How to Identify a Drama Queen (and Avoid the Chaos)

Are you tired of feeling drained and exhausted in your relationships? Do you often find yourself walking on eggshells, never knowing what might trigger an emotional explosion? You may be dating a drama queen. In this video, John Griffin shares his insights on the signs of dating a drama queen and how to recognize the patterns of behavior that can be detrimental to your mental health and well-being. From the emotional highs and lows of bipolar disorder to the subtle manipulation tactics used to control and dominate, Griffin provides a comprehensive guide on how to identify and navigate these complex relationships. By understanding the importance of emotional intelligence, communication skills, and personal growth, you can empower yourself to create a drama-free living environment and focus on what truly matters - your own personal development and empowerment journey. Remember, what you focus on grows, and what you focus on becomes your reality. So, take the first step towards a healthier and more fulfilling relationship today.

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00:00 Read Between The Lines!
02:13 The Power Of The Drama Queen
3:05 How To ID The Drama Queen
03:25 Attention Hog
03:55 Social Media Stage
04:50 Stressed Out
05:44 They Love The Misery
06:30 No Apologies
07:15 The Hormone Exemption
07:48 Ducks
08:22 Emotional Extremes
09:19 Obsessed With Appearance
10:10 Compare Themselves to Others
11:44 Very Critical
13:10 What You Focus On Expands

[georgesontag]

You will never know what your getting no matter how much you screen her. She is on good behavior until the time comes when she decides to change.

[Verdpast]

Sometimes I dream about getting married again...
Usually I wake up sweating and screaming, but happy it was only a nightmare 😢

[snmn]

They are currently completely self centered. When you look deeply at them you’ll find they really don’t care about you at all.

[JC-gwyo]

Talk about a drama queen turning a good situation to crap... I took this girl friend to Ireland and 2 out of the 7 days, she was pissed at I don't know what. How could anyone be cranky in Ireland?? I ignored her as Ireland was my dream trip of a life time, and she didn't ruin it for me. She later told me "I don't know why you put up with me". She didn't last long

[machector]

I think one of the most effective ways to detect a drama queen at the start of a relationship is to tell her you’re bringing her to a coffee date and that you both are paying separately.If she freaks out, you know which direction you need to run in.

[Seanus]

Remember, guys. Peaceful is not boring. Dispel that myth ASAP. You have the clarity to see the options you have around you. Drama is for the theatre stage, not otherwise.

[JG-kvoi]

My ex wife of 22 years changed dramatically after two years of dating and would proudly proclaim "I thrive on chaos". There wasn't a single situation or promise that she wouldn't break so I deleted her. She's still living the chaotic life, however its a crap car, crap house and crap income and bad health all from bad decisions. I hope she's enjoying her chaos. I'm debt free and living a peaceful life.

[THX]

If you don't provide a woman with Drama, she will create some herself.

[Iovingthoseclassics]

I dated the queen of drama queens once. EVERYTHING was about her, and every situation in her life was elevated. She loved her appearance, the camera, and loves social media to tell the world about her struggles. EXHAUSTING

[LatesMusicFan]

Yes, anyone can become a drama queen briefly, but not as a chronic condition.
CHRONIC drama queens MUST be avoided at all costs.
My brother had a (probably bi-polar) wife who chronically complained about everything.
So before divorcing her, he decided to give her one last test. He took her and their daughter on a luxury cruise ship to Roatan Island in the Caribbean.
Roatan Island is this upscale perfection of a RELAXED vacation. EVERYTHING was done for her! She did NOT have to lift a finger for anything!
Great food, massages, entertainment, tropical ocean, ideal whatever, you name it... but she STILL found "specks, " as you mentioned, to complain about.
That was the final straw for him.

[LatesMusicFan]

It's amazing when one thinks about it, but a woman being a drama queen covers a very wide expanse of all her behaviors. It stains everything about her.

[jonmueller]

Even negative attention is attention. My ex would cause all kinds of issues on family holidays and important times with family. Always over nothing.

[shawnsmith]

If you go on a date and ask them what tv shows they watch, this is a great indicator of finding out if they like drama or not.

[thomashilmersen]

The terrible thing is that a normal woman can become a drama queen if she hangs out with other women like that. It's a way of being that they somehow pick up.

[larryreis]

Being SINGLE and FREE is SO NICE. I get to do whatever I want whenever I want without having to deal with a woman in my life. It's SO peaceful. I get to make my life be the way I want it to be with no schedules except mine. ❤️🥳😁👍

[hatembenabdallah]

I remember about 10 years ago, after my divorce, I started studying Cluster B Personality Disorders, and I studied them for many years. One day, I was describing some of the characteristics of BPD and NPD, and I was so proud to share that with one of my friends—talking about people with BPD and NPD. Right in the middle of our conversation, my friend stopped me and said, “Do you realize that you’re just describing a woman.” And we laughed, because I knew exactly what he meant

[RobertLloyd-cp]

John is spot on as usual, most drama queens are narcissists. The woman either did not get enough attention as a child, or got all the attention as a child. If anybody has worked for a mid to large corporation, you will see and hear drama queens in the break room, hallways or cafeteria. Drama queens are never happy, just perpetually sad, depressed, and miserable people. Drama queens are emotional and energy vampires, and hell bent on making your life miserable. And the funny thing is, drama queens know internally they have emotional and mental issues. basically from low self esteem, low self confidence, depression, anxiety, body image, etc... issues. DQ's are to be avoided at all costs...just speaking from work and dating

[gfsquall]

I like watching the leaves turn greener in each of your walking around videos.

[fritzthecat]

I love the thumbnail. 😂😂😂 The picture is sooo accurate. I can hear her squeeking. It's hilarious. Great pick, John!

[jamesa]

If your stomach is empty, it tells your brain to eat. For those with high estrogen, the emotional part of the brain tells the rest of it to find stimulation. It's a craving. And if no stimulation is found, unlike food, it can create stimulation by creating chaos. Especially when others are around, because their reaction adds fuel. Then, once their brain is full, they're done. But what they don't get is the fallout of the chaos and the reactions. People stay upset well past the chaos, and when they do, you guessed it, it's THEIR fault.