6 Qualities That Make Men Attractive On A First Date

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Points mentioned with time stamps
1. Conversation adaptability & pace 0:26
2. Attention to detail 1:32
3. genuine curiosity & interest 3:48

4. Balanced assertiveness 4:58
5. Well-timed humor 6:17
6. subtle vulnerability 7:10

[MrShadowThief]

What makes me attractive on a 0th date? I'm not even getting to the point where this video matters.

[frenchfan]

Another attribute to consider not just for dating but in a professional sense is the old but still valuable concept of punctuality. If you think there might be traffic issues, leave extra early. Showing up late for scheduled events in life makes you look unreliable and not trustworthy. My guy friends know that when I say let's meet for lunch at 1:00 pm for instance, I will order shortly after the scheduled time rather you are there are not. Yes, I hold the same standard for myself. If I'm late, order without me. I'm an adult and can handle the consequences.

[familyengineering]

I was on a date with this girl. She would ask me questions and when i would answer she would keep asking more questions. Then later i found out from her friend that she thought i talked to much about myself. She literally didnt give me a chance the whole time to ask her about herself.

[cassiusarouch]

Thanks for your work and help courtney🍀👍

[siroptimistic]

This is very good advice, presented in a well-spoken, gentle and attractive manner. This is exactly how men like to be spoken to by a woman. Keep up your good work with these important and necessary videos.

[genericname]

This video has shown me that I have all the skills needed to have successful dates just without any actual ability to get dates

[Lawrence_writer]

Older well-married man here watching a video about dating, which, thank God, I will never have to do. I don't think I ever dated really in my life. Women I went with, we just seemed to be thrown together. Fellow backpackers, fellow hikers, co-workers, women in workshops or seminars, women met at random or introduced to. You just "clicked" with someone. You both knew there was a spark.The times I "dated, " going through all the steps, wow! she's cute! or wow! she's interesting! asking someone out- these were the days before the internet when such things might be easier- taking them out, having conversations, that was the minority of how any of my relationships began. Dating? It seems a strange and awkward process. I enjoy the videos, though. Your videos are well-made, Courtney. Very pleasant to watch. 😎

[lawrence]

There is a woman that I've been wanting to ask out, so I'll definitely keep these 6 qualities in mind if we end up going on a first date!

[IAmTheRawls]

Hey, look. It’s Ms. Courtney! Good to see you again! Glad to see your doing again!

[Snarge]

Courtney may have mentioned this in the past, but to me, not sitting opposite of each other but instead taking a seat (on a square table) to her right or left is more comfortable and less confrontational.

[JohannesNel-nc]

No matter what I do to make the first date work. It is obviously not enough. Because there is very seldom a second date. My record up to now is 3 dates with one person. But she told me from the word go she only want to be friends. So not shure what more I can do.

[ClevelandKid]

Thank you so much. I have not really dated in a long while and I can't lie, I am sure I've lost my groove (kind of embarrassing at almost 40 lol, I know). But this video helped. Thank you.

[djdiaz]

Good morning after or evening to you all ❤ and god bless you courtney 🤗

[NexWalkthrough]

Courtney... its been a while since you have made an "Approach" video. Can you make a video tailored to the man that has his looks and finances together, on how to approach women and get the first date. Without that, this video doesnt matter.

[x-man]

On a 1st date, avoid "performing". Performing, "rote recitement of canned lines or memorized anecdotes", sounds like a news report and/or fake. It will make you seem anxious and unsure of your standing. "Needy" to get you own PR statements out.
It is very much associated to the worst fail you can do on a 1st date; "Asking a question about something she just went over." Like her NAME for starters. DO NOT ever allow yourself to be in position to have to ask her name twice.
Another example: While you where mulling your next intriguing public announcement of your greatness, she tells you she loves horses, but hates horse racing, thinks it's cruel. 2 minutes later, you say with excitement; "Hey, there's a big horse race at the fairgrounds tomorrow, lets go".

[GCP]

If there’s anything I learned from love is blind is that a lot of guys don’t know when to be humorous and when not to.

[mongul]

Love the content, been following for awhile . Thank you for the tips n info ❤️

[A.I.T.F]

Something that was subtle and attractive to me is his simplistic choices. Dr. Bronners for all cleaning and hygiene (single Castile soap bottle covers 100s of uses), Duluth trading he can dress up or down and is always ready to seize a moment as all his clothes are utilitarian for business, casual, or dirty work in a moments breath without the need to change the wardrobe he’s wearing.

[christophertranter]

Going by my date from last night. I turned up, she didn't. I thought it was a pretty cool move, but I don't think she was into it.