My Struggles AFTER Coming Out as a LESBIAN🏳️‍🌈 4 Years Later✨

Here are some of the unexpected struggles I've faced since coming out as gay. This is my unfiltered and honest experience that I hope speaks to you in some way!🏳️‍🌈

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[Sakura_Blossom_Skye]

I loved listening to this. I hope it becomes a podcast! Trans Lesbian here, and hearing about other peoples journey, helps me along mine.

[westofthepurplemoon]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts ✨i'm 25, i have a very similar coming out journey (i also came out as lesbian at 21) and i've been struggling with the same things that you've mentioned 💛

[jamesmcgowan]

Unfortunately being queer in the world we live in is hard in general, but thanks for sharing your story 🥰🥰🥺🥺🙁🙁

[bhawnadewan]

Love the way you expressed your thoughts. For me coming out was tragic and nothing much changed after that. Because the struggles were there such as finding a true love and that connection. Would you like to hold a conversation session on YouTube between two lesbians (you and me) from different worlds and see how the experiences of every milestone of lesbian life varies. Thank you

[LovelyTessaVlogs]

“Took a shit and has the zoomies” LMFAO!

[louiseannalouiseanna]

This was such an amazing video, thank you so much for sharing <3 You are right, it's very rare that we get to hear the stories of lesbians who have come out just a few years out, and how it felt. I came out as bi when I was 18 and as lesbian when I was 20, I'm now 26 and still have a lot of feelings and thoughts about having come out. I could resonate a lot with the things you were saying. Thank you, thank you, thank you <3

[OrlaKen]

Really honest, I don’t think I have heard a video describing on a deeper level of what sex meant before and after figuring out their sexuality. I think if you were currently in a relationship you might have held back a little, so grateful that you are not 😅. I don’t fully understand the only fans thing but it was nice to hear your side and how it makes you feel! Thank you !

[PsychodelicKitten]

I’ve always questioned my sexuality. I went from bi to pan to queer since I’m so confused. I’ve never found a man’s body attractive but have a woman. But yet mostly been with men. I’ve always tried to push my queerness down and now I think it’s coming full swing at me 😂😂 I’m in my 30s now. All the guys I’ve been with have tried to be pretty controlling too

[LaurenJohnston-wcvn]

I just started this video but so far Omg yes! Me! I knew I was bi at age 19 or 20, but ended up marrying a man who I really consider a best friend. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I didnt realize until he divorced me that I love women so much more. I would say I'm 90% gay but getting mens attention is so much easier. Im femme so even though im not a model or anything...its just easier. Plus, I want another baby...but I am way more attracted to women. Im 32 YO though and idk... im afraid im too old to find a woman who is willing to have a kid. I dont want to rush into things just bc I want another baby. Also, I have absolutely no flirting skills bc in college my drunk self just slept with guys who pursued me. I didnt have to try and im so frickin awkward. Not only am I femme, have a child, and appear straight, but im so inexperienced. My dream is to have a Gf/wife, but i dont know if I am capable

[KelleyMeyer-fh]

Hello! So refreshing to hear your story! You are an intelligent and beautiful woman! So silly when people say because you are attractive they don’t believe you’re Gay…what a stupid statement! Just like the straight community, lots of shapes and sizes! I have met more straight women who look and act more like men and they sleep with men! We are all different! Yes a lot of femme women are gay and gorgeous! People shouldn’t stereotype! You are an absolute treasure to listen to! Keep up the great work! 🙏❤️🇨🇦😊

[LenaYugnov]

Im came out as trance ❤❤❤❤ i proud of it

[arthorpendragon]

as a genderless person looking for their first genderless partner this has got us thinking. so thanx for all the ideas you brought up - really helpful!

[Genevieve]

50:22 You're very welcome... and Thank You for sharing... ❤ 🫂

Absolutely... Pt. 2 Please... 🙏

Liked & Subbed... 💕

[Genevieve]

Question for you... would you date Sapphic Trans Women... ? Just curious...

[aaronriseman]

great video. please make another video.

[bob]

Very interesting, thank you. What women (of whatever persuasion) think has always been a total mystery to the vast majority of men. Towards the end you talk about our controlling nature, and that's certainly one result of it. So, alas, is the misogyny which still runs rampant through many societies, sometimes less obviously, sometimes very obviously (eg the right to marital rape enshrined in Indian law). I'm personally sorry about it, but cannot apologise for something whose baffling extremes make no sense to me (any more than, say, Nazism does). Every day the news tells us that the world is - mostly - a nasty place, run by and its tone set by evil men. The oases of sensitivity, kindness, tolerance, understanding are sadly few and far between. The same world, or parts of it, has come a very long way over the last century, on the surface. We are not an evolving species in terms of what the majority think, or permit/allow to happen, however. It makes no sense to me, but then, I've always been an outsider. Best of luck on your journey!

[DaG.O.A.T.]

Waste of ink & paper you were printed on ....

[mikewazowski]

Thank you for the video. I listen to you and understand that I've always felt that way too, and now I'm listening to your experiences which I haven't had yet and can understand what it might be like. 

The thought I can propose now is insane! Wow!