I Told A Girl I Don't Want To Be 'Just Friends,' She Keeps Getting Me To Cave

Corey, Caroline, Erica, Jade, and Jocelyne discuss a viewer question regarding the viewer telling a girl that he doesn't want to be "just friends," yet she's getting him to cave.

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[victorvaughan]

I told a girl that recently and she became hostile about it. Fruit loop confirmed.

[SP-dxem]

Girls want a lot of men in the friendzone because it validates they're attractiveness to these guys and keeps them on a high.

[americandiesel]

Makes so much sense now. Thanks Couch!

[DayDayMusic]

I told this girl straight up if you don’t see a future with me than I’m moving on . I’m not interested in friendship. 3 days later no contact, she contacts me . I reply politely and end it there. She contacts me again the next day, “have a good day at work” I replied again, I can’t just be friends with you .… what is she doing?? Testing me? I’m annoyed at this point

[MailmanNick]

I just ghost. If you waste my time you're dead to me. Might be extreme for some but plenty of girls out there.

[DavidZMH]

I used to be this guy then I woke up and learned to stick to my guns and say to women, no being friends.

[johnddonnet]

The secret with women, you need to give a lot of attention at first, then take it away and wait. Believe me - this shit works wonders. Especially if you can calibrate socially what you are doing. By attention I don't mean gifts or dinners. I mean making her laugh, maybe giving few compliments - only on things that she wasn't born with and listening. After you take that attention away, almost all girls will want it back. Then you don't give it to them, you basically tell them to prove themselves.

One girl, after I did this and ignored her for a week, texted me, said she baked me a cake and want me to taste it. She came over, brought the cake, I showed 0 gratitute, like every girl brings me cakes all the time, 2 minutes in she basically grabs me, starts kissing me and starts pulling my pants down. She did EVERYTHING I wanted that night. After they do good things, like this, you need to give some attention and not give attention when they do bad things.

You can say it's manipulative, but I'll be damned - it work. NEVER BE NICE. It's a world where being nice is punished by everyone, especially women. You don't need to be an asshole, just don't give attention when girls don't act good with you - that simple.

[breatheliveandthrive]

Girls hate the fact boys discovered this dogma: ME AIN'T YOUR FRIEND, BABY.😂

[nathanielgray]

Im opposite actually to much like i dont care but What if she lies about having a guy on the side for 4 years that i asked her about several times.. I'm sure enough to the point i break it off then she comes clean desperately begging me for forgiveness.. even went & got a boob job to get me back.. Seems to me she truly doesn't want to live a double life but hasn't been able to stay strong.. Her parents are vary supportive to our relationship.. We both are alone raising kids we have with 2 other people.. She is far more atractive then average, great job and wants to get married... The struggle is real

[m_jay]

Once she friendzones (rejects) me the only contact she gets is NO CONTACT!