5 HARMFUL OVERLY MASCULINE TRAITS!

[Jerry]

I just wanted to say as a 19 year old man it’s refreshing seeing somebody older than me finding peace in solitude. i feel like people romanticize being around others which is great to an extent but spending time alone is just as important

[jasminekaur]

"RELATIONSHIPS ARE 100/100 AND NOT 50/50"
Someone bring him an award!

[mqtic]

On the stoic topic, it's important that you don't make therapists out of your friends though.

[santana]

I just want to remind you guys that stoicism isn't about not breaking or hiding emotions, it's about having self control and not acting according to your emotions if they will bring harm, for example, it's okay to feel anger, it's not okay to scream and make a scene because of it, it's also necessary to open up and talk about your emotions in order to administer them

[DaeCRG]

bro the second one is so true. people at my school brag about how many “bitches” they can pull at a time but then call them hoes when they do the same. it’s just a mess

[astersdixon]

I’ve been doing this kind of skincare since I was 14! Learning how to be a a man unapologetically-All my life!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Blessings brothers!

[hanz]

This is the role model young men actually needs

[persephone]

I aspire to reach your levels of selfcare and peace of

[imintheraindripdripdrop]

I can't tell you how good it is to see a grown man, trying to give good, useful, healthy advice to people who might need to here it. Instead of just spouting off whatever makes money. Keep doing what you do man.

[soujanyapatil]

I need a man this mature mentally ! So that he could teach our kids and be a great dad.

[c.p.martinez]

This is why people need good dad's to teach there kids this 😭 it's so important

[Ambassadorofthelight]

During my marriage, I cooked every single day, cleaned, kept a roof over our heads, nurtured my 3 children, and did all of the " social constructs" that men are supposed to do. My wife had it easy. I was ignored and felt ashamed as a man. It turned out that she just wasnt open to even receiving such things because she couldn't fathom that there were men like me out there. As soon as I had enough and was ready to go, my value suddenly was seen. Unfortunately I had waited far to long for her to even see me, and the marriage couldn't be saved. These are some powerful steps for men to follow but its equally and even more important for women to recognize these valuable traits in a man and never take it for granted. .

[lenamoon.xoxoxo]

This man has been to therapy 🙌🏾 & actually makes an attempt to apply it in his life. He’s an anomaly of a black man ❤

[everythingjoe]

Stoicism isn’t bad man. It doesn’t teach you to not feel. It teaches u to recognize ur feeling and handle them in a productive manner. U will slip up with this sometimes but it’s a worth while goal to work towards.

[MalkiaMelanani]

This is so dope how you make time to take care of yourself. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[bellaprincesa]

Someone protect this man at all cost. Our men NEED him

[alexishenry]

Men expect this from women when they don’t even take care of themselves

[abbasduman]

Stoicism is the art of viewing things from different perspectives. Rather than freaking out about every thing that annoys you, it teaches us not to lose your temper and staying calm.

So I don't see why this trait would count as "toxic", while it is still very much needed.

[Anna-icpt]

If a man ain't like this...I don't want him. This is insanely attractive. A real man🙏

[patricewilliams]

I see you, "The body keeps score." Great book. Healing from the inside out. I'm trying to get my son to read it.