How to instantly click with others - MIRRORING TECHNIQUE

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You know when you click with someone. Conversations go great. You get them, and they get you. Mirroring others is a fast, effective technique to increase your likeability and influence with people.
You can use mirroring to more deeply connect with others.
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I noticed that a lot in the past 6 months. At first I thought maybe people were just trying to imitate me (Not sure of the word for it). And for that reason, I was still confused on why people were doing it. Sometimes felt like they were mocking me. This video all makes sense though now, as it was driving me nuts trying to figure it out.

woolfy
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If you want to be more likable, dont just look at the person themselfs, but their friends. That way you can know who they lean to.

justanomorifan
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I think sometimes in group setting people who are nervous will often start to mimic movement of the more assertive talkative person. I had this happen recently snd i was trying to study it as it was happening. I was with two guys i barely knew helping move furniture. The other two knew each other well. Afterwords we stood and talked and one guy was mimicing every movement i made. It was bad! For likr 20 minutes. I was talking and joking and the mimicker seemed nervous or waiting for me to leave i think. And this was making him tune into me. Because he was very focused on how i was a stranger and he was unsure and uncomfortable.

ron
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Your a god. thank you. I think therapy is the best thing too make me realise i was on the wrong path 🙏

stijnfox
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Very impressive video, great content. Best from an appreciative new Aussie subscriber.

OfCourseICan
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Breath at the same rate? breath in when they breath in? Out when they breath out?

georginajovanovic
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So your saying if i want to interact nicely with someone else then being original in my way isn’t how to do it?

victorcesar
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I can mirroring people when it's just me and one more person. However, I run into trouble when I meet that same person in a group context.

The person I originally mirrowed has an image of what I am but then they see me mirror another person, and they realize what I was doing.

Any advice on what to do?

LuisRivera-eugf
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Yeah actually... this technique has been used by Narcissists since their father rebelled. It’s actually called Manipulation.

lyndseymeagenwalker
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Maybe is time to read some psychology, or anything.

Novapsihoanaliza
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Won't be you boring to the person you do this to?

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