Deprogram Masculine Ways Ladies

more on feminine charms and habits

[ang_ro]

Watching this today as I am about to call out of my job and take the day off to go shopping to get better clothes, makeup, and de-stress my body. I work in a dirty environment doing hard physical labor, I used to feel proud I could do a "man's job", but now I realize I just don't feel like a woman anymore. Time to find me a career that will help me embrace my femininity. Thanks so much.

[lovelygoddess]

I am very feminine, but I am glad to know about emotional masculinity. Texting first, , thinking about the man all the time, pursuing the man is very masculine emotionally.

[whatsmaname]

My man is a six figure generous man who is 38 and I’m 24 — he doesn’t know how to dress for anything . He will say he likes women as tomboys blah blah but whenever I get cute he LOVES it — believe me !! Men love a dressed, polished woman.

[tajthegreatone]

This is so true what Shera is saying. Men DEFINITELY respond to feminine women positively. Men go out of their way to help me everywhere I go. Men love to feel like a hero as it is in their nature.

[FeliciaLoves]

I have dark skin and I’m married. I am not completely leveled up (I need to lose some weight) but I have leveled up In all other areas hair, makeup, nails, and clothes. I have had all types of men white, black and other approach me and don’t care that I’m married. She is telling y’all the truth listen and just do it. Apparently your way ain’t working try it and see. To be clear I am not dating anyone... I love my husband just saying I have been approached.

[ayannatyler]

Your right. When you look beautiful you feel beautiful, and you project beauty. After a while it comes to you naturally and you don’t even have to try hard. I started waking up an hour earlier than usual, so I can have time to do my full morning routine. It has made a world of difference. I look and feel so amazing.

[sentry]

Kim Kardashian was asked why don't she have tattoos, her response:
You don't put bumper stickers on a Bentley.

Ladies take this advice to heart.

[mkeoppen]

Literally watching this on my cracked phone in my dusty sweats. You are right time to level up lol

[vanaphill]

When I was a receptionist, I made sure I was on point with hair makeup, nails and wardrobe. Dusties would look but could not say a thing. Only the real men got through.

[PinkTiara]

I knew I was wasting my time on a guy when he purposefully kept trying to make me dress down. He would be like you don’t need makeup, you don’t need to do all that but I always told him I was like this my whole life. He knew that before he got involved with me and if he wants a crappy dressed girl who doesn’t take care of herself than he can get that but thats not who I am. Never been and never will be. For example my first job ever was being a courtesy clerk. The ones who bag groceries and collect carts but many customers was like “baby, you’re too pretty to be doing all that hard labor. You need to be behind a cash register showing that pretty face off” and kept notifying management about it then boom, I got promoted to being a cashier instantly so sorry to say it but looks are important whether you agree with it or not.

[carmensmith]

I heard that Ayesha Curry broke up with Steph in college because he wanted to act a fool. He got a taste of thirsty pick me's and notice that Ayesha had other dudes checking for her so begged her to come back to him. They also got married pretty quickly after college. Rumor has it she made him wait for marriage for sex. If true this shows that a success man will wife you up quickly if you have high standards and boundaries.

[MsCoconutconjurer]

Excellent 💕 take a belly dance class and get in touch with your feminine side, learn to move slowly.

[alexisjada]

Ladies if you’re going to wear a pair of leggings please wear thigh high boots(heels) and a long expensive sweater or cardigan. But avoid it if you can.

[carlynewoodrow]

"What do you bring to the table?" Me: "I AM the table, honey" so what have you brought to me? I love this video!! Puts my 27 year old goals into perspective

[carmensmith]

For those still having a hard time with not being masculine: Imagine this? You have a pretty female cousin that only dates pro ballers. She announces that she just got engaged and wants to invite you to a causal engagement party at HIS mansion. With excitement she tells you that even though the party will be casual she wants you to dress really cute because his wealthy pro athlete single friends will be at the party. Do you show up in leggings, Jordans, Uggs, etc? Or do you make an effort to look cute and classy? If your cousin gave you a $200 Nordstrom gift card for a new outfit what would you buy? Think about it carefully and whatever you would buy/wear to the party that should be you everyday causal look.

[Spiritwind]

I have been masculine/sporty most my life and used to make fun of feminine girls, thinking they were weak. Apart of my alchemical journey is to learn how to embrace and be feminine. Especially now that I am a mother and can no longer deny the reality of a woman’s role as a mother and wife. You are teaching me so much and I know he will love it as well😄 thank Ur like the sister, mom and best friend I never had 🙏🏿

[maddipage]

WOW I always thought I was feminine as I always dress in skirts, dresses, heels, avoid drama, cook, clean basically all the outside traits. I never once considered that by being over-opinionated, not needing a man and volunteering to do manual labor was masculine. I thought those were traits that heightened my femininity. This was a wake up call, thank you!

[VisionVoyagersOG]

Its true I saw a celebrity this week picking up my child from school. Thank Gawd I brushed my hair and put my makeup on, I would have been so embarrassed. He was looking hard too. We gotta look good if not better than good every time we go out. I am working on this daily. Thanks SheRa

[Angelica-ifbm]

My sister is very masculine, and she’s my example of what I don’t want to be. She has a habit of putting 100% into a relationship while the man is only giving 50%.

[Dia]

Dusties love them some leggings. Had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