What Does It Mean When An Ex Says I Deserve Better

What does it mean when an ex says that I deserve better? Or when an ex says, "I need to work on myself"?

Coach Lee discusses what you can really interpret from what an ex says when they break up with you and how it can impact your strategy going forward if you want to get back together or reunite with him or her.

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[thenibelung]

I told her "yeah, I do deserve someone better" and now I am with someone much better, and my ex is texting me at 2 am during weekdays. Life is good.

[jacquelineaguilar]

“When you feel loved, you behave emotionally at your most attractive level” 🙌🏼

[HungrySnorlaxxx]

Coming up on six months of NC. My heart goes out to every one of you, it gets easier 💕💕

[dustyfuller]

40 days no contact and counting. It has been difficult. I will tell you there have been hundreds of moments of weakness. However, when I am feeling that way I put on one of Lee's videos and it calms me. Thank you sir.

[trevorharding]

Thank you Coach Lee. Now I just realized my ex said that to me as well the day after she ended the relationship. It does hurt, but it was 7-8 months ago. I'm still watching your videos so I can stay strong and to make sure i don't lose my cool if I ever bump into her again. If she wants to hop from one person to another, that's her. I hope one day she realizes she lost a special person who did the impossible by changing her life. Thank you again Coach Lee.

[blacknight]

There are certain situations, now more prevalent than ever, where someone who suffers from deep emotional issues and has major abandonment fears, will actually sabotage the relationship. They are so afraid that you will leave them once you get to know who they really are, they can't handle the thought of that inevitable rejection
which they feel is definitely coming, and so they will break up with you. Shame is something they feel intensely and around an individual like yourself, they can't afford to look in the mirror because it's far too painful.

[joncarbone]

When someone says one of those lines there is only one thing to do; politely leave. Don’t tolerate that crap

[Jonb]

To everyone out there right now and that ❤️ is hurting bad.... I'm right there with you...were doing it and there's nothing we can do about it 😔 stay strong, , it's gotta be the hardest thing I've ever done is watch someone walk away that means the world to me and there's not one thing I can do about it!!

[FaydsterTV]

Mine was “you deserve better and someone who can show you the same love and affection you showed me” and “I just couldn’t reciprocate”.

I never had a problem with how she handled herself in our relationship. She has some sort of trauma, maybe even some abandonment issues, and definitely emotional issues, but I still loved her for being her.

[NomadUrpagi]

If my ex is suffering now let it be. She brought this upon herself. I told her lets talk and to voice her concerns straightforward but she still preferred to shift the blame and breakup over whatsapp. You deserve to be lonely if you blame everything on me.

[washmyburn]

This video came to me at the right time. My ex would say this over and over. I ended up moving out because I knew deep down inside what was going on. No contact is definitely harder with kids. But I do notice her very different now that I'm working on myself and not chasing her. She tries to act as if everything is fine but I know her better than that. I know she's suffering on the inside.

[CraftsDotCupCake]

This video described my ex perfectly. He said all of those things. "You deserve someone better than me, I need to work on myself and be worthy of you so we have a chance of being together in the future, because we are soulmates" I must really look like a 🤡

[perckmalice]

Just go no contact- it’s a time for reflection and wisdom. Be yourself, trust yourself and your inner instincts and what the world is telling you. Love yourself! Before long, you will realise you are much better off without them and the world out there offers infinite possibilities!

[prophetallanmukisa]

The Truth is you don't need that person at any point, get another one who deserves you, period. 🙂

[JulesZone]

Coach Lee's advice is full of wisdom. It is an eye opener and has enabled me overcome break up depression and discovering myself on how to move forward as a better version.

[normajeanweimer]

Thank you coach Lee🌺 my husband of 38 years said that to me too, he wanted to leave me for someone he fell in love with at work, that was 4 years ago I’m divorced now and has lots of counseling to get myself back to my Happy self 🥰 I’m doing good never thought it would happen to me but it did, life is good now❤️ thanks so much, love your channel, take care 🥰

[Caseic]

I thought I would want my ex back, I even bought the kit. But at the end, I realized she was seriously unstable. No contact is me running away. I hope she loses my number

[lindapatterson]

And I said I won’t be here when you come back !

[KenRFoxNashvilleSEO]

Manipulators hand you excuses that really make little sense. Authentic hands you things serious enough you likely already knew but ignored.

[georgespangler]

If they can walk away from you there right and you do deserve better.