A hurt man is different than a hurt woman! | Lesson on The Lunch Break

[mrs.truthseekertruthseeker]

Most of the men that were so called hurt” was simply because they couldn’t have their way. Not because a woman cheated on them, left them for another man . They were hurt because the woman left after he did dirt 1st. How are you going to be hurt after you caused the problem? Make it make sense

[j-tenn]

I noticed a lot of times when a man hurts a woman, he will come back years later and apologize, even when she’s moved on, because they can’t handle living with that guilt for the rest of their life. It catches up way later

[silentdreams]

Mr, Gaskins! A hurt man can be very dangerous! Most men don't forgive! Be blessed Sir!

[thegodloves]

I think so many people are crying out but not to God we run to so many things but not alone to God 🙏🏿

[Olivias]

So true 😢 my ex was cheated on by his ex wife. We dated for 3 years, and then he cheated on me out of no where 💔 said he self sabotaged and was “scared I was going to leave him” even through I had no plans to leave! He took revenge on the wrong person, honestly.

[shawnbailey]

Hurt men destroy everyone in his path. Hurt women destroys herself.

[her.saving]

a hurt man is another kind of level. he will become relaxed and work out of feminine energy (mommy issue I believe), so now he's the prize and you gotta prove your love for him, he will not pursue you, making you unknowingly masculine. I noticed he could not make a decision to save his life, something so small as finding a parking spot when spots were abundant (seriously). he will say "you deserve better" -- leave when you hear that because even he knows he's no good for you, let that man get some healing.

[MarqueshaMartin]

If I have to endure ANY type of disrespect, abuse just to “prove” I’m a good woman, I’ll continue to stay to myself and nurture my own happiness.

[TiaraSoWavy]

It seems like a lot of men get off on hurting women these days all because of their past so they take that out on all women. These men need to grow up!!!!🙄

[denisealex]

Be careful of the ones that don’t talk either. They listen for notes to be what u want.

[jessicascreenwritingservices]

Tony you are literally the older brother a lot of us have never had. Thank you for this. It explains why a lot of men are unhinged and are deathly afraid of getting coaching or going to therapy. A lot of men don't go through moments of singleness where they focus on doing the emotional work. Whereas, when we as a women go through heartbreak/breakups, we are allowed to break down and cry and feel all our emotions. A lot of men typically serial date to mask their hurt and they end up carrying the same hurt and pain into these new situations. It's a toxic cycle.

[christinelong]

I personally think this may be part of the reason why statistically men often die earlier than women. It’s not good to harbour negative emotions for so long and not have a healthy release

[Thlite]

being single sounds amazing. My sexual urges have subsided. Mind over matter. It takes practice. I'm off the market, dating sounds too dangerous. We live in dark times.

[gerijohnson]

Sometimes men and women use srx as a coping mechanism to camouflage their pain rather than deal with the root.

[beefaye]

Very accurate....A hurt man is DANGEROUS 💯👈

[trustjas]

Tony is telling the WHOLE truth. I had a man tell me that he’s not going to keep taking me on dates (after the first date) because he doesn’t want to waste time if our sex isn’t good. So he would not continue to see me if I don’t have sex with him. He also told me I have to show him what’s so special about me in comparison to the other girls he’s dating. Long story short, that was our last date. ✌🏽

[fabiennepdt]

5 years ago, when I noticed the pattern I was in, I decided to stop dating and heal. I was dating the same kind of emotionally unavailable men. I knew something was wrong with me, and that's when I came across your videos. It's been a long journey, but I am still working on me. Psychotherapy, books, hypnosis, your podcasts, courses and videos allowed me to be more attuned to myself. I am now working on expressing my emotions and my attachment style, which will help me to better choose my future husband. Thank you, Tony and be blessed!🙏

[Treebee]

One reason I stopped online dating is because it seemed like too many men online were revenge dating. Tony is right. The trauma is obvious after the first date or second telephone conversation. A friend of mine who is way more feisty than me ended up arguing on the first date with a guy she met online. At the end of the date, she just wanted to get away from him and buy a burger because he only ordered appetizers at the restaurant. But he became nice all of a sudden and insisted on walking her to her car. At the car, he grabbed her neck, and force-kissed her. She said he was so strong, she felt like he would break her neck if she pulled away.

[Dezdamoonbear]

Tony out here protecting us women from toxic boys. "Let he who has an ear hear"👂🏽

[DR-lfrg]

This makes sense and consistent with TG's earlier measage that men, in general, lack the emotional intelligence that women have.