. Pre-marital Counseling 29:35

[AnnetIyara-iued]

Supporters don't matter if you're not prepared 💓

[kwobsiemarius]

Pastor K ans his Kingso Kingso story is evergreen. Everything I listen to it i still enjoy jt

[Minister--pat]

I have made all this mistakes oooo...Thanks you pastor for teaching me this is basically for me.thank you so much....I am now single and will work it out ..

[breatheeleganceheart-talk]

This is profound! Especially 3 and 7... young people don't seek knowledge anymore until they encounter problems in the marriage and most times its already too late.

[naongakalumbi]

I've been in a relationship and lonely before. Definitely being "married and lonely" must be worse

[obenamaduprince]

I like the way he says "are you here somebody"😅

[agnesamitamasinde]

His teachings blessed my life. It helped me know what marriage is. It enabled me choose the right man.❤🙏

[peacegelwanmiwilfred]

Knowledge is truly powerful... Thank you pastor K for saying yes to Jesus, listening to you and your wife helped me allot .... you are truly a blessing.... thank you sir

[giftnjoku]

You don't date to check people out, you check people out in friendship

[oluwakemiakinwunmi]

In the multitude of counselor there is safety...thank you so much sir.

[florenceadeoye]

Thank you Jesus for creating this wonderful head over us.