r/niceguys Who Went Too Far - Learn From Their Mistakes!

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[justinjex]

Never be a nice guy. Ever! Be a gentleman and a good man. Mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally strong. Clean hygienically, well dressed and with good manners. Prepare yourself to be a Godly presider, provider and a protector. Then you move forward. Will you get the princess? Don’t know, . This is the only way. If women are not interested in you, then find people that can give you proper feedback and change accordingly. This whole channel is about this. Just by watching these videos, you are on the right track, but you got to put the work in.

[cskj]

this is an honest reflection of the deep reactions. I think a lot of guys feel right now so it's very useful to discuss

[Damnev]

How do you stay sane through reading these? That was like dragging my soul through broken glass.

[douglaskaplon]

To be honest. That last part you said about Christian guys dating. I guess I fall under that. I’m 34 years old and I never been in a relationship. But that’s because I never seen myself good enough for a relationship. It’s more like I punish myself thinking I’m not good enough for a woman And because I sin I’d be bringing that person down with me in sin. There is a lot of go through my mind. I can’t write it all here. And there are times where I feel guilty just wanting things in life wanting a house wanting a family wanting necessities.

[wescreedle]

That’s crime man. Not any kind of nice guy vs. bad guy it’s normal vs. psychopath

[ctCaptRex]

The best thing as man that you can do right now is stop caring. The older I get, the less i care about getting a wife/family. The less I stress about women/sex, the more I can actually focus on my purpose/calling. Deep down i still have that desire (built in biological feature, why should i be built different than Adam?), but the older i get, the less it controlls my emotional balance or impedes my judgement.

With every day that passes, i am more and more fine with the scenario of dying alone/a virgin. And this process gives me more power over my destiny than anything else ever could.

Am i wasting my potential with my inactivity/lack of persuit? Probably. But no one ever wanted me in that capacity, at least not to my knowledge. So why bother chasing after windmills 🤷🏻.

[aaronrocks]

This isn't even a nice guy. Why are you referring to him as a nice guy?

[alpacalypsellamageddon]

Definitely had a good laugh 😂
Love the aesthetic, and the underlying wisdom from a biblical perspective 🕊️

[unnecessarycensorpolice]

2:41 yes you can
So unnecessary censor

[MandoadeJetiiVerde]

If like to point out the age gaps weren't typically all that drastic historically speaking. For example while Marry was 16, Joseph was likely 18-20, maybe pushing to 25. And the betrothal period was a courtship period that lasted at least a year if not 2. In the case of Jacob, he had to wait 7 years. So if a father liked the guy and thought he could take care of his daughter but see they weren't ready yet, he could have done the same thing. Likely Mary was about 18 when they were actually married. This would fit the timeline as she was gone when Jesus was concieved. She was visibly pregnant. I'd have to see how long of a walk it would be from Nazareth to her aunt's house but that would give us a baseline of how long after the betrothal it was when she returned, plus staying long enough for the conception. I'm thinking that alone was 2 years though

[mztweety]

Ladies if a nice guy is bothering you get a bigger, meaner guy to bother him.. preferably your dad ...hell anyone's dad

[alexanderbrozel]

Talk about a confidence boost! What is wrong with these dudes!?!😂

[anthonyjones]

Just as a reminder to noted to be entitled to some one else’s affection is strictly a status mindset that he/she belongs some say social contagion by social media interactions of individuals known as influencers = celebrity’s that people admire by think they could do no wrong.

[Ben-fqlj]

16:44 .... ehh.... I think i have to push back on this one. All throughout the Bible it gives us ideas of what type of people God wants us to be as Christians, and if we want to make sure we marry a genuine Christian and not just some immature/what our flesh wants, we need to look to scripture. There are multiple scriptures like Ephesians 5:25, 1 Corinthians 11:3, and Colossians 3:19, BUT!!! I think we can look at other scripture passages as well that show a consistent message -

What does God value?
1 Samuel 16:7 - But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”

Proverbs 31:30 - Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

[stevelucky]

You say there is no such thing as soul mate, yet it is hard to reconcile that with God literally pairing people together in the Bible. Adam and Eve were made for each other, Isaac had Rebecca chosen specifically for him.
The pairings are hard to ignore as God not having each one planned and the failure other than that just being the errors of mankind.

[sakih-oe]

Am a single lady praying to God to give a man who will love and understand me 🙏