If she ignores you for days… #datingcoach #datingcoachformen

[TheRobTV]

Yes. I dated a girl with BPD. Most confusing shit. Go out, had a great time. Ignored me for days. I worked with her. It was like i didn't exist. Talked to EVERYONE but me. One day out of the blue. Starts talking to me like nothing happened, and guess what, wants to hang out again. Because i was young and naive, I went for it. She makes plans with me for our Saturday off. Fucking texts me at 3am and cancels cause she couldn't sleep. I call work and see if they need anyone. I go to work. Forgot to charge my phone. So i get off work, get home, plug my phone in. I have 3 FB messages from her, 5 text messages, messages from my brother and a mutual friend saying she wants to get a hold of me. She comes to hang out. But leaves suddenly. Doesn't talk to me again for a fucking week and a half. The cycle repeats, but she flakes again of course. But now she suddenly has plans to move across the country, i just start ignoring her myself. She moves away. Texts me out of the blue. Well that day i had a borderline abusive argument with my dad. I tell her a bit about it. Now she promises to call me after i am done with work and tells me she care and she really means it. So after work we text and she says she can't call now because shes gonna watch a dvd movie with her new roommate. Like really, the movie isn't going anywhere, can't check on someone you care about for 5 minutes on the phone? I say dont bother, im going to bed. I have a text in the morning from her saying oh the dvd player wasn't working so i can call you now. I didn't text back. I waited a week and blocked her on all social media and my phone. I had so much trauma from this girl. I literally could not date anyone. I run at the most minor red flag. I see red flags now where there are none. Im deciding to stay single and not date. If im not priority, im not even an option. Don't let girls disrespect you. You dating a girl with untreated BPD, tell them to get some proper help and fucking run mate.

[gagejohnson]

Literally exactly what happened before she finally responded, said she was “busy” for 4 days which I don’t believe, and then unadded me the day after.

[Abzladz]

That line on top eyebrow makes you 100 times more attractive

[cbidnas]

Thanks your like better than an actual sister

[QamerMaqsood-krdn]

I did this and ignored her for two weeks and then she turned up to my workplace and said are you not talking to me 🤦

[sauronthegreat]

The door swings both ways. If I’m not responding soon after a date. That means I’m not interested. Move on.

[A.D.U]

Nah what hurts is when you try to keep a conversation going with them and they be dry, so you stop texting them only for you 2 to not talk for a whole day until you message them asking what’s up and they come clean and say they were ignoring you. Then next day is fine, and then they do the same the 3rd day. So you text them only to be left on read, then you don’t want to keep texting them bc you know they are purposely ignoring you. Worst part is that I actually like this person a lot🥀 (worst part was we were flirting back and fourth until they met someone the day I wasn’t able to talk to them)

[im-nobody]

She ignored me for 2 years, I think i fucked up

[ebayguy]

she's right. i just wish the girls that constantly text me understood this.

[georgeryll]

Already done..no time for games ..way to many hotties to bother with games.

[Rudy-odbc]

Theres different personalitys, I find some ladys are interested and some are not sure or they have some one, if there is a lady that don't respond in days don't text her, so do thus, send her a news broad cast or something all ladys are interested in and 70% of the time youll get a response then work it in from there, if you really want the that lady, keep it real. Good luck or F her.

[Bdog]

who cares about texting. I’ve wasted so much of my valuable time worrying about something I can’t even control while I could be out there living my life.

[Deltacasper]

Why even match on a dating app if the conversation is just ghosted either at the start or much further down the line without any explanation. I just don't get it 🤔