Games Your Ex Plays When They Want You Back

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Games your ex plays when they want you back. In this video, relationship coach Craig Kenneth shares games that often happen when an ex is wanting to repair your relationship. Your ex may be doing behavior that is confusing and appears like they are playing games. This video can help you start to understand and interpret what they are doing.

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CoachCraigKenneth
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It’s called self respect. If I see my ex with someone else it’s over! They can have each other.

hollyrodgers
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I am impressed I promis that I had all these signs Craig Kenneth is the best coach of all social media

memalamimi
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The bonus is accurate. Mine said I thought you were contacting me to get back together, and a few weeks later said just checking up on you.

johncieclark
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My ex held on to my things for one year after I moved out. He broke up with me, and told me to move on. I moved on and he couldn't believe it.😂😂 He insisted on moving them to my new place, and I didn't want us to ever meet again. It's only after I reported him to his parents that they were able to arrange for my mover to collect my things.

twhitney
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I had an ex call me after 5 months and say she didnt know what she wanted but was willing to figure it out. That was her proposal to come back. I told her no. Besides that being a weak offer I had started dating my current wife who has now left me 4 months ago and im struggling with no contact waiting for her to get separation anxiety and want to work things out. The struggle is real. I finally got on anxiety medication. Craig is right you dont get extra points for suffering. I was crying all the time, suicidal thoughts, panic attacks, the whole deal. Im so much better now. Anxiety is gone just sadness and feelings of missing her is left. I'll take it over what I was dealing with. Embrace the growth!

bobbybrush
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my ex wanted to be friends, was flaky, tried to provoke a reaction from changing her profile picture and also tried to make me vulnerable by saying she missed me. I know she genuinely isn't doing it on purpose, she says her anxiety gets out of control when it comes to seeing me. I've recently had to cut ties cause its the only way to get her back and this time I have to set boundaries to protect myself and for her to respect me.

Coupy-pie
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I got to a place where I was comfortable and safe. We have kids and I would get frustrated by outside situations, never frustratedwith her. We're not in a position financially to separate. My hobbies are at home and I work from home so I literally don't go anywhere unless it's to take the kids out. After 2 weeks of watching these videos I stopped reaching out. She texts me everyday and I answer her questions and then that's it. This is all still very fresh and hurts like heck but im putting me first and trying to find my happiness. The hardest part is being in the same house and I don't have a family or friend support system so I've been taking 2 hour walks in the evenings to decompress and re center.

TigerLew_
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My ex of a three year relationship text message dumped me because of personal problems she was going through. Two weeks later, she called, trying to leave a voice-mail saying she missed me, and on new years eve, a month after the break up, she left me a message saying how much she missed me and how she was sorry she was a bad partner. I've been so grateful for these videos helping me make sense of a painful situation, but this is the first video I felt like I could really relate to because in the other videos recieving an 'I miss you' was a good thing that opened the door to maybe reconciling. From the beginning, I knew that wasn't what was happening, but I didn't understand why she was doing it or what she even wanted from me in this situation.

I told her I would reach out to her after we had time to heal, and I feel pretty confident about that. I just couldn't keep fielding the emotional provocation from someone who rejected and hurt me.

If you're like me and need time to process, I feel like letting them know you'll reach out at some point relieves some of their anxiety (which hopefully will put a stop to the unwanted behavior, idk hasn't been 2 weeks since then yet). But now she has to wait until I'm ready, and I'm much more comfortable with that than trying to soothe her through dumping me, lol.

missaiden
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My ex send me an album of us called Moments together 4 weeks after the breakup. I answered him, “I got the album, thank you for sharing it. Great moments for sure!” and he just replied with a smile emoji. I think he was expecting I could open up…

veruskamazzoni
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My ex reached out a week ago about she wanting her books she left and those books are signed by me and written by me in a hyper romantic way. We broke up 3 months ago and I replied casually and she stopped texting. Weird but makes sense with the indirect-direct approach

mauriciowarro
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I just wanted to reach out to You and Thank You! It worked!!!

chrissharkey
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My ex keeps contacting me but it’s only superficial communication most of the time. How do I know if she wants to get back together or if she just wants to keep me around as a backup or something. I am scared to shy her away if I show to much interest or by asking her what this is supposed to be because she is avoidant. On the other hand even if she would like to meet she most likely won’t be able to say it.

peterpistazie
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he's been liking what fb posts that he can see.. which are limited right now. but this is a new one ... today he "liked" a post twice hahaha it cracked me up. he had texted me yesterday "hows your week been going?" and i needed honestly to take a day to think about if I even wanted to respond.. I guess he got impatient and had to go unlike and then like a post again... I am def not trying to play games and just trying to give myself the space from him that I need after he severed things out of the blue but yeah.. that one made me laugh a bunch. I did text him back after I saw that and I kept it simple and polite.. Who knows if he'll continue to reach out but.. I know now that I want to be around people who make me feel wanted and cared for... and not make me feel hurt like he did. this is good.

misterhenchmen
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I sent her a message happy new years .... all she replied was "I love you always" nothing else ... i replied with ILV too I haven't texted her since what you guys think..

Trueblue
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He said he wanted us to be really really good friends

alicedalton
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what if hes seeing someone and he wont tell me he just want me as a reserve

skymc
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That's what my x did he only took his work clothes and paperwork and I told him he still has a lot of clothes here and he says it can stay here 🤔

alicedalton
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Hey Craig, your videos definitely helped me regain my sanity. I have a question. What do you suggest I do if I still sometimes run into her because we participate in the same activities and live close to each other? If I just say hi to her and then do my own thing does that count as breaking no contact? I don't really want to leave the activity clubs because of her because I genuinely enjoy them.

uniquehedghog
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I need to stop texting him and see what happens

alicedalton