The Misconception About Filipina Single Mothers

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[MyWatchIsEnded]

If women sleep with someone they better expect to raise that child alone since they are taking on the responsibility of child bearing without being married.

YOU are the one who decided to have sex, you weren't raped.

YOU allowed sex without protection.

YOU couldnt control your sexual desires.

YOU are an adult capable of thinking for yourself and making decisions like sex which can have life long consequences, and benefits.

YOU are to blame for being a single mother. The man just did what you allowed him to do and now the woman wants to blame him for not wanting to be a father.

If you wanted him to be a father....

Why didn't you marry him? 🤔

[jdtravels]

I would not date a western woman with a child, but I would date a Filipina. Children are a blessing.

[dannydubose]

Another thoughtful and great video Shay. I myself can understand the struggle you encountered because I was a single dad who raised 2 boys by myself. Riseing above your challenges has made you a better person and I am glad to have met you as a fellow Earth human

[jamesvermeulen]

From a former single father from America, who's now in Dumaguete for a long vacation, I think that you are inspiring. Keep up the faith, being a single parent can be difficult, but is well worth it in the end.

[ColWJW]

Great to have a healthy you back, another honest and informative video.

[artking]

A beautiful and informative work of art Shay. Well done!

[TomScott__]

Good video Shay.
Thank you for making this video on the side of some Filipina that never gets told in a loving way. ❤️

[quackersna]

I'm a single father, having lost my wife tragically a couple of years ago. If that makes me damaged goods then so be it. I'm living my life in a way to bring maximum happiness to myself and others and anyone who doesn't support that is probably not someone I would spend my time on. Much respect to all of the single parents out there.

I'll also just encourage all of you to never give up. Like Paul said in the clip, there are men out there who will view it as a benefit. My children are not mine biologically, but they are mine. When I met their mother, I only saw good things about it. I promised that I would care for them if anything ever happened, and I'm happy to have an opportunity to fulfill that promise. Much love to you all. 🙏🧡

[davidkarl]

30 years ago, I was a struggling single father, it was because of my son that I had success. his existence made me stronger. As a grown man he still gives me inspiration.

[BusinessChatWithRob]

My wife was a single mother of 3 when I met her. I had already raised two sons and being a father is one of the greatest joys I've experienced.

Not every man would agree and they are certainly free to have their own opinions but, my wife gave me three amazing gifts that bring immense love and joy into my life.

For the deadbeat dads, out there, real men that are ready to STEP UP say thank you for getting out of our way. Any boy can be a sperm donor, it takes a MAN to be a father.

For all ladies that are facing fears, struggles and misguided opinions because your partner wasn't a real man, BE PROUD! You are the mothers of the human race just like any other mother!

[OneJuanWon]

A very thought-provoking presentation on a topic in which everyone should give introspection to, especially those who tend to cast labels or judgement onto others without really knowing their backstory first. The challenges of single mothers in PH is quite different from the same in other, more developed societies where support systems abound....and the statistics provided are rather sobering. We all should invest more time in observing and familiarizing ourselves with someone new before we place any kind of a label on them. Well done Shay 😊

[philippinefamilylifewithle]

GOOD JOB shay! This is so GOOD, very creative, I get emotional while watching 🙂💕

[joecolby-san]

Excellent story that needs to be discussed. Thank you for being transparent and I am sorry you (and all single mothers) had to go through this. God has better things and it's such a pleasure to see your gifts on display in your video's!

[prescottosegie]

Thank you for doing a video on this topic shay 💪😎

[steelcitytv]

New subscriber from the US Pittsburgh Pennsylvania beautiful work keep it up can't wait to visit this year

[dansharpe-ssnn]

Thank you Shay for your honest video. It is a delicate subject but you covered it very strongly and well. I would hope to find someone as beautiful, intelligent, loving, and honest as you.

[blueopal]

You see many videos from vloggers in the Philippines relating to this style of video that do not have any direct experience with the topic of this video. This is the second or third video in your collection that I have viewed, and I continue to be impressed by your calmness and style on presenting your subjects to you viewers. I have to admit I am very busy personally and I pick your videos at random to view and see your style, and it seems to be fluent at this stage. Children may not always be planned in peoples lives but they should never be a regret. I have two beautiful children from being married in my life, and they now raise their own beautiful children within their marriages, but I would never have judged them for marital status as my children and grandchildren are treasures of my life. As mentioned by an earlier commentator the marital rules and divorce costs there are prohibitive and a deterrent for those of us that live abroad. Enough said on this video :)

[VinceSalzer]

This is a very well done video. It looks like you have been creating videos for years. You will go far in your pursuit. I encourage you to Go For It!

[Scrunchychingo]

I’m super impressed with you Shay. You really seem to be a quality person.

[dave_in_florida]

Shea, great video, great audio, and great topic. You should explore dynamics of marrying single western women opposed to single Filipino women.