When You Stop Being Available, Everything Changes - Carl Jung

When you stop being emotionally available to everyone, everything changes. This video explores Carl Jung’s deep insights on energy, boundaries, and psychological power — and how choosing silence can transform your life.

[CarnivoreJack-]

You don't find this channel, this channel finds you

[Stoic_Timeless]

Protecting your energy is not selfish. It’s smart.

[TheLogicRoom]

You stop being available, and the world suddenly starts seeing you in a new light. That’s the power of self-respect.

[sleep_chaser]

It’s crazy how people take you for granted until you stop being there. Boundaries are so important

[Timeless-Wisdom-th]

When I stopped explaining myself, I started respecting myself.

[omo_ajapa]

While I agree with this ideology at a high level, I think it is important to remember that as humans, we make meaning through the relationships we have with others. Aggressive individualism and self-imposed isolation can help you hear your own voice, but that will never be enough. We have to find a way to harmonize with the voices around us if we want to truly be happy.

Edit: thank you for all the responses! It is very validating to know that so many of us are struggling with the same things. That is a kind of a harmony, for me at least.

[shraddhapawar]

"Because you're too available for those who don't even deserve a minute of your silence." I felt that in my soul.

[PsycheVibes-]

Jung’s lesson: scarcity breeds value—even in you. When you disappear, the world notices. When you’re always there, you become furniture.

[UEEE]

“I’d rather be hated for who I am, than to be loved for who I am not “ - Kurt Cobain

[joannegoodman]

"People who want you available, all the time, do not want YOU. They want what you PROVIDE." THAT hit home with me....😮

[kimberlyvaldes]

“They reveal that they never wanted you, they wanted the role that you played. And now that you no longer fit, they don’t know what to do with you.” Damn that was so real.

[ZX....R..]

I found Manifest and Receive by Eva in the messiest chapter of my life. I’d lost my sense of self and was stuck in survival mode. But that book reminded me that receiving isn't passive — it’s permission. Since then, I’ve allowed more love, more peace, more money without chasing. If you're always chasing, maybe this is your mirror.✨

[Vyspades]

“The manipulator doesn’t need to control you, they just need you to keep reacting the same way”. Felt it like a knife in my chest

[liam_cordy]

This hit so hard. The moment I stopped over-explaining myself and started protecting my energy, everything around me shifted. Felt super seen by this. Honestly, reading all books from MindBloomery opened my eyes to how much I was leaking energy trying to be available for everyone. Life's quieter now... but way more peaceful.

[Outrunninaround.]

What’s crazy is there is complete strangers here, that will treat you better than the ones you know.

[Anuthingdo]

This comment section probably won’t remember me, but maybe someone scrolling needs this. A few months ago I hit a wall. Nothing made sense. I bought Manifest and Receive after seeing it mentioned under a random video. I had no expectations. But chapter by chapter, it broke something open in me. Not motivation — momentum. Wishing that for you too.✨

[thedreammachine-nx]

My therapist taught me this... and changed my life forever. I don't HAVE to answer the phone... Have to pick up the phone... Have to do anything.

[b.snipes]

This is great. However, remember, this does not apply to parents of young children. Parents need to be predictable and emotionally available. If parents try to gain power through unpredictability trauma is almost necessarily guaranteed to follow.

[mandy-ovi]

This book breaks down no contact in such a real, validating way. It helped me stay strong when I was so close to reaching out. Just leaving this here in case someone else needs it — The Closure Plan.

[TangodownNZ]

I took this videos advice and decided to try not being available. Within a week I lost my girlfriend and my job