Why Men React Negatively to Attractive Women Explained! #cheating #dating # marriage

[xTwinVipersx]

This also applies to how other women react to beautiful women too 😢😢😢😢😢

[MarkGriswold]

This is scary accurate. I know some beautiful, and yet often lonely women because they do have high values. Being beautiful has it's own 'cross to bear'. They need real love too!

[phantomvox]

I have to admit this is true. I don’t consider myself an attractive man like over 4 in looks. But Ive met attractive women that were into me for whatever reason I didnt get at the moment. Since I considered myself “not worthy” of their attention I just rejected, ignored and even treated them badly just to learned later on they were attracted to me.

[lucyg-fo]

Judgmental people have torn themselves apart. Learning to love yourself is the first step to a joyful life.

[mistyvance]

The classic 'Hey Miss, you fine can I talk to you?" Her "No thank you, I gotta go" Him: "Never mind, you ugly anyway!" - The Fox and the Grapes story.

[scorpiolove]

Don’t date down, they will eventually resent you no matter how well they are treated.

[ahmedmustafa]

The civilization is so complicated that sometimes I want to join and live with an undiscovered tribe.

[mswanderlust]

I totally agree with this. And I think it's also true of women with low self esteem towards women with high self esteem. There's an instant dislike of them and often judge them before they even know them.

[thedon]

Gentle men work on yourself and never focus on women. The right one for will come physical attraction will fade without a good personality. Love you ❤

[loknandombin]

I have never done this before. At the end of the day looks can only go so far so I do my best not to judge or make assumptions based on looks. A woman's behaviour and having a connection with her is far more important than how she looks!

[alexmihai]

Actually I observed that not so good looking women do something similar regarding good looking men too!
They immediately start looking for defects in that man. At first glance I didn't understand what's happening there, but this is it, the same thing.

[akherashepsutera]

It's what my narcissitic lawyer ex tried doing to me. He wanted to marry me, but kept trying to tear me down. He was terribly verbally and emotionally abusive. I held too much compassion for him and not enough for myself at the time. After I fully realized how much toxicity he created and maintained in his life along with the # of toxic people in it, including his fam, I realized many things--one was that he had never had anyone like me in his life (as confirmed by the ONE beautiful-hearted friend I met) and he was not only waiting for the ball to drop, he couldn't help but to move it along. I'm SO glad I'm out of that relarionship AND that I learned so much from it. Narcissists, unfortunately, struggle to change. Many, if not all, never do. Still, I wish him the best in his next lifetime, just STAY AWAY from me in mine. 🙅🏾‍♀️

[PrettyMamaPatchwork]

If a man is that intimidated by a beautiful woman before he even knows anything about her, and tries to find something negative about her, because of HIS insecurities is a big red flag about his character and what life would be like with him. Beauties, if you find yourself attracted to this kind of man, take it as a warning and don't pursue him. You are wasting your time. Its a serious character flaw.

[beet]

I have had access to beautiful women. They're simply people too, just a little extra visually appealing.

[ahmedmustafa]

I'm not a psychologist but can I say that women also behave the same way to good looking men like me 🤫

[SnowWhite-MVP]

I wish everyone could just stop rating looks out of 10 ... like why say " I'm a 7" or " I'm a 4" .. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Before you can love another, love yourself first, and stop rating your looks. Everyone has something attractive about them, it may be looks, it may be personality, it may quirky things one unknowingly does that others notice, etc. There is no # that can ever describe your beauty, nor do you belong on a scale of beauty. Build your self-esteem & believe in yourselves. As for the video, it goes both ways. ❤

[simonejaffa]

Great explanation Sadia. Really wanna hear more from you about men with beautiful women.

[bindervegas]

My beautiful, kind, caring, loving wife was a ten. All the guys in the office thought she was hot. Me included. I was oblivious to the fact she liked me. We talked and joked with each other all the time for about a year. One day at the end of the week, she came out to say goodbye at the elevators, and to tell me to have a great weekend. Then, she kissed me! We dated for four years and got married in 2016.
Because she was so beautiful, and sweet and innocent, she had been sexually assaulted as a child, numerous times by her father and other men. As a result, she suffered from depression. She loved unconditionally and even forgave her father. She committed suicide in September of 2022. She was, and is my angel. I haven't been with another woman since.
So, dont assume a beautiful woman has the world by the tail and is happy. They can also suffer BECAUSE of their beauty.

[MacMac]

" when a man has low self esteem ... "
HOWEVER ! There are men like myself who are aware of a womans attraction and WE KNOW that other men will be ogling and complimenting them. We don't like to be part of that crowd to further give them more attention than they already have. Like telling a woman she is beautiful when she gets told this all the time and she is either unimpressed or she gets annoyed because of it.
I agree with many things that Sadia has to say and I disagree with things that Sadia has to say that are either based on her perception of men or what she gathers from her male clients.
Some men are opportunistic with women. Meaning they wait for an opening to be able to get a face to face interaction, like me 🤗. We don't follow any rule book for approaching women. Otherwise, we just don't approach no matter how attracted we are to her. Do you blow a potential opportunity by not approaching ?? Sure ! But it's no different from women who refuse to approach a man they find attractive but because he doesn't approach her she'd rather let her attraction for him go to waste.

Same difference.

[OrthoLou]

Honestly..? She's spot on..
Out of all the female online dating coach people I've encountered so far, she's the one who seems to understand male nature the most and is the most honest about female nature.