Remember this on your first date! |Dr Tara Swart

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[kelflo]

Wow! This is super phenomenal &
a very interesting & wonderful fact!

[dxbnelle]

This is fascinating - but it all makes sense.

[esterriesparabe]

That is why is so painful when your partner keeps cheating 😪 with the same woman over and over...it feels like one of the biggest betrayal and stops you from feeling special to him. It is sad really to see that such a sacret and beautiful experience like bonding with one partner it is taken so much for granted and makes cheating something so unholy.. . So lets be all loyal ! it is worth it! 😅❤

[LauraCollins-eqou]

This is Fascinating! And makes total sense and totally validates all old-fashioned advice.
I would be interested to know how this works for same sex couples when both are men and both are women biologically and then others that are not but a combination there of.🤔

[davidpagan]

That’s why you don’t sample the goods Always wait it gets better with time 😊

[NataliyaDuSoleil]

Fascinating! That's why no man is getting near me on a first date. Not even a kiss. It's too soon:)

[penniroyal]

As a women Never have a sexual relationship until he has proven he wants a committed relationship! You can never go backwards in a relationship only forwards so Women control the speed and destination of that relationship! Don’t let him be in the drivers seat or you will loose complete control of your life together.

[conniewalker]

Brilliant! Thank you for this Clarity! 🦋💜⭐️🌷

[freeagenttraildevil]

That's probably based on other variables occurring on the woman's part, during the courting period

[RosettaRedfeather]

Because companionship for survival is way more deeply rooted than the sexual hit. We deeply know that we need each other as a tribe to survive, and when we become bonded at that level, the sex is a common recurrence of the connection. A much safer and more risk-free environment to enjoy it in.

[monicaospina]

not always works. i made my first bf to wait 9 months and he broke up with me after sex so....

[CreativeSoulsVibe]

My mom told me that if I ever wanted to marry a man that I seriously wanted to marry to date him for at least 6 months to a year or longer without the sex. GUESS WHAT, it worked twice for me.
“It’s easier to fall in love. Both Staying in that love space along life journey together becomes the challenge.” ❤

[markthompson]

Makes perfect sense
IF he hangs around 😂

[marialeon]

I was with my boyfriend on the first date. Together for 13 years and more to come.

[markrieke]

We made it the first time and stayed together…

[Findsfoxs]

One of the reasons I made my LDR wait for 4 months. Bonded first.

[haliec]

These days they have their next date on Tinder lined up in case he isn't lucky on the night with you. There is no waiting anymore.

[Chrisyjishere]

This is true majority of the time but it's not gospel. I read a study where it stated 25 percent of couples who had sex on the first date stayed in a long term relationship together, so that's a pretty significant chunk.

[reneehaynes]

You should make them wait but they still end up ghosting after they get what they want anyways. Maybe this was the case 20+ years ago when guys actually wanted relationships.

[itzbonzey]

That's why you should create the foundation of getting to know someone for a few weeks/month or so before sex. Makes a hell of a difference regarding how much you like said someone, and the sex is 1000x better if you wait lol