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Timothée Chalamet has two traits you don't often see go hand in hand. He's self admittedly very awkward, and yet women find him incredibly attractive.

This is interesting because Timothée is not your stereotypical jock alpha male, in either looks or personality. He’s shy and at times seems uncomfortable when speaking: looking down, fidgeting, or putting his hands in his pockets.

How can someone who’s self admittedly awkward be so attractive? While he’s definitely handsome, much of Timothée’s attractiveness comes through in his personality.

Part of what makes Timothée so magnetic is how well he handles potentially awkward moments.

So in this video, we’ll go over 7 tricks you can learn from Timothée to turn your awkward moments into moments where you’re actually making yourself more attractive.


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0:00 - Intro.
1:12 - #1: Radiate positivity
2:57 - #2: Appear unfazed by smiling through a tease
4:28 - #3: Don't assume negative intent in ambiguous situations
6:22 - #4: Call out the awkwardness
9:03 - #5: Pass the conversational spotlight to the other person
9:58 - #6: Share your higher purpose
12:14 - #7: If this doesn't go well, on with the rest of life

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[CosmicLeche]

"By acknowledging he feels awkward, he's able to move past feeling awkward."
_I will face my awkwardness. I will permit it to pass over me and through me._

[crisj]

it's called being authentic, I think he just comes off being authentic.

[msandreyevskikh]

Not just charisma, but manners. Timothee is an intelligent kid brought up by educated, cultured, nurturing and loving parents. Hence impeccable manners.

[hannahisrael]

pov u look through the comments to find a list of everything he said and u see none so u make it urself:
1. Radiate Positivity
2. Appear unfazed and intentional when smiling through a tease
3. Don't assume negative intent when in an ambiguous situation (unless ur actually being bullied lol)
4. Call out the awkwardness and embrace the awkwardness when doing so
5. Pass the conversational spotlight into the other person or someone else
6. Share your higher purposes
7. If things don't go well, move on with the rest of ur life

ur welcome

[sumwhere]

Ngl I wasn't on the Timothee train until I started watching interviews and his charisma is just "chefs kiss" he just seems like someone you'd want to be around

[Matt_Nor]

I love how Timothée Chalamet is the exact opposite of musclar, yet celebrities find him very attractive and charismatic.
Someone's village is missing their greatly talented Chalamet.

[Ziggler-kykv]

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

[YokoshimaOfficial]

Assuming that everyone is your friend not an enemy makes life beautiful for everybody and it makes you likable.

[noha]

I mean, if you have Timothee Chalamet's face, everything you do is bound to be attractive

[reichull]

i know that there are a lot of women who genuinely find the typical muscular alpha male types attractive, but i exclusively am attracted to men like timothee. they are so much more fun to be around. being relatively confident, silly, and kind are very good qualities to have. i hope men realize they do not have to be one specific type of man to be found attractive by women.

[blurrypistachio]

Timothee is not socially awkward. While Hollywood interviews have admittedly made him nervous (especially as a new star), his high school days and old Instagram tell a VERY different story. IRL it’s evident that he oozes charisma and he’s very alluring. People with social anxiety are not the popular class clown who performs a nicki minaj song in front of a whole school, those two data points simply do not correlate. That’s all.

[jackgering]

My brothers roommate when I was 18 literally told me "no one cares if you're awkward, it doesn't matter to anyone no one's gonna remember it." After that I startef to go with it and it changed my life.

[tayzonday]

My charisma on command is like a cat: I give it commands and it does what it wants.

[NickNotas]

Being awkward, quirky, unique, goofy, weird - whatever you may call it - has an endearing and charming quality that tends to appeal to the "cutesy" side of women. Such qualities that make other men scoff can lead to women going "awww!" because it's often sweet, genuine, and unassuming.

Women don't want someone putting on a front to impress them. Being your authentic and unfiltered self IS attractive. -Emma

[silverv]

He Is the same personality type I look for in guys, emotionally connected and doesn't have hyper masculine issues. Not to mention acknowledging negative aspects and turning them positive.

[Arry]

So no one is gonna say that all this is because he has good looks💀

[verasabir]

His personality is so unique, it’s refreshing. I’m glad that he and his talent are getting the recognition it deserves

[Andreyabish]

I have a lot of social anxiety because I feel I need to be this confident person. But ironically as soon as I viewed myself as being someone who struggles with social anxiety I felt a huge weight off my shoulders and it allowed me to be so much more confident. Such an interesting but TRUE concept

[MoistDelta.]

I've noticed that I've always done that. Basically whenever I get nervous I speak my mind about how I'm feeling, it releases tension for me and provides comedic relief for others. If I'm doing a presentation in front of a class I'll admit that I'm nervous and the class gets a laugh and I continue without getting picked on.

[MarvFitBikesKicks]

That’s the misconception with a guy like Timothee, That’s just his personality. He’s just charming in that way, it’s not like he lacks confidence and his personality is not a learned trait. His awkwardness is what charms people, he’s self aware and I don’t think he tries to change who he is. I’ve met many kids like him where they are not “alpha males” but everyone they come across respects their charm (male or female). I’m awkward in a bad way, I can’t talk freely as nothing ever comes to mind, there’s always a angry look on my face, I’m not talkative, not approachable, not sociable, dismissive… yea it’s pretty much as bad as it gets on my side