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A Snack You Should Try….. | Divij Vaswani #shorts
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Delectable caramel skin, wavy dark hair, chocolate-brown eyes, deep intelligence.. These are just a few of the many factors that lure women to Indian men. Even the ones who aren’t exactly Dev Patel lookalikes have a certain earthy je ne sais quoi that make them pretty hard to resist. Throw in excellent manners and abundant generosity, and they are definitely worth your while.
Now that we have sung these guys all the praises under the South-East Asian sun, it’s time for some practical advice. If you are dating – or considering dating – a man from this subcontinent, here are some common traits you should be prepared for.
The first step is the hardest.
You can trust them to send satellites to Uranus, manage international corporations and sort out the fiscal crisis, but most Indian men don’t know the first thing about asking a girl out. This is largely due to the conservative societal attitude towards dating. (Case in point: a large part of the population still believes in arranged marriages.) Even though urban Indians are starting to embrace dating, most guys are still novices at the daunting task of approaching women, resulting in Raj Koothrappalli levels of awkwardness. That said, if an Indian man catches your eye, you may want to take matters in your own hands by initiating conversation or even asking him out. Just tread subtly; at the end of the day, Indian men are adamant about being leaders and may bolt at an overly aggressive approach.
They are extremely generous.
Once they overcome their shyness, Indian men are known to be the most gracious and generous of the lot. Be prepared to be courted like it’s another century, showered with attention and offered tokens of affection – chocolates, flowers and even material gifts are all part of the deal. Also, get ready to eat! Indian men love food, so you are in for some excellent multi-course feasts.
They have unrealistic expectations.
Indian men are notorious for their unrealistic expectations when it comes to women. They could look like Danny DeVito 20 years from now, and yet they will still expect you to look like Aishwarya Rai. Long silky hair, fair-skinned, a 25-inch waist, Michelin-level cooking skills, a doctorate in science – all of these are the mere prerequisites to landing a perfectly average man.
They can be hypocritical… and bad in bed
Don’t be surprised when you come across a serious case of double standards. Even if the guy you are dating has his fair share of experience in the bedroom, he may still expect you to be a Vestal Virgin. (He will also probably try to sleep with you on the first date, only to judge you after.)
Also, be warned: the Kamasutra may have come from India, but don’t expect your Indian guy to be that familiar with it. Due to the hypocritical and primitive attitude towards sex, most Indian men aren’t the best in the bedroom (until you show them a few tricks, of course!)
Mom’s the word.
We all love our mothers, but few people worship their mothers like Indian men. Imagine the Jewish or Italian mother-son relationship, dialed up to a whole new level of dependence and control. As often seen in Bollywood films, Indian men tend to obey their mothers’ wishes, and even grant them leadership over their lives. That said, if the mother doesn’t like you, don’t expect the relationship to last. She’s hunting for a daughter-in-law, not a girlfriend for her son!
Their families are involved.
If you’re dating an Indian guy, you’re pretty much dating his family, too, so you might as well bid all that cozy one-on-one time adieu. Expect his entire clan to be invested in your relationship, demanding regular updates on your engagement, wedding, and procreation timeline. (If you don’t have one, they will be happy to take care of it for you!)
Even though dating is becoming accepted in the Indian society, dating outside of the culture and religion can be a bitter pill for the family to swallow. And yet, more often than not, families acquiesce and give in for the sake of their kids’ happiness.
There is no life without wife.
Given all the societal and family pressure to settle down, it is no surprise that getting married becomes the sole goal of some people’s lives. For men from very conservative backgrounds, this is also the only way to have sex, making them particularly eager to quickly jump into marriage. On a bright note, all that respect that they have for their mothers makes them into excellent husbands!
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Delectable caramel skin, wavy dark hair, chocolate-brown eyes, deep intelligence.. These are just a few of the many factors that lure women to Indian men. Even the ones who aren’t exactly Dev Patel lookalikes have a certain earthy je ne sais quoi that make them pretty hard to resist. Throw in excellent manners and abundant generosity, and they are definitely worth your while.
Now that we have sung these guys all the praises under the South-East Asian sun, it’s time for some practical advice. If you are dating – or considering dating – a man from this subcontinent, here are some common traits you should be prepared for.
The first step is the hardest.
You can trust them to send satellites to Uranus, manage international corporations and sort out the fiscal crisis, but most Indian men don’t know the first thing about asking a girl out. This is largely due to the conservative societal attitude towards dating. (Case in point: a large part of the population still believes in arranged marriages.) Even though urban Indians are starting to embrace dating, most guys are still novices at the daunting task of approaching women, resulting in Raj Koothrappalli levels of awkwardness. That said, if an Indian man catches your eye, you may want to take matters in your own hands by initiating conversation or even asking him out. Just tread subtly; at the end of the day, Indian men are adamant about being leaders and may bolt at an overly aggressive approach.
They are extremely generous.
Once they overcome their shyness, Indian men are known to be the most gracious and generous of the lot. Be prepared to be courted like it’s another century, showered with attention and offered tokens of affection – chocolates, flowers and even material gifts are all part of the deal. Also, get ready to eat! Indian men love food, so you are in for some excellent multi-course feasts.
They have unrealistic expectations.
Indian men are notorious for their unrealistic expectations when it comes to women. They could look like Danny DeVito 20 years from now, and yet they will still expect you to look like Aishwarya Rai. Long silky hair, fair-skinned, a 25-inch waist, Michelin-level cooking skills, a doctorate in science – all of these are the mere prerequisites to landing a perfectly average man.
They can be hypocritical… and bad in bed
Don’t be surprised when you come across a serious case of double standards. Even if the guy you are dating has his fair share of experience in the bedroom, he may still expect you to be a Vestal Virgin. (He will also probably try to sleep with you on the first date, only to judge you after.)
Also, be warned: the Kamasutra may have come from India, but don’t expect your Indian guy to be that familiar with it. Due to the hypocritical and primitive attitude towards sex, most Indian men aren’t the best in the bedroom (until you show them a few tricks, of course!)
Mom’s the word.
We all love our mothers, but few people worship their mothers like Indian men. Imagine the Jewish or Italian mother-son relationship, dialed up to a whole new level of dependence and control. As often seen in Bollywood films, Indian men tend to obey their mothers’ wishes, and even grant them leadership over their lives. That said, if the mother doesn’t like you, don’t expect the relationship to last. She’s hunting for a daughter-in-law, not a girlfriend for her son!
Their families are involved.
If you’re dating an Indian guy, you’re pretty much dating his family, too, so you might as well bid all that cozy one-on-one time adieu. Expect his entire clan to be invested in your relationship, demanding regular updates on your engagement, wedding, and procreation timeline. (If you don’t have one, they will be happy to take care of it for you!)
Even though dating is becoming accepted in the Indian society, dating outside of the culture and religion can be a bitter pill for the family to swallow. And yet, more often than not, families acquiesce and give in for the sake of their kids’ happiness.
There is no life without wife.
Given all the societal and family pressure to settle down, it is no surprise that getting married becomes the sole goal of some people’s lives. For men from very conservative backgrounds, this is also the only way to have sex, making them particularly eager to quickly jump into marriage. On a bright note, all that respect that they have for their mothers makes them into excellent husbands!