There are no do-overs once you have reached the end of life. I refuse to be unhappy.

If you’re new to my channel, my name is Anthony Enwezor. I have been consistent on my self improvement almost a year now (since I created this YouTube channel to share my lessons). I’ve gone from being in debt, out of shape, depressed, no direction in my life to completely turning everything around. Getting out of debt and having my finances in order, getting back in shape, developing for my purpose with direction.

How I got here…

21: Graduated University Of Bedfordshire and stayed at my fancy retail job for a year
22 yrs old: Left my fancy retail job to start my own business and become self-employed (Personal training).
23 yrs old: Heartbreak woke me up from fantasy land so I got a job working an office recruitment job whilst doing personal training part-time because I soon realised I knew nothing about business and personal finance. I was deep in debt at this point but 6 months down the line, I got fed up. I came back from multiple holidays and didn’t want to go back into adult school (the office) and so I quit when I came back.
24 yrs old: I put everything into my personal training business and became the busiest personal trainer at my gym; training one to one, groups and companies that wanted to look after the wellbeing of their employees.
25 yrs old: Lock down happened and I lost all my clients as I did not know how to transition online but some how I managed for a whole year training companies on zoom who wanted to look after their employees health and wellbeing.
26 yrs old: Lock down ended but due to politics I had left the gym I trained my clients in hoping to successfully do my own thing but I was delusional. I slowly sank lower into dept as I needed to pay bills. In desperation, I got a job at a warehouse to stay afloat. I had completely given up on everything. On top of that, I lost my best friend. I felt purposeless with no direction in my life which caused me to feeling depressed. I had no idea what I wanted to do.
27 yrs old: I decided to pick myself back up again. On top of working a warehouse job, I picked a job working at a gym; doing hours on the gym floor as well as personal training.
28 yrs old: I decided personal training 1 to 1 wasn’t for me anymore and I hated the warehouse job. I knew I had more skills in the bag and because I wanted to switch careers so bad, the universe / God, did everything to align me with an opportunity that suited me. Things were going well with multiple promotions and pay rises however, I was still in debt because I was undisciplined in all areas of my life. I soon found myself in a situation that was unexpected … I lost myself, went into further debt, very depressed, felt trapped and out of purpose as a man.
29 yrs old: I decided to turn my life around. Learn to improve myself. I started this YouTube channel as I wanted more accountability sharing lessons along the way.

Today: I’m no longer in debt, taken accountability for all my past mistakes, much more disciplined, in better shape / physique / physically fit, happier and more confident, less depressed, developing myself more for my purpose and I have more control over my life. The videos I make are lessons that I’ve learnt along the way and ones I wish I knew in the past to help those who are in the situation I use to be in.

My mission is to serve, empower and inspire men to take responsibility for their lives in a way that pleases God.

To everyone on their own journey, we are all doing what we can to write the best stories of our lives. Regardless of your situation, I want to encourage you to get your lives in order.

Better to try than with the life time that you have than to pass away regretting that you never tried.

Stay locked in. May your desire to win be greater than your challenges.

Never quit,

Anthony

FULL DISCLOSURE
I create content with the goal of generating income, but my approach focuses on a longer time horizon than most. My aim is to build genuine trust with people who share my values and vision. By doing this, I can identify the best individuals and work to help them grow and improve.

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[silverbackheathen]

I agree with you. I'm in my 50s, and it took me until my mid-30s to realize the importance of self-love, self-happiness, and cherishing and appreciating life. I allowed many people and situations to dictate my joy, which was never their right. Now, I've focused on a smaller circle of priority people in my life and am trying to maintain control over my happiness.piness. I say try, because I am human and susibtable to slip ups, I catch myself, remind myself and mover forward