MASCULINE DECIDER: Where Do You PUSH?

[abhassingh]

If there's not a clip of Shanon laughing in next video I'm suing.

[crshia]

Still laughing, laughing, laughing at the folk song.

[cratcliff]

I’m pretty confident I have F-Te as my top function as a savior and M-Fi as my last function/demon and also fairly confident I am sleep last. I’ve been watching these videos a ton lately trying to reflect. I’ve gotta stop killing myself and pushing myself so hard for the tribe. I think I’m shedding years off my life at this point 😔

[habibmkhan]

Masculine Fi here - Greg Plitt is an excellent recommendation.
This explains why my mentality feels extreme when I'm at my best. Pressure on self.

[Terrazona]

😳
The ending, where do you find this stuff.

[ibanezmonsterg]

Proud to be on the far blue side... the type that people like but at the same time can never truly be pushed around or changed on the inside, no matter how hard other people may try. Also, I like this spectrum visual, gives good perspective.

[krystur]

Cheers! Waiting impatiently for a vid about masculine/feminine observers. That seems kinda tricky

[zuiderlingtv]

you got me the alex jones part wast just too much xD

[Wingedmagician]

I’m glad you had that song at the end. I must have watched that a dozen times!

[jessicag]

That Alex Jones video is...one of the scariest, best things I've seen in a LONG time. Thanks for the laugh!

[PragmaticOptimist]

You are so right on the Alex Jones' part! Now every time i see him I will see fear on him, cause he does really emmit that!!

[authorerynblaire-craftingc]

Loved this video. I died at the end.
Masculine Ni and Ti, feminine Fe and Se here.

[JayLeePoe]

Wow, when you described how you cloister yourself off to work on yourself ... reminded me of this kind of detachment that can happen in those situations. I've had to work on it, untangling the knot mentally so that I can make sure my being blindsided doesn't have me miss a step. It really was just a practice of recognizing a need for a moment of personal calm for myself so I can regather my bearings. Otherwise it would be like the social mask shut down and emergency backup kicks in... "what's the next step? what is the pattern? how am I feeling? what needs to happen now? can everything work as good as it needs to? ok let's execute." No discussions with people other than strict protocol. But otherwise I am very attentive to the others and quite deferential. It doesn't matter much to me until it absolutely has to... such a bad habit.

[Churches]

This is fantastic content. I am M Ti / F Fe and my partner is the reverse, M Fe / F Ti

This helps me to better grasp our dynamic.

[christinaamendolare]

Great ending. Laughter helped break the M-Fi episode🥰

[juliemay]

I find it hard to express my opinions with the tribe and internally I can be quite upset. I wish I was just more pushy! Recently my work tribe have not been filing documents according to procedure. I've been frustrated and upset about that for months! :) :D

[kjellman]

I would recommend Wes Watson for pushing on yourself.

[AS-jqlb]

hmm, i feel like i’m pretty chill with both the tribe and myself - at least when it comes to pushing actively. but i suppose i am better at pushing other people to achieve things than i am at pushing myself, even if i have Te demon. i guess this dynamic looks different depending on which order your deciders come in (mine are Fi saviour and Te demon, so i guess that even if i do have masculine Te, it looks a lot more ”chill” than masculine Te as a saviour).

[dirtywhitellama]

I'm totally thrown off on looking at myself with this stuff, because of way too many years being pushed/pushing myself to be someone that I'm not - basically someone the (small, exclusive) tribe can tell who to be in all ways - am I now at 34 learning to not be pushed (Fi) because I'm M-Fi or am I finally just growing a backbone in general and working on my inherent flaws? I'm way too meta about all of it, I can see myself in any way I can convince myself at any given moment.

Need to locate some trustworthy friends who are willing to help me type myself I guess. Too bad I only have like 2 friends XD

[valzugg]

3:57 Oh man yeah I relate to that. I've thought of it as a general Fi dom thing tho.