Dating Expert Monique Kelley Shares her Tips

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[StayAtHomeMeme]

I’ve been married for 12 years and my husband and I don’t fight. If we disagree on something we talk about it but I wouldn’t even call it an argument. Fighting and arguing doesn’t have to be the norm. If you are willing to listen to your partner, there won’t be needs for fights.

[karamalebro]

Arguing is aggression towards one another. You may argue, but shouldn't happen frequently. You can disagree without arguing.

[melissacopeland]

I've been in a relationship 23 years and thank God we don't argue at All.💯...we listen to one another and just talk about it giving each other time to make their point of view 💯...😊

[Aree_TD_]

I get what she’s saying but there’s a huge difference between not arguing so you don’t rock the boat and being able to have a civil mature disagreement and a conversation without it turning into fighting.

[chas]

I’m not arguing with anyone lol I’m walking away 💀

[LiteAsAFeather]

Healthy discussion and disagreement is normal. Yelling is a no no, but I don’t hear her encouraging abuse. I hear her stating there’s going to be communication that has to be received and resolved by both parties. 🥰

[avalonpark]

So true, how many times on Dateline we have heard "they never argued they never fought they were the perfect couple" and one of them ended up dead.

[deborahthemisses]

If you never voice your opinion or express yourself in a relationship either you being controlled or you just don't give a damn anymore. Always speak your mind that can be positive and even beneficial to bettering the relationship

[REALDEALJWAYNE]

My parents were married 54 yrs until he passed last January! He bragged about how him and my mom never had an argument nor fight! Had disagreements but always listened to eachother points and found common ground!

[divasamuels]

Married over 28 years, never argued. We are happy. We talk it out and respectfully discuss how we feel.

[ladym]

True...I was in a relationship where we never argued, so when he wanted us to break up I was so confused. This was because I was of the impression that everything was perfect.

[TheScoop]

I wouldn’t call it arguments more like disagreements are healthy

[catreenaharris]

Every relationship doesn't argue and it doesn't mean someone isn't happy. Communication is the key 🗝️. Arguing isn't healthy but communication is.

[RibCandywith_MinahandJay]

Okay maybe for the young heads, but for us old heads, we been there done that. We at a point in our life where we have argued enough in previous relationships. We have peace with each other and we love it. Agree to disagree talk it out and move on. ❤

[lps]

If you’re not open to communicate about matters that “bother” you, then there is no need for you to be in a relationship. There’s also ways to communicate without inciting an argument.

[mynameissusie]

Yessss!!!! but like she said it’s how you do it. You don’t have to be disrespectful to get your point across.

[newyorkaries]

She’s crazy you don’t need to argue with your partner it’s called happiness. you can disagree and talk about it but you don’t need to have an argument.

[anthonyminott]

This is true and it applies to all relationships.

[sarasmithson]

Open communication would be nice.
Honestly without compassion is brutality.
Without open communication
I can be brutally honest too

[hershedoll]

I agree 100 💯 percent! If I genuinely care about a person but there are issues, I am going to argue so that it can be laid out on the table and fixed. If a person keeps quiet just to keep the peace it doesn’t change the fact that there is an issue and if they are not willing to argue to fix it, then honestly it’s because they really could care less