I am leaving Ireland

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[Urmomlolllllll]

Take it from a woman in her mid 40ies that has lived in too many countries… you will be drawn to whichever place will help you grow in that phase of your life. One place might make your introverted self be forced to be more outgoing, another place might force you to take a deep breath and slow down your life’s pace, the next might make you question your core beliefs and values. Learn from each experience, take notes. Most importantly, stay humble and be grateful for even having such opportunities/freedom of choice. ❤

[HanniblBarca]

I'm Irish and they are the same reasons that I decided to move to Spain.
In particular, the Mediterranean climate and being able to do things outside has had a massive difference on my physical and mental health.

[candicefoy]

I am from California and been in Ireland for 2 years. I feel the exact same way, point for point. There is so much beauty in Ireland but it is not for me long term.

[Marwa_SM]

I have been here for 2 years and I feel every word. I lived in 6 countries and joined my partner, thinking I'd settle in Ireland, but decided I'd look elsewhere. Yes, the people here are nice, but you won't make friends with the locals. If you don't live in Dublin, life can be pretty boring. I live in Cork and unless you're in the pub drinking, there isn't much to do. I don't agree with people repeating " you have to find happiness within you", while this is true, living in a country that offers entrainment helps a lot. Having the sunshine and being able to go out for long walks or hike in the mountains without being completely soaked is also a quality of life. I have only lived in big cities before moving to Cork and I can really feel the difference. Now I need to rely on my vitamin D pills otherwise I fall into depression and my quality of life has incredibly declined. I'm grateful for the great work opportunity I have here, but I am already planning on moving. I find that people who grew up in smaller cities or like isolated places are the ones that tend to stay longer here.

[eamonwhyte]

You've summed it up in one line- there is no perfect place. You don't get everything, no matter where you go in this world. There will always be some sacrifices or some drawbacks.

[kingofcelts]

Being honest about it, Ireland can be a wet, cold, damp and overcast place for a lot of the year. This does affect a lot of people mentally, you feel lethargic and not wanting to do stuff. I'm just surprised that people don't realise this before they come, they haven't done their research..

Housing is massively expensive in Ireland and you'll be working for the landlord to a large extent, that's the fact of the matter.
Just my thoughts as an Irish person..

[roberthanley]

Ana-Maria,
I urge you not to listen to those who are in agreement with you in the comments here: they can only teach you how to feel depressed. It is incredibly easy to feel extremely happy and full of energy every single day — but you cannot live in the manner that most people do. It is also extremely easy to be more physically beautiful at 40 years of age than at 25.
Firstly, what you are doing wrong: you are seeking very regular novelty and excitement — which is to say, shots of dopamine — from external sources, such as environment, social activity, and food. All this does is flood your dopamine receptors, making it impossible thereafter to feel pleasure in any of the little things in life; hence leaving you feeling depressed. We evolved to live in much simpler natural environments. Your goals in life thus far have all been too externally focused. The only goal that matters in life is that of internally-created happiness — 100% an internal creation.
Secondly, there are non-negotiable rules for how to be physically healthy in life. Most importantly, you can never ever eat any sugar: it is disgusting for health. This includes fruit except for kiwis, lemons, and berries; you should never drink fruit juice. You must make vegetables — kale, broccoli, mushrooms, and carrots — the most important part of your diet. At the beginning, this will taste very boring and bland due to the fact that you have trained yourself to chase dopamine shots. After a while, however, vegetables alone will begin to taste wonderful. The only meat you need for protein is chicken fillet — 150 grams per day.
As regards the nightlife you seek, this is incompatible with healthy living: if you stay out late — or, even worse, eat — at night, your health by the time you are 40 will be like that of the majority of people; which is to say, terrible. You should be in bed by 10:30 every night, having turned out your lights (for yoga and meditation) at least 30 minutes beforehand. Jumping straight out of bed at 7:00 the next morning, the absolutely most important thing to do in life — within an hour of waking — is to get outside for a short (or long, if time allows) walk for the purpose of getting sunlight into your eyes: it is crucial to set your circadian rhythm in this way every single day.
As regards the warm sunny climate in some other European countries like Spain, it can be horrible in the summer; and in places like the Canary Islands, the air quality is disastrously unhealthy on a very frequent basis due to dust from the Sahara Desert. Ireland has amongst the best air quality in the world; and a cultural backdrop that is peaceful, and populated by arguably the friendliest people in the world. You just need to know how to live astutely. Happiness and health are all about your internal management of your own neurochemicals, and your taking responsibility for scrupulously shaping your own internal perception of reality in every moment. I wish you healthy and beauty, Ana-Maria, for countless decades to come.
— Robert

