SLD's & Pathological Narcissists #shortvideo #shortsvideo #shorts #short

Excerpt from Podcast with Brook Olsen.

ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG

Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops.

His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel with 27 million views and 275,000 subscribers and the sale of 165,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

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It would help if we knew what that was SLD

[virginiasturgeon]

That is how I finally got over my trauma bond with the covert narcissist ex. I realized that I must not love myself if I let this person hurt and abuse me, yet still felt I loved him. I looked at my inner child and worked on living her and keeping her safe from being hurt. I began to talk to myself in a kind loving way and treated myself how I had wished to be treated as a child. I grew to love myself more and more, and him less and less. Finally I was able to let go of the cruel abusive man that I thought I loved. I am now very kind to myself and never speak badly to myself. I treat me as I would a beloved friend. It's the only way I found to get rid of the trauma bond after living in the misery of over 20 years. I prayed to God to let me get over and past this cruel man, and He gave me the knowledge that I could heal myself. I do not mind being alone because I always have someone I love there- me♥️

[jaonmarymccormack]

😢❤totally agree. narcissist after narcissist.
Because my mother was a narcissist and I was her scapegoat and the scapegoat has zero self esteem. They learn that they have to earn love from someone who can't love parent who can't love and can't care for the scapegoat child. So I was attracted to the loveless narcissist who can't love and I felt I didn't deserve love and was unloveable. So these narcissists are natural relations of what I believed about myself.
I don't deserve love even if I try to earn it I won't get it because I have no self love. Narcissists thrive on co dependents .
Trauma bonding

[JesusChristMyLord]

I have a question Dr Rosenberg. Might it be, that people BECOME Self Love Deficit people after being with them, and weren’t ones before the relationship with the narcissist?

[LyndaHubbs]

Born with FASD and you’re right, my whole family and 2 x husbands and my own grown children are Narcs. Impossible relationships with these takers who seldom consider others.
They are dangerous to be around and damaging to one’s already poor self esteem.
Being neglected as a child and unloved, set me up for expecting nothing in marriage. If one’s childhood is void of love and interaction, you go into a marriage expecting the same.

[victoriavitoroulis]

It’s sad that we all have this trauma from a narc when we were young .. I feel I went from. The pot to the air fryer .. but the narc picked where my childhood abuser left off .. so sad .. when you can’t be 1000 % for your kids, bc they don’t know your being traumatized by some thing that suppose to protect us from the cruel world but they are the cruel world 😢

[maryadame]

I’m beginning to think that half the planet is narcissist and the other half is let’s say normal. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[maryw]

Thank you ❤ for sharing it helps to know

[creativemindsonja]

I think I am recovering. I just talket with narcisstic sister and didn't allowed to put me down.

[susanblanche]

Sometimes. I just want to be held. I feel we are all flawed, !!!! All these labels are nutty

[gaetanemcgraw]

You are describing me. This is the very first time I hear about this. What do I do now. I have just terminated my relationship with what I believe is a covert narcissist. I am thinking about ending my life.. I am unlovable..

[brendarewan]

He says SLD as bait. He knows everyone will be curious. Typical narc thing.

[basilalazzam]

Why? Why the SLD attracted to pathological narcissism, why feel alive only with these people!?, unbelievable,