Beware the Dark Side of No Contact, Don’t Fall into this Trap!

Don’t Make this Mistake if You’re Thinking of Going No Contact!

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[Ken-odgc]

No contact is purely protective for me. Even a 15 minute encounter with my avoidant ex sets me back. I don't want her back. I want myself back

[freepressright]

Weaponizing no contact is about as cruel and heartless as weaponizing intimacy. But the one mistake many people make is giving energy and attention too freely, many times with avoidant partners taking advantage. With avoidants, you learn that they love in absence and only see value through scarcity.

When they play the pullback game, no contact is an effective response and it also saves the anxious partner's heart.

To that end I agree with no contact.

They can't miss you if you're always willing to be present and giving of your energy.

[zeldeiromaster]

I'm in no contact because she is in no contact. Eight-year relationship. We were married and I was happy. I thought she was too. But she dumped me by text. She said I was a perfect husband but she wasn't happy. Refused to talk or see me. We divorced through a video conference with the registry office. I'm devastated!

[rustyjets]

I just don't know if I want to continue talking to her or not. She's made me the scapegoat for everything since we've been together. She goes cold after a couple good days together, then I stop reaching out because I'm just not sure if I should. Then she always calls or texts around a week later. This is after dating and spending a lot of time together for the past nine months, then her breaking up and saying she doesn't want to make any decisions about us right now. I'm exhausted, frustrated, jaded, angry, disappointed, and very sad. My everything is suffering because of my severely divided concentration. Yet, I love her, and want to understand her better so that we can be a stronger couple than ever. She just doesn't show much emotion, is dismissive of what I want, and has some other problems that I'm afraid she'll never work on unless she somehow gets moved by the fear of losing me for good. I would really love to have some inner peace. Jesus.

[katsandcounting]

It was both to protect myself and teach them a lesson. Which I doubt they learned. 😂

[femmefemi]

I needed to stay in contact with this person because I needed human connection, they were my only human connection. Horror.

[ChristinaDuffy-zt]

Thanks love i really needed this ive been going no contact for a while months maybe a year seen your video has made my mind up i give my goldfish away to my sister cus i got bored of it and it stopped coming up to the glass when i put my finger up to it his name was willy-nilly 😢 i wana give it another go