Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love #eightdates #johngotman

Is it ok that you do not have any quarrels with your partner? What is the perpetual problem in a relationship? What is the situational problem in a relationship? Drawing on forty years of research from their world-famous Love Lab, Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman concluded that most conflict between partners is not solvable. The authors consider that the two sides should accept each other as they are and should learn from their differences.

[michaelmbogo]

You can never think or see things the same way as a couple....it takes arguments and disagreements to build oneness

[CrystalDatingCoach]

Couples who Never argue or have discussions are not in Love. When you really care about someone you want them to understand why what they did upset you...to move forward.