Are Your Fertility Challenges Destroying Your Marriage?

I know this is a touchy subject. It might be hard for you to hear. It's honestly hard for me to share. But we need to talk about it because many of you are suffering in silence! 

I'm Queenie Brown. I’m an author, a Healer, a Transformational Coach but most importantly, I’m YOUR SuperNatural Doula!  And I help women heal from the emotional, spiritual and energetic wounds that are preventing conception and successful pregnancy. 

When I was 34, I was told I would never be a natural mom. My body was shutting down and none of my doctors could tell me why. I had to crawl through my own pain to get to my healing...and it took almost 2 decades.

Fortunatley for me, as I was turning 43, I gave birth to my first miracle baby. And turning 46, I had my second.

I got pregnant 4 times in my 40's and I want you to know that You can do this...and I can help.

Have you begun to notice changes in your marriage since you started on the path to pregnancy? Have you noticed changes in YOU?

Well, today’s topic is close to my heart for a few reasons. 

Throughout my life I have been personal friends with a LOT of women who have struggled with fertility. 

There was 1 that lost her marriage to it, and there are 2 others that are literally suffering through their marriages. I’ll explain more in a moment. 

You see, the journey through infertility is an incredibly painful one and it can change you at your core…if you let it. 

It takes so much courage and faith to press on and keep trying even in the midst of what feels like impossibility. But the emotional wounds of inadequacy and broken-ness and the scars of jealousy and envy can ultimately turn your heart completely cold…totally numb! 

It’s our brain’s way of protecting us from more pain. It’s heartbreaking even more.

And add to that the hormonal rollercoaster and the pressure on the marriage can become just too much. 

Especially if you have a partner that is unable to support you through it…the way you need it. 

It’s painful for them too and they deal with emotions very differently than we do. It’s biology, not personal.

I totally get it! 

At the same time. When you turn cold, they, sadly, have a propensity to turn to someone else. That’s the painful truth. 

In those 3 women from my past, each of them are now living with the reality that their husbands have had babies with other women. 

It’s devastating on so many levels! Two of them chose to stay in the marriage.

I’ve cried with them and heard their stories of suffering and how they have had to watch the excitement in their husband’s eyes as they play with the babies that they weren’t able to give them.  That pain burns so deeply. 

I don’t want that for you. I don’t want that for any woman. 

That doesn’t have to be your story! NOT AT ALL!

So, It’s important for you to take ownership and responsibility for your healing. 

We all know that Hurting People hurt people.  And both partners in a marriage are hurt by fertility challenges. 

Whether you are successful in conception or pregnancy or NOT, You have to heal your wounded-ness NOW so that you don’t cause further harm to yourself and your union.  

I believe that infertility is merely a label given by the medical community to communicate the fact that they can’t find a solution to your physical inability to conceive or complete a pregnancy. But they don’t acknowledge the fact that you are not just physical, you are also spiritual, you are emotional and you are energetic. 

Many of our physical symptoms are the manifestation of unhealed wounds or even trauma from our lives. When we heal the trauma and learn how to best support ourselves, our bodies are able to finally 'Rest into Conception'. 

Don’t suffer any longer! Let me help you heal your broken heart, return to JOY, come back to YOU and restore your marriage!

Let’s have a heart-2-heart. Where You and I can get on a call to privately discuss you, your healing and your journey towards motherhood. Don’t worry, It’s Free. 

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