Grandparents Pick My Cousin Over Me & I Was Their Backup Plan Until I Refused Their Life Plan for...

Grandparents Pick My Cousin Over Me & I Was Their Backup Plan Until I Refused Their Life Plan for Me, Now Then Want to Play Happy Family...

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[lalalovengun]

So proud of OP for standing up for what they believed in and having self respect!! So happy that the rest of the family saw the grandparents for who they really were

[joethelegend]

Wow, in most stories the grandparents are the reasonable ones, and usually solve the problem not start it.

[Permenantlyexhaustedghost]

The thing with controlling parents is they only see you as their little doll and even an extension of themselves. The second you begin to develop a personality and have dreams of your own; they begin to see it as a threat to their control. I wouldn’t be shocked if the grandparents parented the same way to their own children. The best thing op can do is have nothing to do with the grandparents.

[beeniecat]

These grandparents sound like my mom. Never satisfied with your best.

[chessieray]

Once people get around to a certain age around their golden years, their minds are stuck the way they are. You can't tell them anything. Safe to say they were same way with one of your parents.

[firerosenight]

He did their bidding for his entire life, then when he wanted to be his own person they cut him off.

They are horrible.

[takanuva_]

They didnt raise him, they formed him and as soon as the playdooh spilled over the cast they threw it out

[paulanewhook]

I have to question if the house was really the grandparent's house or if they moved in after OP's parents died. OP talks about all his parents things being there, which could be overlooked, bit then mentioned how his Mother picked out the furniture and decorated certain rooms. This leads me to think that the house belonged to OP's parents and the grandparents moved into their dead child's house to care for their that the house might already be OP's from his parents. That would be why he was always assured he would get the house, but the evil grandparents knowing that OP is unaware who the rightful owner is are setting up to steal it from him and give it to another and thereby punish him for being "disloyal" to them and their demands of him...both mentally having taken away what was promised and physically stealing his rightful property from him. I might be totally wrong on all of this, but that is what I get from the story. If I am wrong in this, the grandparents are still self-centered ego manics who treated their grandson who had no one to turn to horridly. But if I am right in my interpretation, that would take them to a whole new level of evil, vile people who, regardless of which level they fall into, the entire extended family should shun and and give them the same treatment that they had no trouble handing out to their poor orphaned grandson who wanted to live his life as his saw fit and to no longer be controlled believing that is love. I mean it's not like he was a criminal or addict just living to score, he just wanted to follow his dream profession that he soon became successful at, as opposed to be his grandparents mindless drone doing their bidding his entire life.

[RandoWisLuL]

sounds like my grandpa. Hated me the last decade of his life because i didn't go become an attorney like he was. Would constantly bad mouth my mom( his daughter) and tell me, in a non direct manner, im fat and stupid because of the choices my mom made. Not one person has visited his grave since he died 6 years ago

[LeeLeeLeeLeeLee]

No one owed anyone anything in this story.

OP needs to go no contact and move on.

[TacoCat_Fabio]

"They were perfect in my mind"
After 10 minutes of explaining how awful they were
Well, at least he fixed himself in the end

[charliegone]

There's a reason my family visits my grandfathers and mothers grave every year on their birthdays, holidays, to pay respect. Because they were good people, treated all the grand kids equally and with respect, never made demands, they just wanted to be around us all the time. When both my grandparents were dying, everyone was around them saying their good byes. My mother took them both into her house and gave them a place to live out their lives. I feel bad for this guy to not ever have had a positive motherly or fatherly figure in his life. These "grandparents" are terrible people.

[lmusima]

You could never be right for the wrong people

[Nitro]

I have said this on the tiktok video and i'll say it again "Love hanging on strings and conditions is not love, good on op's cousins for having his/her back. Also having dreams for your grandkids future, vs forcing your expectations on them, is not the same thing."

[krel]

I like the content you produce, but I've noticed that you've been making a lot of mistakes recently. One of your previous videos had a repeated segment of about 15 seconds. This one has at least 2 such mistakes within the first 4 minutes alone. I have to reiterate, I appreciate everything you do, but these mistakes make it rather difficult to follow the stories seamlessly.

[alexshepherd]

They "brushed you off" about art school, I see what you did there

[ianmoritzplatapino]

This op, thank god he went to a therapist so he can see the truth about his grandparents. They're narcissists

[TheOnlyLadyBella]

Bless the cousins. As an Aunt I wish they had taken him instead of the grandparents. However, I don't know the situation on why they didn't.

[jessicathompson]

NTA. Additionally you should call around to lawyers and the deed office etc

[dualmo]

At 3:13 you are repeating smth that already was at 2:08