Rude money habits | Episode158

Seeing someone spoil themselves should definitely not be an invitation for you to start asking them for money 👀 yes baby that’s actually considered VERY rude and you should change that !! 😮‍💨

On todays episode we’ll be discussing rude money habits that so so many people have and if you know one point talks about you just stop it 🫢

Let’s all gather in the comment section and share your own points as well… Don’t forget to enjoy the episode! 😊

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[nzilanikimani]

I’m with Lydia on this! I was once invited for a birthday lunch and I happened to get there a little late. I had budgeted for my meal, my drink and the birthday girls lunch split, I had budgeted for like 7k.. wuehhhh! These girls were having shots upon shots, cocktail upon cocktail and even sending shots to girls at another table, plus the starters and drinks they’d had before I got there! Let me tell you Maina! The bill came and lo and behold! Each person was expected to chuck like was the one saying aaaah I’m sorry that wasn’t in my budget. Unfortunately the other ladies weren’t understanding and they were like this is how we do! I was like no! I’m not about to pay for drinks and things I didn’t partake! So no! If you eat and order something..be prepared to pay for it and not get carried away and split the bill equally! No ma’am!

[davywambui]

"...seeing someone spoiling themselves is not an invitation to borrow them money...."

[DignaK]

Splitting the bill, 100% agree with Lydia. People have very bad money habits. Splitting the bill equally has ended more friendships than not. Let everyone pay for their food please.

[ROSEGICHIA]

Lyd has a point. Splitting the bill is NOT broke energy.

[Traceywangu]

Lydia is a really considerate human.☺️
You can just tell 🤗 ....

[annmunyi]

It's 2024! We're not splitting bills. Pay for what you partake.

[Marcellah]

Millionaires do not have poor money boundaries, that is the fastest way to NOT be a millionaire. 😅

[sharonsoi]

Lydia definitely would be such a great human to go for brunch with...😊😊😊...she makes so so much sense...also what she said about Rhotimmi and a free ticket thing coz Lyd was pushing his event on her platform... that's some great personality...Murugi cracking me up all the damn time😂😂😂

[n.w.]

You only split the bill if the food was around the same cost.

Just because all of your friends are in the same money bracket doesn’t mean you can say that they have money!

That extra 3k from splitting the bill could have been used for something else that they have budgeted for towards something else.

Just because I might make 100k doesn’t mean I’m looking to spend 100k. If that makes sense

[DorisWandia-mw]

Not Lydia calling Murugi out 😂😂😂 you don't give off that energy 😂

[brianthomasM]

This episode is a whole social experiment! You can CLEARLY tell the differences in money personalities between Murugi and Lydia. This was very raw and you can tell the honesty. Having friends from different backgrounds (extremely wealthy to extremely not wealthy) has taught me to be more considerate. I lean a lot towards Lydia's money personality. Funny how both Murugi and Lydia come from almost the same money upbringing.

[stacymueni]

I have very very weak money boundaries. And listening to this conversation, I now realize that I have enabled my friends and family to use me. Am the kind who will go out with friends, pay all the bill n expect them to send me their share; and when they don’t I get angry n never ask them… and still repeat that the next time 😢😢😢. I will heal coz this is crazy… I think this originates from people pleasing, coz am like Murugi. Never want to start those small small calculations on the table when the bill comes. It’s such an uncomfortable situation for me btw 😢

[marywambui]

l agree with Lydia💯There is no way l will spend 2k and the other person spend 5k and at the end we have to split the

[winnieroze]

I have zeeeerroo shame of passing the bill around as we split. At the end of the day it's so unfair to be entitled with someone's money and make them pay for more than they spent

[shelmithmuthoni]

Oh my Lydia is so sensible and sensitive, I saw her at Milly chebby's birthday and felt healed as she arrived ❤

[doctordeeM]

Unfortunately Murugi, those billionaires cannot be spending those 'few' coins carelessly. Girl, on this you're wrong. You manage 'small' money poorly it reflects even when you have much.

[ruthmboya]

Splitting bills is not broke energy. Actually Lydia paying your end when Murugi picks up the tab might be one of the reasons the froendship has lasted. She may be able to pay for all the lunch dates but it's rude to assume. Murugi may say she never overthinks it but chances are that if you didn't pay back 3 or 5 times consistently, she would notice and would create awkwardness in that friendship.

[imungukalevera]

Billionaires respect ten shillings the way they respect a million shillings. So in my opinion there is no shame in paying your fair share at a dinner table and paying for what you had. I am sure the person who had more doesn't mind having others pay their share when it is split equally but does the friend who repeatedly has to pay more for others feel that that equal split arrangement is fair? Broke energy is relying on other folks to top up more than what they had to cover the expensive taste of another. I am fairly well compensated but I will pay for my consumption because I feel that is me keeping better track of my spending.

[Mamafabiii]

GOD OF Murugi please locate me!!!Murugi I want your problems😊

[annkangethe]

The wisdom in Lydia is on another level❤