Marriage From Hell With An Indonesian Woman 🇮🇩

Welcome or welcome back to another relationship story time video.

Today's video is different as it is about a relationship with a woman from Indonesia.

The viewer that submitted this story explains how he met his future on a dating website.

After he moved her to his home country and then Germany, things just kept getting worse.

I do not have any footage of Indonesia so here a walk around Pattaya.

This footage in the video has nothing to do with the story.

I have added a 4K thailand walk to the video, so you can have some nice views while listening to the story.

✍🏻 Stories read out on this channel come from various sources such as reddit, forums, viewer submissions and other Youtubers. None of the stories are the broadcasters (me or a co-host else on the channel) are our own personal experiences

[frankquagmire]

Her asking for a diamond ring as “proof” was the moment he should have run for the hills. A decent Indonesian woman would never do this.

[GERdeathstar]

When she says you're not serious about her after refusing to spend 25 grand on a ring, you know where it's headed :D

[HappyLife-nfwb]

Bandar Lampung. Basically she's from Lampung. And most Indonesians think that people from Lampung are notorious for being criminals. Ask any random people around Jakarta or basically Java and Sumatra, about people from Lampung and they will tell you the same.

[RealSerie]

There are so many red flags this genius chose to ignore. I would've ended it when she asked for a diamond ring. This guy also placed some random chick over his daughter. There's like a 95% chance his son isn't his but he still went along with it.

[andyhinds]

I think the horror story would have been avoided the moment she asked for three hair dryers. In my experience, he's not "blinded by love"; he's desperate for validation from someone who gives him attention due to a low self-esteem, no matter how bad she treats him, hoping she'll change. "She started to reveal her true self" when she asked for three hair dryers. Still, he was young and naive and had a low self-esteem. Some of us have been there.

[wangzggy]

The moment she would’ve asked me to buy her a ring to show her that I was serious and she wanted one of a specific price … I would’ve left her

[drizzt]

Unfortunately I had a similar experience with a Chinese woman! But I have nobody to talk about - because all will think I am crazy! Thanks for sharing that story and I hope more people will see it and will understand what's going on.

[lendlalfred]

That was a crazy story. As a man, you must be very picky about which woman you marry and have children with. Failure to do so can result in years of pain, headache, and resentment.

[God.Almighty]

love these stories. it reinforces my notion that the only person in this world that i can fully rely on and trust is... me.

[dexstie]

Omg, Am from Indonesien Living in Sweden for 36 Years. I`ll never do that. So sorry to heard all This story😒Hope you fine happynes in the end🙏🇸🇪

[lixnkonjera]

Almost ended up in a similar situation. A lady neighbour proposed me. A very attractive woman. Later, I discovered she was a divorcee with three kid, though she lived with her two daughters.

We got talking but, all the time the conversation evolved around money, big sums too. I wanted to know her more and there was a guy that would come to spend nights at her place. As days went on, I discovered she had a married man, they would spend nights at some guesthouse.

In the night, her phone would be very busy just like a hotel receiving calls for reservations..

[concretecupid]

Once she was telling u to buy her a expensive ring, and was unhappy about u couldn't afford it, that was the cue to run far away. He couldve saved years of stress if he did just that

[dumber]

bandar lampung?!?! not to offending anyone but as i'm an indonesian.... bro you should know in every country there's always that one place/area/city which was a red flag. You should be thorough and ask around before deciding to have a relationship with someone. especially when you're in foreign place.

[shadowfilm]

So many desperate naive men out there. Use your brain! Not just your heart. Use your brain! Think! Think! Don’t become a fool! So many out there become fools. Don’t become a sucker. It’s all about the money! Period! The money!

[musashiyan]

So far... every story I've heard has been about gold diggers and/or victim mentality. Please be strong and let them know you won't tolerate certain things either.

[zerogrey]

I am soooo glad I married a Japanese woman. She had a bad temper but it was never directed at me, and our engagement rings cost a dollar combined. Later on we spent about 400$ on some titanium rings (EVERYTHING breaks me out) and she never once complained. She couldn't cook but she kept the house spotless, kept the kids in line and worked behind the scenes to make my life easy enough to work 60 hours a week to keep money in the bank for the family.

I know not all women are the same, but I've seen to many women over my more than a half century of life to make me think that all women are the same after all, with the exception of old school Japanese women. Thais, Filipinos, and Indonesian women just want a way out.

[noraizankamaludin]

Poor guy... I hope he found the love of his life and lead a wonderful marriage now and forever....

[wezza]

Absolute horror story, so many red flags. I met my now Thai wife online, bonus was she already lived in Melbourne, we have been married over 10 years, I definitely picked the right partner, hope this guy finds true love.

[bogotario]

In Germany, If you got kids, she can't deny access. That's not her right, especially if you have a court order. Get a lawyer and he will take care of this...

[lilsykos]

Why doesn't he go BACK to the court system and report her for not letting him see the kids? I don't know how Germany works but I can only imagine if he has papers saying he has legal rights to see the kids daily, they have to enforce that legally...