Subtle Signs She Likes You, Dating Advice For Introverts & More

In this video, Hallee and I answer your questions and provide a woman's perspective on some different situations. I hope you all enjoy and find this helpful!

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[dzs]

This is story of my introvert friend. He liked one girl living next door. So he would go to knock on her door and ask for sugar for his coffee every single day. That was going on for month or so. Then one day, he had a fever, so he stayed in the bed and didn't go. On that evening the girl came to knock on his door, because she was waiting for him excited and he wasn't comming. As an reason to visit him she asked for coffee, that she ran out. They are happily married ever after. (funny part of the story, the guy was actually working in sugar distribution company)

[ajtaylor]

As an introverted man, I've always had quiet confidence so I never felt the pressure to prove myself to men or women. I was a bit of a late bloomer when it came to attraction women but it was a huge blessing in disguise because being alone made me more comfortable in my own skin and allowed me to just be 100% authentic. It got to a point where when I would reveal to women some of my awkward interests and hobbies such as wrestling/WWE, I would get great responses because I wasn't ashamed and those women would usually become interested in that thing.

[PRdude]

I've been introverted pretty much my whole life. When I was younger, there were people who'd pity me about it, and come across as though they think they're better than me. I didn't know how to articulate my feelings about it then, but now I say that it's condescending. Looking back, I was actually just fine. I like to talk, but I don't let out every mundane thought in my head. I like to go places, but I'm never one of those people who's never home unless they're sleeping.

[bmfs]

As a fairly introverted guy, a big struggle for me is that almost all of my hobbies/interests are male-dominated or relatively isolated (hard to meet new people while doing them). So while I do leave my apartment several times a week (a lot for an introvert like me), I rarely run into new women, which is why it can be difficult to make connections. Ultimately I've decided to just bite the bullet and force myself to cold approach if I see someone attractive in public, since it might be my only chance.

[toddkelly]

In regards to the Alpha/Beta issue I had a funny story. A coworker rode along with me on my route for training in case I got sick or whatever. This grown man felt the need to tell me about his sexual conquests, how his nickname was Romeo, how he stood up to bouncers at a club and they cowered. On and on and on about these unbelievable stories that don’t fit with his character. The one phrase that constantly kept playing in my mind was, “A lion never feels the need to tell everyone else in the jungle that he’s a lion.” Plain and simple. I’m a lion, I’m a lion, I did this, I can do that. Needless to say, it was a painful awkward drive.

[nykia]

As an introvert, the biggest thing I learned to do was to own my introvertedness and turn it into an asset. Sometimes people feel the pressure of feeling like they need to fill every second with conversation or feel like they have to put on a performance. If you try to play the extrovert, it's not going to come off as authentic, so don't do it. Introversion is misunderstood a lot, and carries a bit of a negative connotation. What I found is that a woman appreciates when you ask her questions, listen, and simply allow her to express herself. She'll like that you had the ability to recall points of conversation that she made, or that you are observant about your surroundings and make a comment about something that she may not notice, etc. She'll view you as thoughtful and perceptive.

[fullmetalGINGER]

Ive spent the last six months going through a brutally depressive separation from my wife. This channel has helped me to realize how complacent I've been. That I've always had great qualities within me that I've hidden away for years. Courtney, you're doing a fantastic job at helping people with problems they weren't even aware they had. Keep up the fantastic work. I've found it liberating and extremely encouraging.

[Razear]

The problem with dating as an introvert is that because introverts tend to like their alone time and rarely go out, it's difficult to connect with other introverts because you won't have the opportunity to meet these types of people if you're just sitting at home. Maybe online dating would be better than in-person interaction, but again, many introverts might not even be willing to create an online dating profile, it's a catch-22.

[fredmcelroy]

For introverted men, try going to the bookstore. Since inward things give me energy, I like going places where I can be myself, be curious, and pick up something that will help me to think deeply and think often.

[arty_lerry]

Be vulnerable but not emotional.
Meaning don't tell her what makes You sad or angry because You might start crying after opening Your deep issues and past traumas and that's not what women want to hear.
Gotcha.
So be vulnerable as in - act like everything is okay and assure to her that everything is fine. 👍

[TerryProthero]

1. She gives you a lap dance in a strip club, and she doesn't work there.
2. She introduces you to a wedding planner on your first date.
3. She causally brings up the topic of baby names and is curious about your personal preferences.
4. She wants to meet your parents after you engage in small talk with her about the weather.

These are the kinds of subtle clues that an autistic introvert like me could pick up on if we were paying close attention. I remember when I was younger, like 18 or 20, and there was a woman I was interested in. I was sitting in a chair and she was on a bean bag chair. And we talked for hours about different things. Later she tells me that she was giving me all sorts of hints that she wanted me to join her on the bean bag chair. She asked if she should have just grabbed me and pulled me to her. I said, yes. Then I was puzzled as to why she would ask such silly question.

[MrAvidOutdoorsman]

Strike up a conversation with all the women you can, you will get a feel for it. Its just conversation, remember that. You don't need a goal or a specific intent, just be confident and let it flow. You will leave a better impression if the vibes your giving off aren't goal oriented and ask open ended questions.

[basedviet]

I’m a classic introvert and found my way through photography and cinematography. Sometimes it’s easier to communicate through a visual means and I’ve found a lot of women like the quiet brooding artist 😂

[becca]

With regards to the discussion on experience, I was too scared to date for a long time because my impression was that guys had no patience for a girl with no sexual experience. The fear of, *ehem*, not knowing what to do and having the most embarrassing situation of my life was too much for me, so I never went out, and I avoided guys I found attractive.
Cut to: April 2021, I'm British, so we're still locked down (for the most part), and all my friends at this point are online introverted discord nerds. And that's where I met my first ever boyfriend (I know, cringy, right? Lol). I was 23, he was 28, he was a close friend who was more nervous with women than I was with men (which is saying a lot). It was genuinely the greatest comfort he could've given me that he was as nervous and confused about intimacy as I was. It was and still is about discovering each other (as Courtney says), not "being good". Celebrated our first anniversary last week, and going all the stronger
So I hope that's a comfort to guys out there, there's women out there who need someone like you, and the women who don't don't change that

[americancapitalist]

10:06: This is why we love Courtney. She’s sympathetic and relatable.

[hunanbeing]

How to tell if she likes you; “if she likes you, you'll know.” 😅 great 👍 glad I found that out

[guntertorfs]

Ladies, asking someone for an interview is WAY less scary than cold approaching a woman. I promise you. Reallly like your duo action in these videos. You strengthen each others communication. Result : good information in a fluent style. Well done !

[Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

I do what Courtney mentioned, smile, and look away, and don't keep that look too long. Eyes are so important. She has to have that look like she likes him. My older sister is really good at getting a man to notice her that she likes him. She gave me some advice and men approach me more. She gets approached a lot.

[Introvertedalpha]

'Don't pretend to be someone you're not in order to get someone to like you' -- great advice! Thanks for this video!

[dannydorito]

Something my mum once told me that as always stuck with me is that the fun is in learning how to please your partner and teaching them how to please you not so much about how many people you have been with. Which I've always taken to mean that when you are with someone new you are both as experienced as each other because you are learning each other together which I think is a nice way to think of it personally