EP 16: Are You TRULY Ready for Marriage? Essential Questions Revealed! Part 1

Are You Truly Ready for Marriage? with Ludie Ponce | Intentional Rising

In this episode of Intentional Rising, host Jennifer is joined by special guest Ludie Ponce to discuss the vital questions you need to ask yourself to determine if you're ready for marriage. They delve into spiritual readiness, the importance of discerning the voice of the Lord, and the pitfalls of relying on physical and financial readiness. Jennifer and Ludie also share personal stories about their marriages, the significance of spiritual maturity, and the dangers of sexual sin. Tune in for a profound conversation on the spiritual dimensions of preparing for a godly marriage.

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00:00 Introduction and Special Guest
00:17 Determining Readiness for Marriage
02:38 Personal Testimonies and Experiences
06:35 The Importance of Discerning God's Voice
15:20 Hearing God's Voice in Different Ways
29:08 Biblical Examples and Marriage
29:47 God's Timing and Confirmation
30:33 The Role of Faith in Relationships
31:17 Missionary Dating and Its Challenges
32:08 The Importance of Spiritual Alignment
38:25 Understanding Dreams and Their Meanings
39:19 Discerning God's Voice in Dreams
48:14 The Dangers of Sexual Sin
52:09 Spiritual Significance of Marriage and Sex
56:54 Society vs. Spirituality

[docd]

The weight aspect is SO real. To the point where I questioned if I even wanted it because of the responsibility that comes with marriage and the warfare.

[ThrivingInChristianSingleness]

I’m so grateful you both did a video on asking if you’re even ready! Many romanticize marriage and are just trying to get there, but there is a purposeful wait and a journey. It’s not just about the wedding day or finally checking a box. Learning to hear the voice of God and seeing God as the one who can fulfill whatever you’re yearning for FIRST are key! If you’re desiring love, do you know God loves you more than you could ever imagine? Do you know God as the protector, confidant, friend, perfect Father/mother/sibling, way maker and (fill in the blank) you’re yearning for ? Do you even submit to Him (for ladies who will need to submit to their husbands and men who will have a woman of God submit to them)? Are you thriving in this season or just waiting for what’s next? God has so much for us today- not all about marriage but also becoming the women and men for the divine purpose He has for us. That also could be becoming the person that can sustain the blessing of the very marriage we have been contending for! This video was so good ladies! Excited for part II!

[siyamthandambelu]

50:08 true. There's a difference between apologizing and repentance. Apologizing is saying you're sorry, but repentance is changing and letting go of sin.

[enumangene]

Wow this convicted me so much, the part on listening to a podcast and calling it confirmation, neglecting going back to God and regaining clarity, that’s huge!❤

[deboraoliveira]

Jen! You are so blessed to have such wise/godly woman friends in your life!😮

[iamdestinyfaithart]

I rarely leave comments on videos however This was so good!! It wasn’t your typical “are you ready for marriage ?”vids. I loved and appreciated how you emphasized the hearing/ knowing the voice of God. This is key to life general, & made me pause and listen intently to the conversation. Thank you!! Can’t wait for part 2!

[justlekaa]

This was so profound, please may you bring Ludie Ponce again. Such wise words from the both of you, this was so informative 🥺🤍

[BeBeautifulgirl]

I would love a courtship video and advice too 🙏🏾

[TheOriginalHouseBabe]

I had a vision of my husband but I couldn’t think of anyone it looked like in my life. I also wasn’t able to discern if it was the lord or the enemy. & you nailed it when you said discerning the voice of the lord! He actually brought me to fasting in order to get clarity

[KyraDanyelle]

Can you talk about finances? Like how do you go about finances in marriage, and how do you approach it in conversation w/your spouse.

[wemeyedalu]

One hour went by really fast! This is good!

[Lillianmatlolane]

"you can't make a decision on that moment because all of that fade quickly once you get in marriage and attacks begin". Ohh what an eye opening statement 😭🙏.

[lorrecco]

This was so profound! I don't know how I bumped into this podcast but it must be proof of God speaking.

[RyanGangOfficial]

God Brought me to this Video. Just ❤❤❤❤❤

[iamjcs]

Love you both! Ludie your words were spoken so beautifully eloquent and full of love.

[EvaAde-kmjm]

❤God bless you both Sis 🎉this is wonderful
All I have to say thank you Lord🎉

[dorisadams-ndkq]

Am waiting for confirmation….God help me to hear you loud and see what you are showing me clearly

[dorothymatthews]

Thank you ladies! This was so deep, fantastic and awesome all at the same time! I loved it!

[bethelmaluti]

I feel God led me to this video 😊. This is Very profound may God bless you

[syrettascott]

Powerful and in tune. Many takeaways, wisdom imparted. Thank you, God bless you guys, truly.