[rossmax]

Met a Brazilian guy in Dublin who said he loved Ireland due to the safety from crime and poisonous animals. when I mentioned the weather he said it was easier to stay warm in Ireland than to keep cool in Brazil. You need to join a dance class and make more friends.

[RGLful]

Great video! I literally feel the same, been in Ireland back in 2012 for 6 months only and then the UK in 2014. On November 22 I will be leaving the UK for the fourth time as I understood that my place is not really here. The cost of living is ridiculous and you get nothing back so I decided to go back home to Romania where I have all of my loved ones, and my warm cozy big, and full-of-light flat, I have access to remote jobs and am overall financially more stable. It's perfectly understandable how you feel as I was and still am in the same situation and looking forward to seeing what your next journey will bring. Kisses & hugs xoxo

[Tamar-szox]

Our environment is the most important choice we can make, the people we surround ourselves with, the books we read, wishing you the best ❤

[jillsomani]

Hi Ana Maria. I just saw your video and I can totally relate to you. I came here for postgraduate studies and now I am contemplating every single point you mentioned for months. It is only holding me as I want to make sure I give myself a valid point and that there are no regrets in future if I move out of here. Kudos to you on the best of your journey here in Ireland and good luck ahead!

[anasfrh]

You cracked me up at your description of living with other people 😂 But I can understand, the greatest mental health improvement I had was when I decided to live alone. The sense of control and privacy I had was just priceless. Home felt more like a safe space than a war zone...

[justyna]

Thank you for this video. I understand what you mean. And it's nice to hear someone say all those things out loud.
Ireland is a beautiful country. But after living here for 1.5 years I find myself in a similar place to you. I come from a very big city and it's difficult to get used to the weather and lack of entertainment, especially outside of bigger cities.
I can't wait to hear where you end up! 😊 you can always come back - for now definitely explore!

[furkanoz]

To be honest you are definitely suffering from loneliness and not sure about settling down yet I think problem is not Ireland

[jonathanbridgeman]

I grew up in Ireland but now live in USA. The weather is a huge factor in Ireland. I don’t think people realize how much it effects everything from mood to lifestyle...Very good video 👏

[subashnigovender]

I really appreciate that you disclaim that this is your personal preference. I like that you are self aware enough to realise this isn't the life you want and choosing to make appropriate arrangements for the life you want to live

[huyenaki]

I am 32, have lived in Ireland since 2017, living with my partner but I feel exactly the same like you. I realised even when I am kinda settling down and about to build a family, I still feel the conditions in this country (climate, lack of entertainment, lack of ambition) that make you feel depressed. I feel related to every word you said in this video as I used to be the same: always active, always wanting to improve and challenge myself. This country is just not the right place for us.
All the best to your next journey and wish you find your happiness and purpose back. Looking forward to how life in the new place turns out with you!

[bigeyegreedy]

Leaving Ireland for Canada was the best move I ever made. I miss my family like crazy, but I felt stagnant there. Trapped almost. I did not mind the weather because it's all I knew. Other than the winter months, the weather is beautiful here in BC. There's so much diversity here and there's always something to do. If possible, try to travel and spend some time in a place you're considering. However, do not just focus the hot spots. Rather, the area you are considering and try to really get a feel for it. Ireland may be where I'm from, but Canada feels like home. If you feel these ways, Ireland is not for you. When you've found where you're meant to be, you will feel it.

[wolftrapman]

I can honesty say moving to Ireland is the best decision i ever made. There are pros and cons wherever you go, you must realise you will NEVER find a perfect place or partner. To pursue this goal is a wasted life dont do As wise old couple once said in our day if something broke we fixed it, today we throw it away.

[bk]

You have your whole life in front of you and I wish you all the best in your future life