How To Know If A Woman Is USING YOU

Whether its for financial gain, emotional validation, or personal gain, a man must take notice of red flags a woman is taking advantage of him. In today's video, Jeff from The Style O.G. discusses how to know if a woman is using you.

[UnimportantAcc]

Inconsistency, inconsistency, inconsistency - absolutely brother.
The difference is day & night when you find a woman who's actually interested in you.

[zgarsamtavarez]

If a woman isn't building it with you, be it a family, a business, or an empire, she's using you. If she's willing to take half your shit if you split, she's using you. If she works because she's got to make her own and she also benefits from yours, she's using you. If she's "your friend" she's using you.

[drexq_]

The way a person carries themselves definitely shows their true character, and you can judge whether or not you want to deal with them based on that.

[Chefjoe]

Been there done that, glad I have had a woman who has been in my corner for the last 30 years and we have built together, Salute OG

[mmou]

Be careful of the ones who just talk nice and look nice. Sometimes thats all they bring to the table.

[JohnJunior-lz]

Never let a woman take your kindness for a weakness.

[aaronwilson]

Continue giving us that Knowledge Style O.G. SALUTE

[hiphopjewels]

As a female subscriber, you're dead on with these points. But, don't confuse this for the woman who you have a romantic interest in, but she has already told you that she just wants to be friends (no benefits). If you continue to do friendly things, like give her a ride, help her fix something that's broken, or buy her a meal, after she said she only wants to be friends, that's your problem at that point. Her female friends might buy her a meal, give her a ride, help her fix something, or give her money too. So, LISTEN to what she says and believe her. If she keeps using you because she knows you're interested in her, and you allow it, she's not a good person, but you're a fool. Don't let that happen to you.

[roadtoscratchgolf]

All excellent points. Brothers watch out there are a lot of them out to get something for nothing. I have a buddy of mine who is being used big time by his girlfriend, everyone tells him, including other women, and he says he knows, but does nothing to change his situation. Some people you just can't help or they just don't want to be helped. Cheers.

[manue]

Respect over love. It took me a long time to understand this one. Love is something that the heart feels, and sometime the heart can be wrong. But it's no denying whether a person treats you with respect or not. And if you don't get it move on.

[waynenice]

If She Is Calling You or want something from you Only when she needs something! USED!..

[AltonGermain]

O.G. I was just starting to scab up from the last video, You Still cutting the cancer out i see.

Thank you, because 4 of these signs are plaguing me

[kingofdiamondsproductionan]

In the initial phase of introduction women asking what you do for a living to figure your earning potential to determine if she wants to give you time and attention.

[infadelakainf]

Thanks OG. All hit on my ex wife. I tried the mind frame of staying for family and potential. Ended up being miserable for nearly 8 years. Finally decided that me being a father was jeopardized by the manipulation and disrespect.

We also have feelings no matter how masculine we are. #peacekings

[lincolndasema]

This explains exactly what I'm going through! You opened my eyes O.G. thank you!

[mngkyouGoD]

OH MY GOODNESS!!! I'VE BEEN WAITING ON THIS ONE😭😭😭👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

[cliftonsledge]

Have 2 friends going through it right now, sharing the video immediately. Thank you so much and Salute 🙏🏾

[mr.keepitreal]

Hey Mr. Style OG- Much Respect! I asked this female out to lunch . We were seated and handed the menu's. The waitress took our order and soon the food was at our table . We talked and enjoyed our lunch The waitress came back to check and see that everything was good. This female asked the waitress to see the menu AGAIN and then said that she wanted to place an ORDER TO GO. I paid for the complete meal - needless to say we NEVER went on a second date. WAS SHE USING ME- WAS THE TO GO FOOD FOR HER MAN AT HOME?

[ernestcarter]

Great points there my friend. I experience some of those. Another good one 💪🏾👊🏾

[Tronmotivated]

My brother this hit me hard. I’m currently in this situation with my women. I point out things I feel is disrespectful and she gas lights every single conversation and make it a argument. My family and friends to tell to leave, but my child is holding me back. I’m currently in the process of moving out and starting fresh. Thanks for the clarity in this video. I know I wasn’t tripping